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I love to read, write, dance, watch television and COOK! I am also very interested in helping today's youth see the more positive ways of life because I am very active in my children's lives and their education so I feel that for those children that don't have parents that feel the same way, one person can make a difference!
BILL CLINTON! Don't ask me why. I just think it would be cool to me our FIRST BLACK PRESIDENT! I would also like me to meet Oprah Winfrey, I just think she would be a great person to talk to. She has accomplished so much in her life as a black woman. I also like to meet Hillary Clinton...GO Hillary '08! Now if I could go back in time I would like to meet Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. but since that's not possible I'd settle for his son Dexter (now there's a FINE MAN)!! I would also like to meet a great chef like Emeril or The Iron Chef to get a few more cooking tips/recipes. They are the bomb with a skillet!
I love Old School (Rap & Hip-Hop), R&B and Jazz. I also love Contemporary Gospel.
Right now I'm stuck on DREAMGIRLS... It was so good because it was truly a meaningful movie about how DREAMS CAN COME TRUE! Now if you wanna laugh...NORBIT is the funniest damn movie you ever wanna see!! GO NORBIT, GO NORBIT!!
I don't really watch as much tv as I use to...I'm usually too tired. Besides that the only thing on is REALITY TV and if I wanted to look at that everyday I could carry around a camcorder and record my own life!!
I haven't read any good books lately however I'm up for suggestions. My last book was TD Jakes, "God's Leading Lady", it was good though. I am more of a magazine/article person, at least lately anyway.
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If I had to talk about my heroes I would have three. Starting with my mom because she instilled so much in me and she is a STRONG WOMAN. She has ALWAYS been there for me and there is not anything that I can't ask her for or come to her about. She is one of my BEST FRIENDS. My dad because he instilled in me the courage to fight for what I believe in and to not back down from anyone..sometimes this has caused us to bump heads but he knows that I got it honest and soon we are okay. And last but not least my Aunt Rita. Nothing can stop this woman..not even breast cancer. She battled head on and WON! She is a SURVIVOR in all ways and she is like my other mother. I thank God everyday for her and my mother being sisters and him allowing me to be a part of her life. They are all icons in my life and I love them all so very much!RULES OF THUMB FOR THE AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN...If a man wants you, NOTHING can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay!!Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before you find out what makes you truly happy.If your relationship ends because your man was not treating you the way you deserve to be treated, then HELL NO, You can't "BE HIS FRIEND". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Don't settle.If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is! Don't stay because you think "IT WILL GET BETTER", because you'll be mad at yourself a year later for when things are WORSE!! The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Never depend on a man to take care of YOU! Always have YOUR OWN money!Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he want to marry YOU?Always have your own set of friends that are separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.Never let a man know everything. He could use it against you later.You can't change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or is in a better job.Do not make him into a quasi-God. HE IS A MAN, nothing more nothing less.Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you!!A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the on doing all the work...compromise is a two way street.You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...so deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone to compliment...not supplement!Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.Never date a man who still lives in his mother's house.Never co-sign for anything for a man. He should be stable enough to get it on his OWN!Finally, don't fully commit to a man who can't give you everything that you NEED (not WANT).Share this with other women. You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.GOD BLESS YOU, MY SISTA!