MsBernie

about me Just doing my thing. I'm just your typical gal. Nice, but not too nice. I can kick your ass if necessary. Some say I am quirky... I prefer special. I am a dork... sue me. Show me love, kindness, and respect, and I will show you the same. Win my heart and I will adore you forever... I am a very loyal person. Shy but easygoing and easy to get along with. I tend to get along with most. But, I also tend to be quieter with large groups... I swear, I am better 1-1. I have a weakness for tall, good looking, intelligent, creative boys with an edge. ;) Unfortunately, I often choose the heart-breakers. Slightly jaded but still a damn hopeless romantic, I really do want to believe in happily ever after. I am independent and can take care of myself. I work hard. But, I am the biggest kid too... kid at heart always and forever. I get embarrassed really easily, so stop. Don't ask me to lie, because I can't... end of story. I think way too much about everything and nothing. I think, dream, hope... plenty. I believe that the best things in life are free... peace, love and happiness... yes, please. Like everyone else, I just want to be happy. And overall, life is good. ...Sure there are a dozen things I would like to change, but I am not complaining. Need to count my blessings. Alcohol makes me feisty and/or affectionate (hugs... people... hugs). Love them margaritas. I love toasting to happy thoughts, watching the sunset, pleasant surprises, genuine sincerity, and winning... not in any particular order. I can't resist drums/bassy beats... they make me want to move. Did I mention that I like dancing? I sing out loud. I waste a lot of time internet-ing and listening/thinking to music. I will hit replay to listen to the same song over and over. I am messy. I'm trying to be better about it, heh. I am slightly obsessive compulsive. For the most part, I am pretty practical and risk-averse. I get grumpy or can't concentrate when I am hungry. I love King Taco. Lately, if lazy, I have been munching on frozen cookie dough, yum. I lose things easily, so don't be surprised if I panic looking for something. I am clumsy as hell. Interests Family and friends... My beagle/terrier Jakey... Snowboarding... Dancing (just doing my own thing)... Traveling... Hawaii... Web development and the Internet... Listening/Thinking to Music... Looking up Lyrics... Fashion... Accessories and Accessorizing... Loud shoes... Tall Boots... Anti-wrinkle creams... Makeup... Faux Lashes... Indian, Moroccan, and Spanish Colonial art/design/architecture/furnishings... Character Homes... Lofts... Interiors/Interior Design... Fragrant candles... Xeriscapes... Succelent and Cacti/Mediterranean gardens... Eating... Reading my horoscope/ Astrology... Obsessing... Happy Hours... Short work weeks... Challenges/Competitions... Winning... Validations/Affirmations... Meat/Cheese... Toro/Jalapeno Rolls... Chocolate... Chocolate-Covered Strawberries... Fondue... Crepes... Sara Lee Pound Cake straight from the fridge... Fortune Cookies with good fortunes, Coca Cola Classic (especially when I get up in the morning)... Margaritas... Collections of all Sorts... Halloween (the best holiday ever) or reasons to play dress up... Pleasant Surprises... The Little Things... Sincerity... Integrity... Unconditional Love... Love/Romance/Chemistry/Passion (I still hope they exist)... Hot Hot Showers... Seat warmers... Comfortable Beds with Pillow Tops and Memory Foam... Good Sleep Music "Pop"-y punk, hip hop, trip hop, alternative, 80's. Music that makes me think. Music that makes me want to dance. Good drum, bassy beats. I Movies Requiem for a Dream, City of God, Sixteen Candles, Y Tu Mama Tambien, L'auberge Espagnole, Gia, Meet the Parents, Along Came Polly, hmmm maybe movies with Ben Stiller, The Notebook TV MTV and Style Channel, America's Next Top Model, Dr. 90210, I Want a Famous Face, My Sweet Sixteen, Amazing Race, Seinfeld and Everybody Loves Raymond re-runs... pure quality television Books Interior design / architecture books. Art Books. Web development / computer programming books. Dog rearing/training books. Coffee table books. Magazines. Heroes My mom and dad. People who take risks to follow their dreams. Highly creative people... they blow me away. Good Samaritans and those who act selflessly. People with alot of patience. Beautiful people inside and out. MILFS. Who I would like to meet If you're lucky, maybe you... You gotta make me smile. You gotta make me laugh.
Cool people with substance, genuinely, good people. I value real, meaningful relationships over casual ones/aquaintances. My lovelies are people I have known for some time now, who are genuine and real. They keep me grounded; they keep me sane.
A rare gem, the one that can make my heart skip a beat a million times over :) Tall, intelligent, creative pretty boy with an edge; a sensitive bad-but-good (is there such a thing?!?) guy with a heart of gold, who isn't afraid of something real. Someone who wouldn't take for granted how much I care, who actually appreciates me. Sexy! Not looking to be one of many; been there, done that. It's all fun until someone gets hurt.
Guys... I am very picky; I know what I like. So, if I don't write back, don't take it personal and no hard feelings, move on. Writing me nasty messages/hate mail because you are pissed off that I didn't respond to your first message just shows how immature you are and only proves to me more why I wouldn't date an ass like you. ***Not into older guys... sorry just being honest.. +/- 4 years is just right. And please, please, please do not send me half-naked pictures of yourself... ick, so not cool... I am pretty sure that I won't think you're hot.
... I wish I could live free. Hope it's not beyond me. Settling down takes time. One day we'll live together and life will be better. I have it here, yeah, in my mind. What else My name means brave bear or brave like a bear. ... If only I could always live up to meaning of my name. Wouldn't I make a cute bear? LOL!
6 days and counting!
I do a lot of wishing on sunsets.
... damn dreamer. I'm ruining my eyes!
It's all about what you want, what you say, how you feel, how you play the game.
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.