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About Me


Please show your love and support for this beautiful little Angel's family. All donations will now be given in Memory of Kayla to organizations who have helped her. Such as THE BLIND CHILDRENS CENTER, FOUNDATION FOR THE JUNIOR BLIND AND CHILDRENS HOSPITAL OF LOS ANGELES. Help us make a difference in so many other little lives. Please keep the donations coming.
http://jennymc3.tripod.com/mitoangel.html
Kayla helped to open many people's eyes to a world they may not have ever have known. Although Kayla has earned her wings and now soars over us in heaven, please continue to help her family help other families with babies who can't see, but whose beautiful presence on this earth has brightened so many other people’s lives, the way Kayla brightened my life and so many others. Thank you.
Mine and Nannette's wrists: Kayla's Memorial Tattoo by Chris Breksa
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand - strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming "WOO HOO - What a Ride"
IF YOUR GONNA DO IT, DON'T TALK ABOUT IT, JUST DO IT! HERE ARE SOME OF MY GREATEST MOMENTS, MEMORIES AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS!
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"DONT BE AFRAID OF THE SPACE BETWEEN YOUR DREAMS AND REALITY. IF YOU CAN DREAM IT, YOU CAN MAKE IT SO."
My name is Monika... with a K! The parents had to make it tough to get autographs! My middle name is Dae, and if you ask me nice, I will tell you the story behind it. If you already know me, you know that I love elephants. If you don't know me... Hey, guess what... I love elephants!
I am a Sunny California girl, born and raised, but moved to Canada (Calgary) Oct. of 2005 to be with Dwayne after we dated long distance for a year. He asked me to marry him Dec. 24, 2005 and I said YES!!!(And YES,We DO have plans to move back to Los Angeles in a couple of years!!!)
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I value and appreciate my friends and I really enjoy people I can learn from. I LOVE being around people who can make me laugh.
I don't shake hands, I give hugs. I will give everything that I can to my friends when I can give it and I don't expect anything back in return. I cry whenever someone gives me something, no matter how big or small it is cause I just love the fact that they were thinking of me. I love bumping into old friends and trying to remember their names! I love Romance and (good) surprises! I love walking up to people who have big smiles on their faces, with open arms, wanting hugs.
It is the best feeling in the world knowing you are loved and being told all the time.
On the other side of things:
I really hate being used and if your a drama queen (which can be boys to), keep it to yourself, cause I can't deal with it and don't want it in my life. I have my own demons; I don't want to deal with yours also. I don't care or want to be around selfish people. People who have a need to make me or other people feel bad about themselves need not apply for my friendship. People who believe in other peoples poison or propaganda need not attempt to be my friend. I don't need nor do I want two-faced people in my life. Those are issues that need to be addressed within yourself, and I don't have the time or the energy to help you figure it out. Love me for who I am and the mistakes that I may make, and stick by me till I figure out how to fix the problem. I have enough unanswered questions in my life; I do not need friends who make me question myself all the time. BEING DEFENSIVE MEANS YOUR GUILTY OF THE CRIME...... Be real, or get out! Stand by my side through all the up and downs, or get out of my life please! Be there if I fall and I will love you forever. Ask me.....DON'T EVER ASSUME otherwise. If you are the type of person that honors what ture friendship means and stands for, then we will get along famously and you will have a friend for life!
FORGIVENESS: To Grant pardon to (a person), to Cease to feel resentment against: to forgive one’s enemies.
Other forms: To absolve, to accept apology, to allow for, to bear with, to excuse, to laugh off (my favorite), to let pass, to make allowance, to pardon, to purge, to reprieve and to release.
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR FAULTS MAY BE, IF I ACCEPTED YOU INTO MY LIFE, THERE WAS A GOOD REASON FOR IT!
WE ARE ONLY HUMAN. WE ALL MAKE BAD CHOICES EVERY NOW AND THEN. THE BEST WAY TO BE SOMEONES FRIEND, IS TO PROVE IT WHEN THEY FALL.
My family means the world to me, although I don't always understand them. My sister get's more Beautiful by the moment!
I love my mom and dad with all my heart and my godfather is a real kick if you love to play 20 questions!
Dad, Uncle Mike, Mom, Uncle (Godfather) Gordy!
Nannette, Kyle Mo & Dwayne, a family portrait!
I love my puppy, Mr. Sidney V.
(named after Sid Vicious) and if he doesn't like you, then your out of here! I can't stand people who don't listen. I am a neat freak, but I hate dusting AND dirty dishes in the sink. I prefer stick shifts to automatics! I am very much a homebody but I can sometimes be convinced to leave the house for a Dirty Gin Martini, a Raseberry Stoli and Ginger ale, a Strongbow, a Ceaser (I LIKE MY BOOZE!!!) or a group hug!
I would rather kick back at home with a drink to watch a movie with Dwayne and Sidney, then go to a movie theatre. Even with my contacts in or my glasses on I am still blind as a bat, so if your right in front of me and I dont say hi, its probably cause I can't see you. Just come up to me and say howdy and the hugs will commence!
I am stubborn and want things done a certain way, but will at times back down for the good of the cause. I have a terrible temper and will speak my mind, even if it gets me into trouble. What's the point of having a voice and a brain if you can't use it or stand up for something you believe in! If you cross me, I will question it. I am not afraid of Confrontation.
I am always up for a good spanking. I love being around people who see the big picture.
HERES A LITTLE PEAK AT MY BIG PICTURE
..TR How to make a Princess Ingredients:
5 parts success
1 part brilliance
5 parts leadership Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Add curiosity to taste! Do not overindulge! ..TABLE
You're Bettie Page!
What classic pinup are you?
What Does Your Name Mean?
MONIKA
M is for Mesmerizing
O is for Outgoing
N is for Neglected
I is for Intelligent
K is for Kinky
A is for Ambitious
Your Stripper Name is: Delicious
What does your birth month say about you? Click here to find out.
MARCH:
Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate. Shy and
reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves
peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily
angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and
assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves
traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home
decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody.
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Frick'n cool t-shirts for greasy bastards and beautiful dead girls!

"Dead Girls" YOU VOTED FOR HER! HERE SHE IS!
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My Interests

Number 1 love of my life (other then Dwayne, of course!) is my sweet puppy Mr. Sidney V.

Sidney has his own page if you want to see more of him.

http://www.myspace.com/sidneymonster

I have over 2000 elephants in my collection, so I guess Elephants would be the next big thing on my list after my puppy!

Other things that I love lots!

Mermaids, Singing, Listening to all sorts of music, Classic cars and motorcycles (looking at them and riding on or in them), vintage clothes, Shoe shopping (STEVE MADDEN is my hero!), Fishnets, Corsets, Tiki stuff, Hawaii (although I have never been, but will be Honeymooning there soon!), Tattoo's (looking at them and getting them!), a little S and a little M, people watching, Wine Tasting, Taking pictures and being photographed, Disneyland, old school Burlesque:

MISS GYPSY ROSE LEE (AKA Rose Louise Hovick) --My kissing cousin (On my mother's side of the family!)



& Pin-up art. Artists, writers, singers, creators.... love it! As sick as it is, the smell of Vegas puts a smile on my face. Making hair flowers and teaching other's how to make em, learning something new, hanging with my friends, Topless Pillow fights, MAC Makeup and Lipstick!!!, changing the color of my hair as much as possible without it falling out!, Greasy boys, and laughing... alot!, Baking cookies, cakes and breads, Cooking artichokes,(cooking for Tiffany whenever possible!) Peanut-Butter & Chocolate Ice cream, Coffee with lots of flavored creamer, Strongbow or Ceasers at the Anchor during Happy Hour, Dill Potatoe Chips at 3am, Homemade Salsa (Hell ya Cha Cha!), Bubble baths in Candle light, playing in the rain, getting all dolled up just to go out for a drink, beautiful flower and japanesse water gardens, White Calla Lilies are my favorite flower

and Orchids are my second favorite!

Hula Dancing, Swing Dancing, Dancing Dancing.

(Dwayne and I Dancing the night away)

If it puts a smile on my face, makes me laugh really hard or really makes me think, then im interested in it.

I'd like to meet:

Elephants. I would love to work with elephants. Not in a circus, more like a Sanctuary. (Click on Maximus for Riddles Sanctuary website!)

(Maximus from Riddles Sanctuary @ www.elephantsanctuary.org )

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Someday, I WILL met Goldie Hawn. I think she is F A N T A S T I C!!! She has a free spirit and amazing attitude(and she loves elephants too!)!!!

If I could go back in time, I would love to meet my dad's best friend, David.

"Beauty is only skin deep". If your inner beauty shines, then I wanna know you! As far as most people go, who ever has the ability to just keep it real. No bullshit.

"Never explain--your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway."

MY FAMILY

Dwayne ( The love of my life!)

Mr. Sidney V! (Mommy's little Monster!)

Cute Cookie (My Mommy)

Dana Jo (My Baby Sis')

Lady Cha Cha (My heart and Strength)

Rev. Pimp Daddy Kyle (Cuddle Butt when no ones looking!)

Little Miss KK (Our Heart with Wings)

Slim Skinner (My Gaytard Bro and Business Partner!)

Derek(My BFF for over 18 years, and my Hero)

NEWMAN!!! (Can you believe its been over 20 years!)

Miss Wendy Perkins (BFF from 1st grade... 28 years now!)

My Darling Kimberly (BFF for over 20 years!)

Flat Black Jack's Inc (I run this bitch!)

Diablos CC Calgary (The boys!)

Blue And Holding

Dan Collins (My friend and Artist: He gives good pain!)

Joni! (She can make a Trucker Blush!)

Alanna (My Beautiful Ray of Sunshine!)

Cathy! (No matter what, she can always put a smile on my face!)

Miss Danni Jo (Beautiful inside and out!)

The Calgary Burlesque Collective (Droppin' linen, and glorious sinnin')

Blame Betty (Such a true Beauty)

Yvette (Such an inspiration!)

Miss Ariane (My Teacher, My Master!)

MIG-O-LIOUS!!! (Nuff Said!)

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Music:

"Pink Elephants on Parade", "Baby Elephant walk", "When I see a elephant fly". Ok, aside from Dumbo...

Big Band, Swing, Rockabilly, Rock and Roll, old school punk (Youth Brigade, The Damned, Sex Pistols, The Ramones, The Clash, The Kinks, etc), The Cramps,The Stooges, Iggy Pop, The Birthday Party, My Bloody Valentine, Cocteau Twins,Cadillac Tramps, Mojo Nixon, Southern Culture on the Skids, Supersuckers, X, The Reverend, Ska, Nick Cave, Cheap Trick, Bryan Setzer/Stray Cats, The Rattled Roosters, Blazing Haley,Frank, Dean, Bing, Sammy, HankIII, Carl Perkins, Roy Orbison, Johnny Cash, Johnny Horton, Carl Smith, Gene Vincent, Conway Twitty, Willie Nelson, Slim Whitman, Nat King Cole, Waylon Jennings and Patsy to name a few. I Love BOWIE, old school 80's punk (like Love & Rockets, Adam Ant, etc),Blondie, The Cars, Tom Waits, Israel Kamakawiwo'ole, Foo,Ministry, Snow Patrol, The Killers, dark electro lounge, some house/techno, and Girls with Kick Ass voices really impress me. Maria McKee, Poe, Snake River Conspiracy, Mazy, Concrete Blonde,PJ Harvey, Chrissie Hynde, Portishead and a ton of other's. I am also a Musical buff, so, yes, Judy Garland, Doris Day..... love it! Oh, and Me First and the Gimme Gimmes (Thanks Ariane!) Geez, its to hard to name all the music that I listen to. As long as it doesn't suck, I will probably listen to it. Even I was in a band once.... ah.. the good ol' day's of being a rock star!

Blue and Holding: Ralph, Princess, Stephen V and Antho

You can check out Blue and Holding on their own myspace page : http://www.myspace.com/blueandholding

Movies:

DUMBO!
Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Wizard of Oz, Clockwork Orange, The West Side Story, Lady Jane, Secretary, Superstar, A Knight's Tale (Its just so gay, I can't help myself!), Finding Neverland, Crybaby, Pirates of the Caribbean, What’s Eating Gilbert Grape, Sleepy Hollow (and many other Depp movies, cause lets face it, I am a girl and he is a hottie!), BRANDO!!!, Hairspray, Lilo & Stitch, The Nightmare Before Christmas,Corpse Bride, Legend, Beetlejuice, All John Cusack movies, almost all John Hughes movies, Reservoir Dogs, Valley Girl, Fast Times at Ridgemount High, Wild at Heart, Delicatessen, Quills, Boxing Helena, A Christmas Story, Alice in Wonderland, This is Spinal Tap, Best in Show, Stealing Beauty, Almost Famous, Million Dollar Baby, Heather's, Pump up the Volume, Fifth Element, Garden State, Sin City, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,Walk the Line, old silent movies at the silent movie house and almost any Musical/movie from the 50's & 60's with Elvis (Blue Hawaii, yummy) Frank, Bing, Gene Kelly, Marilyn, Doris, Judy and Rita!
Rita is my all time favorite. Such a Beauty! There are more, but these are on top of the list!
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Television:

I tend to watch tv really late at night, cause I have a hard time sleeping. Thank goodness for lots of channels! My Favorite shows to watch are usually found on the Animal Planet, Discovery Channel, The History Channel, The Comedy Channel & The BBC. I miss The Muppet Show so much!!! The Family Guy makes me laugh so hard, i almost pee myself! King of the Hill, The Brady Bunch, THE TICK
(I LOVE this cartoon!!!!! "SPOON!!!!"), almost any Home Improvement shows, Cooking shows, Bravo Channel, and AMC (best place to watch old movies on a cold rainy Sunday afternoon). I am also hooked on American Idol (I know, I know.... piss off....... we all have our weird quirks!)If it's on... don't call me, cause I wont answer! Medium has really started to grow on me also! I wish I had the ability to see bad guys! That sure would save a lot of time! When I really can't sleep, I search for MASH or Star Trek. Those two shows knock me out faster then a baseball bat to the head! Basically, if it's not brain candy, it better make me think!

Books:

Everything you ever needed to know on How to Raise a Puppy!
OK....... Let's see... I love the "Sleeing Beauty" Series by Ann Rice. Im always ready for a really cheesy romance novel for those late nights when i can't sleep, I love ALL things Shakespeare!!! Edgar Allen Poe is good for a spook or two. To Kill a Mockingbird, The Brother's Grimm fairy tales, and I totally love anything to do with Mythology & Poetry. I also very much enjoyed American Gods by Neil Gaiman (but I think I might need to read it again to fully understand stuff that i missed the first time),and Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden(Saw the movie... not as good as the book!) Also, although its just a picture book, I do have "Tattoo Road Trip-California Cover Girls" on my coffee table (cause Tiff and I are in it!!!). I totally dig Barracuda Magazine (pick up issue 22 if you get a chance!) and I am a big fan of Skin and Ink Magaine and Ol'Skool Rodz.
I am a huge fan of friends who write short stories, Poetry and who are amazing photographers (Like the beautiful Liz Huston and her amazing book!
GO TO: http://photomonium.net/
I am always up for suggestions on books. If I can get past the first two pages without falling asleep, then Im hooked until I finish it.

Heroes:

"ALL OUR DREAMS CAN COME TRUE-IF WE HAVE THE COURAGE TO PURSUE THEM."

My grandpa.... for showing me what a man should be.

My Dad..... for having such a big heart.

My Mom... for hanging in there all these years.

Nannette and Kyle, for their strength, and Kayla....for opening my heart and my eyes. I love you little one.

And my best friend Derek. You have been in my life since I was 17, through all the good times and bad times, you have never left my side. As promised, a Bee for you, BEFORE you hit the Sand. Be safe. Watch your back. Come home safe....and sooner, then later!

(and Dumbo! cause you just gotta believe in yourself)

My Blog

VLV 2007 (updated 04/12/07)

It was quite the adventure, driving to and from Vegas in the 52 Chev!  We left for Vegas Tuesday, April 3rd, at 5am! We woke up to a snow storm..... So, there was a moment of... WE ARE NOT GOING....
Posted by Princess on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 12:01:00 PST

THANK YOU MINISTER 'M!

For those of you who don't know Minister 'M, he sends out messages everyday and this one hit home, so I wanted to share it with my friends, and those who aren't my friends anymore, but still seem to&n...
Posted by Princess on Fri, 09 Feb 2007 09:43:00 PST

15 MINUTES OF FAME - CALGARY HERALD. FEB.1ST

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Posted by Princess on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 12:36:00 PST

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

It's December 1st! You know what that means!!!!!   Time to get that Xmas list together and go visit Santa Claus!!! It doesn't hurt to take along a few kiddies too!   Spent the day at the mal...
Posted by Princess on Sat, 02 Dec 2006 04:03:00 PST

WOWZERS! WHAT A YEAR!

I DID IT!I SURVIVED MY FIRST YEAR IN CANADA!I HAVE SEEN THE SEASONS!I HAVE MADE NEW AMAZING FRIENDS.I HAVE GAINED AN UNBELIEVABLE FAMILY (AND BIG I MIGHT ADD!)I HAVE OPENEND MY EYES TO MANY NEW AND AM...
Posted by Princess on Thu, 12 Oct 2006 01:56:00 PST

A STORY FOR DEREK

LET ME START BY SAYING THAT I DO NOT SUPPORT THIS WAR. I SUPPORT THE MEN AND WOMEN WHO ARE BEING FORCED TO FIGHT IN THIS WAR AND THEIR FAMILY'S WHO MISS AND LOVE THEM.   -------------------------...
Posted by Princess on Thu, 05 Oct 2006 11:18:00 PST

NEW FROM FLAT BLACK JACKS AND DEAD GIRLS APPAREL(REVISED 09/08/06)

Flat Black Jack's and Dead Girl's Apparel are excited to bring you: The "SEVEN DEADLY SINS OF DEAD GIRL'S" AND HER "SEVEN DEADLY HAIR FLOWERS"!   That's right!   7 DEADLY HAIR FLOWERS TO ...
Posted by Princess on Mon, 03 Jul 2006 11:03:00 PST

The Garden (REVISED OCT. 4TH!!!)

      The Garden   So, once it started to warm up here in Canada (yup, it does that here&.. get's warm! Who Knew!), I decided that I wanted a veggie garden! Thing is&. I never had ...
Posted by Princess on Wed, 02 Aug 2006 04:12:00 PST

FOR DEREK. (REVISED 09/11/06)

As of Sept. 10, 2006: Derek is now in the sandbox. On Sept. 4th, I did as promised and got a bee flying next to my anchor to honor Derek. I told him that I would do it before his feet hit sand......do...
Posted by Princess on Thu, 06 Jul 2006 08:36:00 PST

Kayla....Our Precious Angel.

    KAYLA'S  STORY: KAYLA WAS BORN ON JAN. 9, 2004. 4 MONTHS PREMATURE, SHE WEIGHED 1 LB. 12 OZ. AND SPENT THE NEXT 4 MONTHS IN THE INFANTS I.C.UAT 3 MONTHS OF AGE, SHE DEVELOPED MENING...
Posted by Princess on Thu, 27 Apr 2006 04:46:00 PST