well, i think ive got it figured out... ok, no i dont..but here is my opinion. its nice to be the sweet person but eventually your kindness gets strongly mistaken for weakness. people begin to look at you as the "go to guy" and then the requests get bigger and bigger and thats where the snowball effect comes into play. eventually you have to be the asshole in order to draw a line. my advice, draw the line from the beginning, if rules and boundaries are established, no one will end up hurt in the long run. im not saying be an asshole, there is a rigid dichotomy between being an asshole and being the person that is there for you to an extent. sweet people will have many friends, just remember that quality is better than quantity.Get a spiffy layout like this at My Space or Yours?
My Interests
I'd like to meet:
People who arent afraid to speak their mind...also, it would be nice to meet someone that loves horses as much as i do!
