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Lan

I am here for Friends

About Me

there are three things you have to understand about me:
1. i want everyone to like me, but i will not compromise myself to please another
2. i believe everyday i live i become a better person by experience
3. i know i am not perfect, but i strive to realize my potential

My Interests

automobiles, dancing, exercise, fashion, karaoke, massages, live performances (ballet/modern, opera/symphony, and theatre), reading & writing, outdoor adventures and video games (not so much anymore)

I'd like to meet:

anyone that can write a full sentence response when they send me a message for the first time. =P

Music:

celine dion, christina aguilera, coldplay, the eagles, earth wind and fire, the fray, janet jackson, journey!!!

Movies:

empire of the sun, the fifth element, babel, james and the giant peach, dangerous liasons, the joy luck club, the messenger, lust caution

Television:

gray's anatomy, friends, first ten seasons of real world, golden girls (i used to watch it with my grandma)

Books:

anything by mitch albom or toni morrison

Heroes:

the girl that brought me to san francisco

My Blog

something about control

the war of creation i saw the world for what it was and told people otherwise... they believed me and saw the world not through my eyes but through my words. as i spoke i moved people, their passions...
Posted by Lan on Tue, 24 Jun 2008 01:47:00 PST

something about gender communication

Leveling the Hierarchy What comes out of one’s mouth is not nearly as important as what goes in another’s ear. In the varying world of wayward and structured speech the impediments of gend...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 09:19:00 PST

something about kisses and tears

the first kiss "should i do it?" i was asking myself that question when we first met. i kept looking at him and smiling... not knowing whether or not i had been making a good impression. we met at the...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 09:16:00 PST

something about the first

you were my first, though you probably didn’t know because of the way i carried myself. i often made it seem like i was well versed in this world that i guaranteed to you. it was only by sheer i...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 09:01:00 PST

something about breakups

in life sometimes we think that after letting go we can continue to mature. we believe retracting our grasp and letting the other free is right, but in the back of our minds we hope they will not go t...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 08:58:00 PST

something about affairs

hearts of fancy do you believe me when i say "i love you"...we're in each others arms. passionate kisses so violently exchanged; i can hardly breath. no grasp of him available. we're glistening in eac...
Posted by Lan on Thu, 31 Jan 2008 07:43:00 PST

something about apologies

apologies dear an,    i'm sorry that i made you worry about me so many times. i know that you've always wanted what's best for me, that's why you brought me with you to san francisco becaus...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 09:51:00 PST

something about dancing

waking up as a dancer i used to wake up with the intention of discovering new movement to add to my body's vocabulary. as a child i expanded my range of motions with little restraint because at the ti...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 09:11:00 PST

something about men

le tigre there is a tiger; a beast that knows no master. to be among the few that witness this beast in his entirety is to be locked in an unrelenting trepidation. there is no escape from his ferocity...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 09:10:00 PST

something about love

love doesn't just happen, sometimes it's more simple than difficult. but the resurgence of love in our limited existences proves that it does happen. but when does it happen? or even more important, h...
Posted by Lan on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 09:07:00 PST