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shadow of a man

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

i do the job nobody wants to do. you wouldn't want my job... trust me.

My Interests

watching a good movie (i would like to thank all my friends who taught me what good movies are... audrey, tanya, raymond, emily, jaimee, and darla)
reading comtemporary books (you can judge a book by what it teaches you when you put it down.)
having a conversation with my few friends
eating (i love food...except spicy...even if its gross...food is good)
bodybuilding (unfortunately it's a slow process but it occupies my mind and stops me from thinking. thanks to albert who believed that even little old me can look like the average person only stronger and more defined.)
did i mention eating...pastries are my favorite
painting (thanks to darla, i see images in my head. many of them good. so i have an urge to paint them so that they do not get stuck in my head and so that people can see them.)

I'd like to meet:

in the world, as far i know, i have met all the important people i need to met (you know who you are)...

Music:

the type of music i like depends more on my mood.

bands i like
-- the primos
-- anchors for architects
-- emma burgess
-- rilo kiley
-- yeah yeah yeahs
-- mia doi todd
-- dashboard confessionals
-- death cab for cutie
-- postal service
-- queen
-- neutral milk hotel
-- shakira
-- panic at the disco
-- white stripes
-- cat power
-- utada hikaru
-- soraya (RIP)
-- bittersweet
-- modest mouse
-- jenny lewis and the watson twins
-- morningwood (im i the only one that finds it funny)

bands i can't stand
-- my chemical romance
-- thrice
-- chevelle
-- thursday
-- taking back sunday

i'm starting to listen to all types of music and exploring other genres. if you have any suggestions let me know.

Movies:

i haven't seen all that many movies in my life. actually i didn't start seeing movies until i worked at a Blockbuster Video... where i got to rent movies for free.

ahhh... those were the days.

-- fight club
-- run lola run
-- love actually
-- reservior dogs
-- krysztof kieslowski's three colors
-- boondock saints
-- princess bride
-- donnie darko
-- pulp fiction
-- the english patient
-- big fish
-- trainspotting
-- requiem of a dream
-- ninja scroll
-- princess mononoke
-- perfect blue
-- high fidelity
-- taxi driver
-- buffalo '66
-- ghost world
-- big lebowski
-- amelie
-- quills
-- way of the gun
-- wasabi
-- leon the professional

that's just to name a few. for a list of movies i would like to see... read the blog entry titled "the list."

Television:

i wish i had time to watch some television.
i have a stack of movies i have to watch. i don't think i'll finish watching all these movies anytime soon.

Books:

i love books.
big ones, small ones, old ones, new ones.
i love them all. actually that's a lie. i'm very picky with what i read. but when i start reading a book, no matter how boring or lame it is, i need to read it to the end.
i guess i just like reading. reading is a healthy pasttime. makes one's mind sharper.
some of my favorite books include...
chuck palahniuk's novels
-- fight club
-- survivor
-- choke
-- invisible monsters
-- lullaby
-- diary
-- haunted
gabriel garcia marquez's novels
-- love in the time of cholera
-- memories of my melancholy whores
nick hornby's novels
-- high fidelity
-- about a boy
-- how to be good
kurt vonnegut's novels
-- breakfast of champions
-- cat's cradle
-- slaughterhouse five
albert camus
-- the stranger.

Heroes:

florentino (love in the time of cholera)
shannon mcfarland (invisible monsters)
marla singer (fight club)
tyler durden (fight club)
(real people are too real to be heroes)
recently, certain people have made me happy. i guess i consider them heroes now. ill decide whether to name them my heroes after careful considering the matter.

My Blog

[art] Royal Tenenbaums

this clip brings back memories.it's the most powerful scene i've ever seen.great song.great scene.remember raymond?not for the easily disturbed "i'm going to kill myself tomorrow....
Posted by shadow of a man on Thu, 15 Feb 2007 09:57:00 PST

Happy New Month

people make a huge deal about starting a new life everytime a new year starts: they make resolutions they have no intentions of keeping, they try to make amends with people they have wrong (its a good...
Posted by shadow of a man on Mon, 02 Jan 2006 11:24:00 PST

[case study] Jane's Dilemna

NOTE: i have noticed that frank came was displayed as a saint throughout the whole CASSIE IS WATCHING story.  the truth of the matter was that frank was not completely innocent.  this is a s...
Posted by shadow of a man on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:56:00 PST

[case study] Cassie Is Watching : an epilogue

after cassie, frank started to chat with another girl, alyssa.  guess what?  she's from oakland. just south from san francisco.  what is it with the people there that frank finds so att...
Posted by shadow of a man on Tue, 31 Oct 2006 10:02:00 PST

[case study] Cassie Is Watching : part 5

cassie deleted frank from her friend's list and deleted me as well.  it's not like a cared i only wrote to her twice in a two month period.frank asked me how long should it be before he changes h...
Posted by shadow of a man on Tue, 31 Oct 2006 08:42:00 PST

[case study] Cassie Is Watching : part 4

frank logged on to his myspace account to find a NEW MESSAGE from someone who was not a friend of his.  who could this person be?  black-and-white girl.  her profile picture was in blac...
Posted by shadow of a man on Sun, 29 Oct 2006 12:51:00 PST

[case study] Cassie Is Watching : part 3

cassie came down from san francisco just like she had promised.  frank was ecstatic.  frank was going to take cassie clubbing.frank + cassie + club = ?frank dressed up like he always did whe...
Posted by shadow of a man on Sat, 28 Oct 2006 12:38:00 PST

[case study] Cassie Is Watching : part 2

frank had a blast the weekend he went clubbing.  frank had invited daniel to go clubbing that week and daniel had accepted.  the dynamic duo was once again reunited.  if only for one we...
Posted by shadow of a man on Wed, 25 Oct 2006 01:38:00 PST

[case study] Cassie Is Watching : part 1

on the day of their first date/meeting, frank was both nervous and excited.  aflutter.  he couldn't wait for his shift to be over.a little backstory.  cassie had lied to her family in s...
Posted by shadow of a man on Sat, 21 Oct 2006 01:23:00 PST

[blog] Gluttony

i finally know why gluttony is a sin.sure i always knew but now i'm suffering from its effects.today i went to the grocery store to buy some bread. sweet bread.  i looked at the bread and it all ...
Posted by shadow of a man on Fri, 20 Oct 2006 12:18:00 PST