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Cali-Steven

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

At this point in my life, my major focus is on continuing my education and pursuing my degrees..yes, it's plural. I go to school, I work, and don't really have time to deal with drama anymore. I'm over it. Really. My family is extremely important and if it wasn't for their advice, I probably would've already lost my mind. They keep me grounded and I love them to death. Friends are also important to me. I've come to realize that people come into our lives for a purpose and they won't necessarily be there tomorrow. My friends are dear to me, but I know that relationships change due to a variety of reasons. I take each friendship as a valuable learning experience and hope to grow from it. I'm currently looking to broaden my horizons and go to school outside of California. It could be the best decision i've ever made, or it could be the worst, but i'm excited to figure it out. Just keeping my options open at the moment for that. I love travelling and can only hope that I can continue doing so this year. I'm always figuring out something new about myself and hopefully some of you will be along for the ride.
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My Interests

Right now all I have time for is school and work, but travel is something that definitely interests me and hopefully i'll get to do more of it soon!

I'd like to meet:

Strong individuals who know who they are and are unwilling to change themselves for anybody else. Genuine people are the easiest to get along with... If I feel like you're not being genuine, chances are i'll slowly cut you off. I like people who can keep me engaged in conversation for more than 5 minutes and beyond the usual small talk. Ask me about politics, religion...that'll spark my interest and if I think you're interesting, that's huge! haha. Just be real, that's all I can ask for.

Music:

Janet Jackson, 112, Britney Spears, 112, Aaliyah, Atreyu, My Chemical Romance, Foo Fighters, Offspring, Danity Kane, PCD, Aerosmith, Kelly Clarkson, Christina Aguilera, Alicia Keys, The Bravery, Black Eyed Peas, Justin Timberlake, Carrie Underwood, Ciara, Destiny's Child, Dropkick Murphy's, Faith Hill, All American Rejects, No Doubt, Hilary Duff, Jason Mraz, Plain White T's, J-lo, Jessica Simpson, Keane, Jimmy Eat World, Damien Rice, Lauryn Hill, The Killers, Madonna, Kylie Minogue, Maroon 5, Spice Girls, Nelly Furtado, Outkast, Natasha Bedingfield, Daniel Bedingfield, Pink, Quitedrive, REM, Duran Duran, Shania Twain, Rihanna, Smashing Pumpkins, Von Bondies, TLC....you get the point.

Movies:

Pretty Woman, Brokeback Mountain, Ghost, 27 Dresses, Coyote Ugly, Breakfast Club, Moulin Rouge, Donnie Darko, Good Will Hunting, Cloverfield, X-men trilogy, Chicago, Transformers, Armageddon, LOTR trilogy, My Best Friends Wedding, Thelma & Louise, Pearl Harbor, The Incredibles, Keeping the Faith, Underworld, To Wong Foo..., American History X, Monster In Law, Dogma, Mean Girls, The Notebook, Girl Interrupted, Gladiator, Hotel New Hampshire, Risky Business, Top Gun, Clueless, Varsity Blues... it's a long list.

Television:

CSI (the original, not all the spin-offs), Make Me A Supermodel, Without A Trace, Heroes, Project Runway, Real World, The Gauntlet, Nip/Tuck, Making the Band, SNL, Grey's Anatomy.

Books:

John Grisham and Tom Clancy are my favs.

Heroes:

My mom.

My Blog

Bittersweet

Graduations are always a bittersweet moment. There is the joy and happiness that comes in knowing someone who is graduating because we often feel like they've done something that we want to do. Not to...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sun, 18 May 2008 12:51:00 PST

Drinking just leads to blogging

I've come to realize certain things about myself: I seem to carry my heart on my sleeve and hope against all odds that it isn't the going to come back and haunt me... but it always does. Yet, I keep p...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Wed, 14 May 2008 12:16:00 PST

Some things never change

like my retarded faith in people
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sat, 10 May 2008 10:42:00 PST

Keep on trucking

Isn't it funny how quickly life can change your perception about your life without giving you time to prepare for it? Change is inevitable, and it's something that I actually do look forward to. ...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sat, 03 May 2008 12:33:00 PST

It’s in my mind

Dreams are so fascinating to me. I find myself always trying to find some sort of message or relevance in all the dreams that I have. Some of the time I simply write it off as my mind wandering and pl...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Mon, 14 Jan 2008 11:18:00 PST

Just do it

I've come to realize that alot of my blogs recently talk about life and what my perspective on it is. I don't think I set out to reflect on life, but as my fingers begin to type, the wheels in my brai...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sat, 12 Jan 2008 01:41:00 PST

Taking the Lead

It's almost hard to believe that 2007 is finally behind us. A year goes by so quickly, it's almost like a blur when it passes you by. As I look back on 2007, I re-visit so many moments and emotions th...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sun, 06 Jan 2008 12:26:00 PST

"I don’t belong here..."

I'm having one of my typical restless nights. I hate these nights. They always seem to come around when I need to rest the most, or when i've got to wake up early in the morning. It's sort of irritati...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sun, 23 Dec 2007 12:40:00 PST

My Realizations

1. I have come to realize that my butt: has its own zipcode2. I have come to realize that when I talk: I can't stop3. I have come to realize that, if I love someone: I let them hurt me too much4. I ha...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 05:27:00 PST

Nothing much

Life has been crazy hectic for me lately. Between school and work, I haven't really had too much time to just sit down and relax. But tonight i'm feeling a little restless, so I figured i'd write a bl...
Posted by Cali-Steven on Sat, 03 Nov 2007 01:01:00 PST