I am searching for a committed relationship - I am not a "player". If you're looking for a different guy to date each week, count me out. I'm looking for that indescribable "click" that happens when you meet someone extraordinary. Qualities that I find attractive are loving, kind, considerate, spiritual, open-minded, positive outlook, warm, affectionate, good listener, accepting, likes to travel, artistic, joyous, intelligent, appreciative, generous, genuine, a sense of humor, honesty, integrity, passion and a great kisser ... Hey, I know this is a big list, and I recognize that no one may have all of these qualities. But at least you know what I find attractive. I am not attracted to overweight women.