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Tomekia

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About Me


I'm an open soul still searching for my genius. In other words, I still yearn to realize the promise of my full human potential.
I've traversed eight years-the core of my twenties-on the road to become a practicing physician. At times I lament, but overall, I take seriously the art of medicine and appreciate a skill set with utility in any culture and geographic setting.
To awaken at dawn on a weekend I'm not on-call is bliss!
I love the sound, smell and feel of rain.
The concept of Yoga insires me, but if I have to do "Downward Facing Dog" one more time I'll scream!
I love dessert and can't keep Oreo's in the house lest I'm willing to sac a good week of healthy cuisine and kick-ass running(pardon the lingo).
Afro-cuban latin jazz and carribean sounds ignite me! My family and friends are my world and continually re-align my purpose in life.I honor the story of my people and my heritage largely defines me.
I buy women's health and fitness magazines to keep me inspired as I strive to evolve as an even healthier and physically balanced person. I get stronger every year.
Life is beautiful...I'm thankful to be a part of this amazing journey!
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My Interests

A career-based relocation swapped familiar southern scenery to the wide open golden landscape of the desert Southwest.

Saturday morning jogs in Peidmont Park, Brazilian sounds at Loca Luna, Smooth lounge grooves at Halo Lounge now replaced by relaxation retreats in Sedona, star gazing on a Friday night, ski weekends in Colorado, and hiking ancient canyons of Arizona.

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Basics:
Name: Tomekia
Date of Birth: Spring of 75'
Birthplace: The South
Current Location: The Southwest
Eye Color: Dark Brown
Hair Color: Dark Brown
Height: 5'9''
Heritage: African American
Piercings: Navel
Tattoos: Only in thought
Favourite:
Band/Singer: Several
Song: Numerous
Movie: Many
Disney Movie: The Chronicles of Narnia
TV show: Law and Order & CSI
Color: Flame Orange
Food: Sushi, Thai, Ethiopian
Pizza topping: Cheese
Ice-Cream Flavor: Cookies and Cream & Butter Pecan
Drink (alcoholic): Red wine
Soda: Diet Coke
Store: TJ Maxx, Target, World Market
Clothing Brand: Any that fits well
Shoe Brand: Etonics (my running shoe)
Season: Spring (I like snow too if I'm skiing)
Month: December (I love the holiday season and the arrival of New Year's)
Holiday/Festival: Christmas and New Year's
Flower: Orchid
Make-Up Item: Eye Liner
Board game: Chess
This or That
Sunny or rainy: Sunny
Chocolate or vanilla: Chocolate
Fruit or veggie: Fruit
Night or day: Day
Sour or sweet: Sweet
Love or money: Love
Phone or in person: In person
Looks or personality: Personality
Coffee or tea: Coffee
Hot or cold: Hot
Your:
Goal for this year: Save more money
Most missed memory: Saturday morning jogs down Peachtree St
Best physical feature: Arms-Shoulders-Back...soon to be legs
First thought waking up: I'm thankful for another day of existence
Hypothetical personality disorder: Ohhh....uhhh....I'm not tellin'
Preferred type of plastic surgery: Umm...wow..that's personal!
Sesame street alter ego: Now how many female major characters were there? I'm not sayin' I'm a pig!
Fairytale alter ego: Cat Woman
Most stupid remark: Refer to my answer during the "Miss Georgia Teen Pageant"
Worst crime: Hey...no rap sheet here!
Greatest ambition: To understand and be at peace with the true meaning of life
Greatest fear: Dying without truly understanding and being at peace with the true meaning of life
Darkest secret: It shall stay as one (lol!)
Favorite subject: Spirituality
Strangest received gift: My grandmother's "thrift store- hand me down" night gown at Christmas (She drives a brand new Cadillac)
Worst habit: Coffee and Carbs (i.e. ice cream)
Do You:
Smoke: No
Drink: Socially
Curse: Sometimes
Shower daily: Of course...sometimes twice
Like thunderstorms: Absolutely
Dance in the rain: Nope
Sing: My dad does
Play an instrument: Violin as a youngin'
Get along with your parents: Most of the time
Wish on stars: I wish but not on stars
Believe in fate: Yep
Believe in love at first sight: yes
Can You:
Drive: Not until medical school...can you believe that!
Sew: A button
Cook: When inspired
Speak another language: A bit of broken Obstetric Spanish and three words in Navajo
Dance: Old school R&B and Salsa
Sing: I've already answered that
Touch your nose with your tongue: Ah nope
Whistle: yes
Curl your tongue: slightly
Have You Ever:
Been Drunk: few times in college...I'd like to call is super buzzed (lol!)
Been Stoned/High: No drugs man...
Eaten Sushi: All the time
Been in Love: absolutely
Skipped school: No
Made prank calls: No
Sent someone a love letter: Of course
Stolen something: A Heart here and there (lol!)
Cried yourself to sleep: Yes
Other Questions:
What annoys you most in a person? Depends on the person
Are you right or left handed? Right
What is your bedtime? Depends on if I'm on-call
Name three things you can't live without: Air, food, water
What is the color of your room? White walls, Moroccan dark wood furniture
Do you have any siblings? A fraternal twin sister, older brother
Do you have any pets? Jasmine...my boxer (recently found a new home for my two cats)
Would you kill someone you hate for a million dollars? Of course not
What is you middle name? Same as my mother's
What are you nicknames? Meka, Twin, Doc, Tomekialynn, "T"
Are you for or against gay marriage? For
What are your thoughts ..ion? Think about it....I'm an OBGYN
Do you have a crush on anyone? Yes...the amazing gentleman in my photos
Are you afraid of the dark? Depends on where I am...if in an alley...yeah!
How do you want to die? Feeling at peace about my life
What is the largest amount of popsicles that you have eaten on one day? probably two...now ask me about bowls of ice cream
Would you take a bullet for the one you love? Hope that won't have to happen
What is the last law you’ve broken? Speed Zone
In a Member of the Opposite Sex:
Hair color: Depends on the person
Eye color: Ditto
Height Six feet and/or more
Weight Just be healthy
Most important physical feature: Height
Biggest turn-off Arrogance & Possessiveness
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Music:

Jazz, Blues, Soul(especially late 90's to now), Neosoul, Good Ol' Dirty South Rap, R&B, African, Afro-Cuban Jazz, Nu-Jazz, Carribean, House, World Music, Lounge (Especially Buddha Bar and Brazilian Lounge!) Country since Jennifer became a part of Sugarland!

Movies:

I like any film or documentary that educates, informs, inspires and exposes. Recently...Born into Brothels, Water by Deepa Mehta, Tsostie, Babel. Modern black dramas like The Best Man, Madea's Family Reunion

Television:

LINK tv, Intervention, Law and Order, Take Home Chef, The Dog Whisperer, CSI, Monk, Cable News

Books:

Classic African American Women's Literature (Zora Neal Hurston, Nikki Giovanni, Maya Anegelou, Toni Morrsion, Alice Walker)
Other recent reads: Spiritual Nutrition, The Mastery of Love, The Four Aggreements, Biography of Alice Walker, Eating to Live, Suzie Orman YFB, Autobiography of a Yogi and a mood-based assortment of magazines.

Heroes:

The amazing women listed above...my parents, Martin Luther King, Oprah Winfrey-the first black woman billionaire in history, my ancestors...the brave and beautiful souls who perservered the Afro-Global slave trade...




My Blog

Renewal

Tomorrow is another sacred and powerful opportunity to live...
Posted by Tomekia on Fri, 25 Apr 2008 09:04:00 PST

Rose petals in my blood

A simple square tea bag.  Mint green color with a shadowed impression of a Japanese structure with stacked swerved edges standing amidst misty mountains and lush gardens.  "Good Earth" in si...
Posted by Tomekia on Sat, 08 Mar 2008 11:57:00 PST

The bull and the bull-headed

It is only a matter of time before days old water-soaked remnants of crock pot stewed red beans can sit on the kitchen counter before the stench breaks the perpertual "I'll wash the the dishes tomorro...
Posted by Tomekia on Tue, 22 Jan 2008 06:43:00 PST

Emerson does it again..

Be not the slave of your own past. Plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience that shall explain ...
Posted by Tomekia on Sun, 13 Jan 2008 06:18:00 PST

Sack Full of Dreams

This moment... Just got home after an uneventful but busy day at work. Had a patient hug me and tell me I was wonderful...I grin (it makes work so much more rewarding!) Drove my "res" mom home (she li...
Posted by Tomekia on Fri, 07 Dec 2007 05:24:00 PST

CSI

An attracting quote from CSI tonight:  "What we are never changes. Who we are never stops changing." Salut!
Posted by Tomekia on Mon, 29 Oct 2007 06:10:00 PST

Raw Hide Dog Bones

At times I feel like my dog Jasmin runs through raw hide doggie bones like I run through my favorite "Zebra" fine point pens.  I know I just opened a fresh two-count pack of  "Zebra" pens ...
Posted by Tomekia on Sun, 28 Oct 2007 09:57:00 PST

Real Medicine...

Recent account from Meredith regarding her work in the Congo with international humanitarian organization Medecins Sans Frontieres (MSF)-Doctors Without Borders. ...Yes the staple food here is ma...
Posted by Tomekia on Sun, 30 Sep 2007 10:47:00 PST

Storm Winds

Last night I ran with the storm winds.  Tree leaves jangled as dazzling chimes aside me.  Leading me, my own shadow, birthed from the high moon.  Lightning in the distant...
Posted by Tomekia on Sat, 25 Aug 2007 10:17:00 PST

Farewell to Miss Meredith

Quote of the day...from my daddy... "well you know what they say...'you can fix the whole world if people aren't concerned about who gets the credit...' " This conversation evolved out of discuss...
Posted by Tomekia on Mon, 25 Jun 2007 07:25:00 PST