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becca

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

hmmm... lets see... i'm very mellow. i never raise my voice for any reason. i am patient. i am very loyal, and my friendships mean more to me than anything. i enjoy going out on the town, but i enjoy just as much to stay at home and do absolutely nothing. i find humor in just about any situation. i embarass myslef a lot, but i know how to laugh at myself. i take it all in stride.

My Interests

sleeping, smoking, friends, good books, great kisses, rainy days, sunny days, lame jokes, surrealism, art museums, discovery museums, funky beats, camping, perfect change, funny faces, snow, mud, morning breath kisses, dirty chais, the smell of lilacs, slumber parties, cheap wine, great poetry, good lyrics, genuine people, dogs, cats, baby animals, greenery, laughing, forests, oceans, rivers, sunrise, fog, driving, old friends, new friends, babies, old people, young people, dreams, snuggling, being groped in the middle of the night, hitting snooze seven times, road trips, smoking accompanied by good conversation, good conversation in general, making you laugh, dancing, rapping, singing, taking hot showers, taking hot baths, leaving funny messages on people's answering machines, hot tubs, constellations, smiling, full moons, pajamas, thrift stores, tofu, pasta, france, francophone culture, any culture, your mom, and you.

I'd like to meet:

anyone that has a random story to tell me. people that can make me laugh, or at least give me a new perspective, even if for only a second.i also love the books. at least this song and video. so before you watch it, which i hope that you will, read my statement of why i love it as much as i do. this song/video makes me calm. it helps to remind me that there is so much more than my petty bullshit. reminds me that there is a place for me in this vast emptiness that we call a universe. reminds me that there is beauty in the world, not only for what we see, but the underlying logic and purpose of it all. sometimes it all makes so much sense...

Music:

*atmosphere*bright eyes*muddy waters*aesop rock*dj shadow*death cab for cutie*del the funky homosapien*prince*the felice brothers*poison*sigur ros*postal service*edith piaf*busdriver*mc solaar*lupe fiasco*felt*mos def*pinback*edIT*bassnectar*doc watson*django reinhardt*z trip*the mars volta*mozart*tupac*van morrison*tom petty*talib kweli*dead prez*kanye west*built to spill*micheal jackson*the flaming lips*pavement*the eels*

Movies:

*amelie*howls moving castle*mirrormask*vanilla sky*saving grace*ray*fight club*28 days later*gone with the wind*dave chapelle's block party*trainspotting*le cite des enfants perdu*labyrinth*juice*casablanca*requiem for a dream*true romance*pump up the volume*akira*harry potter*the wall*heathers*garden state*

Books:

*irvine welsh*chuck palahniuk*simone felice*joyce carol oates*francesca lea block*herman hesse*che guevera*j k rowling*

My Blog

simply lovely

love love love you all.  just once in a while one has an evening filled with joy, laughter, music, and the company of good friends and new strangers.  its just funny... was it always like th...
Posted by becca on Mon, 05 May 2008 02:31:00 PST

where are we going and why am i in this handbasket?

violence in the world, in out country, on our streets.  racism, sexism, homophobia.  fear.  ideas formed from fear, perpetuated by society, by "the system" to keep us dow...
Posted by becca on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 12:41:00 PST

i heart old music

so i'm bored, right?  and i'm on youtube looking at videos.  and i find some louis armstrong videos.  oh my good lordy it gives me the chills.  seriously.  there is just somet...
Posted by becca on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 10:02:00 PST

a change is gonna come

i need a change in my life.  i've been slowly but surely slipping down this slope into... i don't know what.  i just need a change.  i need to learn, to experience, to have a different ...
Posted by becca on Sat, 23 Feb 2008 11:52:00 PST

because this is what i do when i get home

i drunkspace.  yes, it is much like regular myspacing (when is that going to actually become a verb) but one is drunk, tipsy, or buzzed.  it is usually when one gets home from being out...
Posted by becca on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:08:00 PST

dear 2008: i hate you.

two months into the year and i've already experienced more worry, stress, heartache, and sorrow than i ever have before.  i'm just really hoping that this isn't a sign of things to come. p.s. gay...
Posted by becca on Sun, 10 Feb 2008 11:56:00 PST

strike that. reverse it.

so i'm reading over my past few blogs.  and i'm realizing that they are really melancholy and self indulgent.  sure, i've definately been upset in the recent past, especially given recent ev...
Posted by becca on Sat, 26 Jan 2008 01:19:00 PST

well this is familiar

now i suddenly know why i feel like this.  why i'm laying in bed all day, why i don't want to go out and see anyone, why i'm so tired.  i've been pushed back into a depression.  that fu...
Posted by becca on Wed, 23 Jan 2008 11:19:00 PST

one day at a time is an acceptable plan

i'm wondering what the future has in store for me.  i know what i want, but find that many people laugh at me for it.  and what my life seems to be about right now (i.e. school) seems to hav...
Posted by becca on Sat, 19 Jan 2008 11:09:00 PST

i dream of... drowning

i dream of drowning.  falling deep into the sea, and flailing for the surface.  finally i break into the air.  i dream of being pregnant.  of having a live thing inside of me kicki...
Posted by becca on Fri, 11 Jan 2008 10:02:00 PST