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About Me

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something. I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it. I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.Extended Network Banner made with MyBannerMaker.com! Click here to make your own!

My Interests

I LIKES waking up early and seeing the sunrise, cat naps, rainy days, turkey and swiss on cinnamon raisin bread, touching shiny objects, singing in my car, sleep pants, people who have opinions but aren't obnoxious, singing in my shower, old beat up shoes, camera phones, bumps, nursing- most rewarding thing in my life, laughter, catholocism (on my own terms), violin music, walking around bare foot, puppies, wrestling, rough house, teasing, being sarcastic, clothing, flowers, cooking, ridiculously long showers, opera, jumping rope, snow storms, folding fresh laundry. i dont likes Guest soaps, ketchup, cramming for exams, flying, soggy cereal, "My Sweet 16", people who are plastic, bologna, going to bed early, italian bread, people who know too much, shitty disc jockeys, tighty whities, drama, polka, wearing shoes, sleeping with clothes on, baggage.

I'd like to meet:

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

Music:

Maroon 5, Gavin Degraw, Postal Service, Madonna, Howie Day, Dido, Ani, Sarah, Tori, Eta James, Third Eye Blind, John Mayer, Mariah, Switchfoot, Hoobastank

Movies:

Death Becomes Her, Troy, Avengers, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Housesitter, Mean Girls, Team America, Saved, Two Can Play At That Game, 101 Dalmations, Mary Poppins, Sliding Doors, Royal Tanenbaums,Superman,Sream,Star Wars,She's The Man

Television:

Law And Order, ER, Will And Grace, Passions, lots of the History Channel

Books:

20000 Leagues Under The Sea, Trinity, Any thing from Stephen King, The Wind Done Gone, The Giver, Number The Stars, Wuthering Hieghts