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Justin

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

In case anyone wants to yell at me for whatever reason, good or bad, my AIM name is - JamesDeHand -I'm a standard slacker really. I'm halfway through school when I should be finished with it. But, things go at their own pace I suppose, and my pace has slowed down a little bit - yet I get by none the less and am happy enough doing it. I have abstained from television for nearly a year now...I doubt I've watched more than 5 hours of TV in the past 11 months. It's nice, I suggest everyone try it at least once in their life. Go out and read a book. At least go watch a movie or play a video game. Do something that grabs a hold of your attention for more than 30 minutes at a time. It's healthy, and it gives you a much greater understanding for other people when they get huffy about things taking too long. You can look at them and say "y'know what? It's all right man, that red light wont kill you. If the person needs to walk across the street, let him go without honking your horn at him. When you honk, it'll only make him take longer to move." Needless to say, it's very theraputic.

My Interests

Stuff that makes me think tends to get my blood flowing. A good book every now and then does a body good. So does a good film - even if it is a comedy that deals with dick and fart jokes - those have merit just as much as a shakespearan drama does, just a different kind. Music is always a point of interest, as it is for most people, and as it should be for everyone.

I'd like to meet:

Someone interesting. Someone who can make me smile, laugh, think, feel...Very basic stuff when you get right down to it. But, the problem lies in the fact that people don't actually talk anymore - they just patiently wait for their turn to bitch...and don't get me wrong, I love to bitch with the best of them, but just once I'd like to be able to be heard and understood rather than just getting a nod and a smile from some random passerby.

Music:

I used to be a big Clutch fan, but they don't like their true fans. In that same vein I like Kyuss, Orange Goblin, Queens of the Stone Age, Led Zepplin, Black Sabbath...etc...etc. I also like all sorts of other music. I was quite the gutter-punk in high school, and still have a ton of old cd's. Black Flag, Dead Kennedys, Bad Religion, Pennywise - you get the picture. Classic rock is also good. Boston is one of the best bands ever. I also have a penchant for estrogen driven music: Tori Amos, Ani Difranco (I dunno...maybe there's a bit more testostrone in that one), Portishead, I've even found myself liking some Dido. That's just a taste of course. There's always plenty more to mention, but there's no need to bore the masses with a huge list of bands.

Movies:

Movies are too varied to really put a list up. I like most genres of movies. Even kids movies have many redeeming qualities for older people to enjoy. Some of my favorites include classics a la Casablanca. Comedies generally go with a drier, wittier sort of humor. Kevin Smith movies are fantastic for this sort of thing - my personal favorite being Chasing Amy, but nothing beats Jay and Silent Bob Strikes Back for outright amusement. Drama runs the gamut - I'm a sucker for a good romance story, but I hate contrived plot hooks, I have to believe at least a little of what's going on in a movie. It's one thing to have magic or science fiction level technology, and it's an entirely different thing to believe that any woman could fall in love with Keanu Reeves...I mean seriously...

Television:

Like I said, I've abstained from TV for going on 11 months, not even news programs. So, in light of this, I don't really have a favorite any more. Though in times past I was a fan of the History Channel, and Comedy Central...Baisc college kid stuff.

Books:

I like reading poetry books. I think deep down inside I always wanted to be an English major, but just couldn't take the faculty at my university. W.B. Yeats is my favorite of the classics writers. I'm also a fan of the Romantics, though Wordsworth I could sorta do without. I also like Charles Bukowski - call me a chauvanist, but I'm a nice guy and that means that girls walk all over me, so if I can read about some 60 year old man who has sex with 20 year old women and kicks them to the curb in a poetic fashion, then hell yeah I'm gonna like it. Perhaps it's a way to live vicariously through other people, because I'm far too softhearted to do anything about it when I realize I'm getting used.I also read basic fiction and fantasy novels. Y'know, standard stuff. Though, I try to stay away from the serial writers - the types who churn out books one every 2 months or so.

Heroes:

I haven't met any heroes yet. But as plato says (and I'm paraphrasing here - badly) "anything good worth doing is worth doing in the public eye." So in that sense, I suppose I have. Firefighters are heroes for doing noble deeds on an everyday basis. But, for your average person, and I'm including myself in this observation, we are simply not heroes. If everyone did at least one thing of true worth every day they lived, the world would be a much better place.

My Blog

Been a while

Been a while since I've posted song lyrics (or *anything* else for that matter), so I thought I'd put up one that I've been digging recently.  Nearly a 17 minute epic folksy harpsist song, so bea...
Posted by Justin on Thu, 15 Mar 2007 11:51:00 PST

Stolen poem

Fingertips And rosesno, not rosesjust rose-colored lipsrosy pink cheeksbeautiful, yes?mine aren't so amazingso breathtakingbut yours capture mesecretly and slowlyso subtlelythat I was not even awareof...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Musings of a dated romantic

Remember when you were younger and the mere thought of hanging out with a guy/girl at the mall or park or whatever made you absolutely giddy inside? If you don't I feel sorry for you...One of the best...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

re-post of an old blog

1. Who are you? 2. Are we friends? 3. When and how did we meet? 4. Do you have a crush on me? 5. Would you kiss me? 6. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it. 7. Desc...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Couple new pictures - whatevah

You know the deal. Check 'em if you wanna.
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Hooray! An update! - Well...not really. Check it anyway.

Yeah, I realized that I don't post on here a whole lot, so I thought I'd get on here and actually do something. Of course that something is to post a blog saying I put a new picture up...but hey, no ...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

New pictures

Ahh yes, Monday nights. Gotta love when both of your friends bring cameras and take 100 or so shots of you. Put a few new ones up, feel free to comment.
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Ramblings of an insomniac

I hate the morning. To be honest, I hate anytime before noon...and even noon is pushing it. Maybe that's why I'm a terrible student, and can only work in restaruants where I don't have to be there unt...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

I know these are boring, but it's my blog so I'll post what I want

This song has been stuck in my head for days and days. "It's bugging me, grating me And twisting me around Yeah I'm endlessly caving in And turning inside out 'Cause I want it now I want it ...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Haven't posted in a while, so figured I'd update

Title says it all. Anyone who knows me probably knows of at least a few of my problems or issues, so I thought I'd update on what's goin' on with 'em. If you don't know...Then ask me, I'd be more ...
Posted by Justin on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST