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Erin James

I only kiss girls; sorry guys.

About Me


My name is Erin and I live in central Florida. I am a transgirl and a lesbian; been living fulltime since November 2005 and I started transitioning when I was 23. It's been a rather smooth transition because of amazing friends, family and a supportive job.

Honestly, not to sound bitchy, but if you want to get to know me, make me interested in talking to you. Half-ass messages like, "What do you do for fun?" or "Tell me about yourself." are boring, lame and won't capture my attention because really, it's probably the same questions you ask every other person without any thought.

It's not hard to talk to me, really. If you just wanna say something it's cool. The above rant is more for the people who live a 1000 miles away from me, and expect me to open up to a stranger like they're my best friend. Sorry, you gotta seem interested in getting to know me if you wanna know me. It's always nice to get a hello with a friend request :)

I'm not a friend whore and don't expect me to litter your profile with comments because I really just don't do it. I don't comment back just because you left a comment on my page somewhere. I appreciate the time anyone takes to read my profile, and check out my photos. I'll respond to 99% of all messages. The ones I won't are the ones that I describe later.

My Interests

cycling, the outdoors, friends, movies, environment, helping others, technology, socializing, dive bars

I'd like to meet:

Just about anyone really. I particularly would like to meet people that live in Tampa, St. Petersburg, or Clearwater area who are "around" my age.

I prefer women, trans or not. What's between someone's legs doesn't define who they are and doesn't make a difference to me.

Guys, I'll friend you but please don't send messages asking for my number, getting together (cause we all know you really don't just wanna be friends), or hooking up. I promise, if you send a message like that, I'll delete without reply. I'm spent trying to be nice to y'all and all I get in return is that you'll turn me straight... *sigh*

Music:

Pop and rock.

Movies:

I really like drama movies the most and I am not into horror.

Television:

Most anything on the Discovery Channel, Science Channel, HGTV, CSI, Scrubs, It's Always Sunny in Philly, Dead Like Me, Law and Order, Seinfield, The Office