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Ken

Big guy in NC -- looking for..?

About Me


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I'm just a regular guy; try to treat folks, as I'd like to be treated. I'm a big guy 6'1, 391; I know not every guy's dream. Aside from the weight, I'm an attractive guy, friendly, caring, enjoy making my friends smile. I guess I can be a smart-ass sometimes, but I like to think it's just a bit of dry humor.

My Interests

Dancing, Movies, TV, DVD, Comptuers, Blogging, just getting back into working out.

I'd like to meet:

As for the kinda guys I like...hmmm. Well, 1st race is totally not an issue. I do tend to wrench my neck over Latino, Arab, and mixed-race guys (think ethnic looking I guess), love the wavy-curly hair and tan. BUT I like all looks so PLEASE don't let the above comment deter you. Blonde and red-head's shouldn't' be shy.
I will say that I pretty much feel comfortable dating guys 18-35. Preferably guys around my age, 33, but I tend to like the energy of a younger guy. If you are still a youthful looking and acting 40 year old, then there are of course exceptions.
As for body type...You know how it goes...you want what YOU aren't. So I don't usually go for other big guys. I know it's hypocritical, but then no one says that to the twiggy, skinny boy who doesn't want another skinny boy.
MAIN thing is personality. Be nice, caring, empathetic, NOT self-absorbed. Have a sense of humor. Otherwise, no matter how "hot" you are, it won't matter.

Music:

too many to list.. I'll get back to ya

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Movies:

Latter Days, Broken Hearts Club, Eating Out, Cowboy's and Angels
I like a lot of independent films.

Television:

Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Battlestar Galactica (new), Queer as Folk, Huff, Alias, Lost, West Wing, Medium, 24, Charmed, Gilmore Girls, One Tree Hill, Smallville, Everwood, Carnivale, Scrubs, Committed, Drawn Together...Ummmm I watch a LOT of TV

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Dante's Cove - Season 2 - Intro
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Books:

How I paid for college - Marc Acito A Density of Souls - Christopher Rice Anything by John Grisham

My Blog

Great News

American Express just offered me a job!!!!  I start on Monday, so I'm only giving Replacements at 1 week notice.  I've loved my time there and the people, but I was ready for a larger compan...
Posted by Ken on Mon, 09 Apr 2007 01:36:00 PST

Possibilities???

So tonight I had my first, first date in quite sometime with a great guy.  It was just a movie date, but we met up at the theater early and got to talk for about 20 min or so before the movie sta...
Posted by Ken on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 08:44:00 PST

Sunday night

TJ made is debut at Warehouse 29 last night (as DJ Atomix) and was great.  I have a fabulous time getting drunk and hangin on the patio and we did dance there at the end of the night.  We wo...
Posted by Ken on Tue, 12 Sep 2006 08:55:00 PST

Good News

Ok, so it's not the final good news related to my bariatric surgery, but it's one big step that's finished.  Had my first appointment at Duke WLS on July 20th and I've been waiting and waiting fo...
Posted by Ken on Tue, 15 Aug 2006 03:21:00 PST

NC Gay/Lesbian Film Fest

Ok...just back from this year's NC Gay and Lesbian Film Festival.  Usually I got Thursday through Saturday and see about 20 films, but this year I was only going to go on Sunday, but I did a mad ...
Posted by Ken on Wed, 16 Aug 2006 04:37:00 PST

Friday Night at Warehouse 29

So, after this past Friday night, I've decided I really do have no idea how to tell if someone is interested in me or not.  I mean short of someone being completely forward about it, I can't tell...
Posted by Ken on Tue, 15 Aug 2006 07:43:00 PST

Last couple weeks

Can I just say... I LOVE "So you think you can dance"  Travis and Martha just kicked ass on the "fox trot."  So I've been stressed out for the past 3 weeks trying to get all my stuff togethe...
Posted by Ken on Sat, 15 Jul 2006 04:08:00 PST

update

Well several weekends have passed since my last posting.  Most were uneventful.  Just the normal club stuff.  A couple high-lights though.First.  Last weekend, totally got hit on (...
Posted by Ken on Sun, 11 Jun 2006 01:23:00 PST

recap of the last month

Wow, its been a while since Ive posted&over a month.  And that last post&so pessimistic.  First, I guess I should set the record straight about the fight my brother and his girlfriend were...
Posted by Ken on Mon, 19 Dec 2005 07:51:00 PST

Today's a better day... Thank goodness

Well believe it or not, all the drama between my brother and his girlfriend&All about her dropping his McDonalds French Fries in the parking lot.  He screamed at her, she got her feelings hurt an...
Posted by Ken on Thu, 10 Nov 2005 04:53:00 PST