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Mrs.Black

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Make an on-line slide show at www.OneTrueMedia.com .. I am the mother of two beautiful girls, Katelyn 5, and Gracie 2. I also have two great step kids, Dylan 7 and Makenna 4. I am married to a wonderful man named Shawn and my life is better than ever before. I've somehow been lucky enough to surround myself with the best and most caring group of friends and I feel very blessed to have them.My beautiful daughters and I all suffer from a urea cycle disorder called otc. The basic plot of it is that the liver is lacking the enzyme that breaks down protien. Without that enzyme or special medication your body will not rid itself of any protien and the protien will then turn into ammonia and start to poison your body. My daughter Katelyn had her first episode when she was four months old, I had no idea what was wrong with her and either did the doctors. She was airlifted to Riley Childrens Hospital where a very wonderful woman, Dr. Rebecca S. Wappner (God Rest Her soul) met us and saved her life. She was in a coma for a week, and they told me that IF she made it she would be completely brain dead. Today she is a very happy and healthy five year old, although she only functions at about a six month old level on most things she does love, laugh, cry, and communicate with us in her own way. Im so glad to have her in my life, she is so amazing and so strong. When I found out I was pregnant with Gracie I had an amnio to find out if she to would be affected, I recieved a phone call informing me that she did in fact have the disorder and also that I too have the disorder. It was upsetting but otc affects are treatable with a special diet so I still had high hopes that she would be fine. Right from birth she had high ammonia levels and was airlifted to Rileys where again Dr. Wappner saved my child life. For Five months Gracies symptoms were controlled and then one day she started to vomit and I took her to the er, her ammonia was 425, a normal ammonia is to be no higher than 80. We went back to Riley for a month, got everything under control and thank God we avoided brain damage. This is when we decided to do a Liver transplant with Gracie, its the only cure at this time. Three months later we got the call at three oclock in the morning on valentines day. We rushed to the er at Rileys and put Gracie through a battery of pre transplant test and before I was ready a nurse came in to take her. That was the most heartwrenching moment, I was so scared, and too see her little eyes begging for me why they carried her away was so hard. She came through the transplant like a champ and we took her home three weeks later. We were only home for one day when we knew something was wrong, so back to Riley we went and it was then that I found out that her kidneys had shut down and that her lungs were completely filled with fluid. I was told that she had coded three times and they didnt think she would make it. By some grace of God she suddenly started to respond to meds and after another month of up and downs she came home for good. She is now walking, talking, and causing all kinds of trouble. I love it! I have to thank God every day for not taking my babies. Its the worse pain Ive ever felt. For some reason he thought me worthy enough to raise these beautiful girls...My husband and I feel more than blessed.                       found this love layout at HOT FreeLayouts.com :: MyHotComments

My Interests

I am active in three different online support groups. www.nucdf.org a website for urea cycle disorders, www.classkids.org a website for pediatric liver disorder and transplant, and also www.liverfamily.net, a website for pediatric liver transplant families. I and my daughters are members of the Rare diseases clinical research network.

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I'd like to meet:

steven tyler, denzel washington, and my father in law......................

Heroes:

My children. They have been through so much pain and had to struggle so much and yet they still smile and laugh every day, I find so much inspiration in them. Also my husband because no matter how dark our lives have gotten he has always carried us through.

My Blog

This year has been pretty much amazing....

I got a great job that I absolutely LOVE, what's better than taking care of and teaching 10 amazing children every day? Also, Katelyn turned 6!!!! I can't believe she's 6!!!! This is the child who the...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Fri, 09 Nov 2007 06:16:00 PST

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Posted by Mrs.Black on Mon, 24 Sep 2007 06:38:00 PST

New job!

So last week I got a teaching position at a daycare, I take care of the one year olds. I have 8 little boys and 1 precious girl. I think I love this job more than anyone should love a job! I'm pretty ...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Thu, 23 Aug 2007 06:53:00 PST

This weekend!!

This weekend is our ONE YEAR WEDDING ANNIVERSARY!! Im really excited, I can't believe it's been a year. It flew by. I never thought I'd like being married this much. He's so great to me and to the kid...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Wed, 11 Jul 2007 10:41:00 PST

Holland...Land of tulips and tears....

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Fri, 25 May 2007 07:47:00 PST

Something that spoke to my heart....

The Special Mother by Erma Bombeck Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handica...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Fri, 25 May 2007 07:42:00 PST

It just hit me....

So as I sit here and contemplate the fact that Gracie is turning two tomarrow my mind started to wander. I was thinking of all that she has been through, all the Katelyn has been through. Then I start...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Thu, 24 May 2007 05:46:00 PST

Feeling Blessed...

So I just wanted to take a minute to thank everyone in my life....for being a positive presense in it....I have a couple of girls....people that I love and trust very much, you ladies know who yo...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Fri, 04 May 2007 02:28:00 PST

My Hubby!

Not to much to say about him other than he's AMAZING!! I just love him. I have never in my life had anyone support me the way he does. No questions...no doubts....just love and support.  I feel s...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Thu, 05 Apr 2007 06:15:00 PST

what a year

Well, its official, Gracie has reached the one year post transplant mark!! Yeah for Gracie!! Her transplant cordinator called me from Indy today to celebrate, she knows how hard a road its been for he...
Posted by Mrs.Black on Wed, 14 Feb 2007 03:31:00 PST