Guitar, soccer (but I'm getting too old for it!), golf, hiking, nature, music, restaurants.
Anyone open and honest and non-soliciting.
Big spectrum. Slayer. Hot Tuna. System of a Down. The Prodigy. Blues. John Francis (google him...) Opsound.com
Drama/adventure. Gritty stuff, like Blackhawk Down, City of God.
The Shield. Lost.
"Fisherman's Son" by Michael Koepf -- sort of a Jack London adventure. "Against All Enemies" by Richard Clarke. "Kindred" Octavia E. Butler. "The World Is Flat" Thomas L.Friedman. H.P.Lovecraft, Stephen King, and other horror genre. Also into fantasy: read Tolkien trilogy multiple times, Robert Jordan, George R.R.Martin, Terry Goodkind, L.E.Modesitt, Stephan R. Donaldson. Love adventure: Joseph Conrad, Patrick O'Brien, Jack London.
Richard A. Clarke. Jimi Hendrix. Bill Clinton. John McLaughlin (the musician/guitarist).