Directing (film, theatre, performance and fire), Making Art with others, Dancing, Gothic/Industrial lifestyle, Computers as Tools, Polymory, Domination, Glory, Honor, Becoming
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Dresden Dolls, Minor Threat, Snake River Conspiracy, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Project Pitchfork, Bauhaus, VNV Nation, The Cure, Black Flag, Smiths, Wumpscut, Psychedelic Furs, Rammstein, Dead Can Dance, Apoptygma Berzerk, Covenant, Leaether Strip, Portishead, Sex Pistols, The Damned, and so much more.....
Camille Claudell, The Cook the Thief his Wife and Her Lover...Start there then we will talk more. I have watched well over 3000 films so listing my favorites would take a book.
Buffy, Angel, Smallville, Dead Like Me and have more then a passing fancy for sitcoms....sue me.
Anything by H.P. Lovecraft, Desade, Anais Nin, Asimov, Clive Barker and Heinlein. Some stuff by Ann Rice and Henry Miller. I liked the Series The Destroyer, Conan, LOTR and Blue Adept. Then there is my library of erotica but that is mine.
Deathlock, Bettie Paige, The Dragon King, Kubrik