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Malachai

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About Me

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My Interests

"I believe that the mind can be permanently profaned by the habit of attending to trivial things... Read not the Times, read the Eternities." -- Henry David Thoreau ... grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference ...."The truth is that there is nothing noble about being superior to someone else. The only nobility is in being superior to your former self." ~Whitney Young (1921-1971)

I'd like to meet:

PEOPLE IN SAN DIEGO , Ocean Beach a definate plus. people who respect their bodies and the minds and emotions of others; people who like to laugh / travel / play / dance / surf / engage in quality conversation / make the right decisions / help others. Tomboys ALWAYS welcome!!! Only the truly goodhearted wanted here........................................................ ............................................................ ............................................................ .........................*~* IN LOVING MEMORY *~*~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~*Wanna Play?*~

Music:

Kink Kooba, Federico Aubele, anything Om Recordings,Gotan Project, G-Spliff, Pink Floyd, world lounge, trip hop, Radiohead, some deep house, jazz, breakbeats, jungle, some trance, Beastie Boys, Moby, Grover Washington Jr. (Rest In Peace, Doug.... you are thought of often and sorely missed), Hooverphonics, Switchblade Symphony, Three Days' Grace, D.J.'s Mike Fuller "The Funkler" & Robert Oleysyck, Alice In Chains, classical, drum and bass, Tricky, Massive Attack, Esthero, DJ's Crush and Craze, Wookie ~ whatever elevates my state of mind

Movies:

God Grew Tired Of Us, Who Killed The Electric Car, An Inconvenient Truth, A Crude Awakening, Foreign films, Kill Bill 1 & 2 , The Fox and the Hound, Thelma and Louise, Hero, Kaena, House of Sand and Fog, The Dark Crystal, What Dreams May Come, Children of Men

Television:

(As rarely as possible, but...) ~ The West Wing (hate politics, love this show. twisted.) Discovery Health / Medical Channel, 24, Grey's Anatomy, House, ER, Lost, Dancing with the Stars (although I wish it were more dancing, less stars), Private Practice, Pushing Daisies (that girl is adorable, I want to be her when I grow up)

Books:

100 years of Solitude, Angela's Ashes, Tuesdays with Morrie, Anaiis Nin, The Color Purple, An Extraordinary Work of Heartbreaking Genius (the best part of which was the title), Apathy and Other Small Victories"Because our lives are not circular, we can never go back to where we've been" . . . excerpt from Best Friends, I forget who wrote it. I always read it as *who* we've been.

Heroes:

*/MLK, George Bush (just kidding. I mean SERIOUSLY. What a JOKE), trauma surgeons, animal/human rights/environmental activists (bless them for dedicating the time that I do not), true friends, single moms and dads, boyfriends who can actually take my shit, and tourettes guy (www.tourettesguy.com)Happiness is like a butterfly ~ if you chase it, it will flutter away from you, always just beyond your grasp; yet, if you sit quietly and patiently enough, waiting, it may come and alight upon your shoulder.
~ NOT ALL WHO WANDER ARE LOST ~"I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)"Those who dream by day are cognizant of things which elude those who dream only by night" ~Edgar Allen Poe (1809-1849)"The more things change the more they remain insane" ~Michael Fry and T. Lewis"There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered" ~Nelson Mandela "Nearly all men can handle adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power" ~Abraham Lincoln*PUERTO RICO**THE ROCKY MOUNTAINS*"...FAITHLESS IS HE THAT SAYS FAREWELL WHEN THE ROAD DARKENS" ~J.R.R. TOLKIEN (1892-1973)SALSIPUEDES - ~"Leave if you can" ~ MEXICO CINQUE TERRE - ITALY ~ the width of the trail at points ~ ~ Where we began, Monterosso, the first of the 5 fishing villiages of Cinque Terre ~ ~ The second villiage, Vernazza from the North as we approached ~ ~ Vernazza, from the South as we were leaving ~ ~ More Veranazza ~ ~ Entering the first villiage ... ~ ~ Corniglia in the distance, and 2 others behind it. We didn't make it to the last 2 because an avalanche had closed the trail, but just to hike between the 3 we saw (and stop for lunch) took an entire day, and then we were off to NeuChatel, Switzerland. ~ ... the sun as it rose over Monterosso ... ~ ~ ... and as it set over Corniglia. ~ ~ This cart winds like a roller coaster through the cliffs and grape orchards - apparantly it's used to collect the fruit. Who knew? Tragically, we couldn't figure out how to get it started. ~ ..
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My Blog

Foreclosures

So here it is, the part where all of those adjustable rate mortgages taken out a few years ago become too costly for people to afford. Defaults are on the rise and a buyers' market is upon us. This is...
Posted by Malachai on Fri, 18 Aug 2006 12:36:00 PST

Rent Vs. Buy Spreadsheet - everyone should see this.

http://www.southlandtitle.com/downloads/pdf.asp?id=268
Posted by Malachai on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 03:56:00 PST

July 4th adventures

So check this out. We get off the yacht after a night of fireworks on the bay and entirely too much to drink.We call a cab. He doesn't come.We start to walk, figuring a cab will appear eventually, pre...
Posted by Malachai on Wed, 05 Jul 2006 01:23:00 PST

Real Estate Agent - to use or not to use

A lot of people prefer to purchase or sell a property without the use of an agent, to save themselves money. Unless you've been through several transactions and are well-versed on the ever-changing la...
Posted by Malachai on Fri, 09 Jun 2006 01:37:00 PST

PR - Nov 15th or 16th

We depart for Puerto Rico tomorrow. Last night I couldn't sleep - I kept thinking about the Surf N Board, a surfer's Bed N Breakfast, that will be one of the many places we stay at during our time the...
Posted by Malachai on Mon, 23 Jan 2006 09:35:00 PST

the best man ever (and he's mine ??? )

Forgive me but I'm feeling the need to take a moment and express to the world exactly how awesome my baby is. I've never seen anyone so willingly take on the problems of another person. He looks after...
Posted by Malachai on Wed, 02 Nov 2005 01:09:00 PST

The Awakening

The Awakening.. There comes a time in your life when you finally get it... When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries...
Posted by Malachai on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

reoccurance

I had that dream again last night,the one where my teeth are falling out, the one that is said to represent my own death. It began with my right canine, I felt it wiggling more and more under the pres...
Posted by Malachai on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

crisis over

Dear God, Thank you Thank you Thank you for my period today. Amen & Hallelujah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Malachai on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

untold

Did you know that you are everything that I never thought I'd find again?
Posted by Malachai on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST