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Ben

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About Me

I think the most important thing in life is to enjoy little things, not to rely on big exciting things to happen, because how often do you really do something amazing? Most of my favorite memories are simple things that no one else remembers or cares about. I've learned that happiness in is to be happy with where you're at. If you can be happy with anywhere you are, then it doesn't matter where you are. Life is about finding happiness, and the best way to find happiness is to make happiness, and make others happy no matter where or who you are, the best way to get what you want is to help others.. and once you believe that life gets better.. no kidding.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~If you think about it.. nothing in life is without it's counterpart. Good things aren't really that great unless you have an equally bad experience to compare it to. I think even when life gets you down if you remember that experience, learn from it, and use it to appreciate everything more when life gets better, and it will, then it's not a bad experience, it's just a necessary part of life to help you realize how ultimately lucky you are.Sometimes in life it's easy to get wrapped up thinking that life is really complicated and it begins to feel like an uphill battle. Life is NOT complicated. Life is a never ending stream of simple problems, and as long as you solve them one at a time the mysteries of life will unfold before you.___________________________________ ___________________________________ -----------------------------------..
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Favorite Quotes: Because everything you will ever learn, someone else already knew.______ The greatest gift one man can give another is not a portion of his wealth but a means to make his own. ~ Benjamin Desrailey -------------- GOVERNMENT is the single greatest danger to man kind. It holds the legal monopoly of physical force over it's legally disarmed victims. ~ Ayn Rand "The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strive valiantly; who errs and comes short again & again, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause; who at best, knows the triumph of high achievement; and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nore defeat." ~ Teddy Roosevelt-----"The man who thinks he can, and the man who thinks he can't are both right" ~ Henry Ford-------Fortune befriends the bold.------The sin of the desert is knowing where there is water and not telling anyone. ~ Chinese Proverb -----He who climbs the tall tree has a right to the fruit. ------"The art of communication is in listening" ~ Malcolm Forbes ----------"The mass of men lead quiet lives of despiration" ~ Henry David Thereau --------It is better to ask and be thought stupid than to remain silent and be stupid ~ Benny original -------Every adversity holds the seeds of a greater benefit. -----"There are two primary choices in life: To accept conditions as they are, or to accept responsibility for changing them" Dr. Dennis Waitley ------The best way to find your perfect match is to become the best you that you can be so you'll attract your match to you. ~ Dave Lundgren -------I can see as far as I can because I stand on the shoulders of giants ~ Sir Isaac NewtonGood conversation, the occasional game of pool or cards.. lately I've been playing a lot of poker. In the end though, anything can be fun with the right people.. I'm pretty open minded when I'm in good company.
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____________________________________________________________ _________I know a girl, she puts the color inside of my world. But she's just like a maze where all the walls all continually change. And I've done all I can to stand on her steps with my heart in my hand. But lately, I've started to see that maybe it's got nothing to do with me. ~ John Mayer ------------------------------ So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains, and we never even know we have the key ~ Don Henley (The Eagles) ------------------------------- It's not always rainbows and butterflies but compromise that moves us along. ~ Maroon 5 ---------------------------------------------------
You Have A Type A Personality
You are hyper, energetic, and always on the mood
You tend to succeed at everything you attempt
And if you don't succeed at first, you quickly climb your way to the top!

You could be called a workaholic, but you also make time for fun
As long as it's high energy and competitive, you're interested
You have the perfect personality for business and athletic success Do You Have a Type A Personality?

Music:

I can't say enough about the contribution music has made to my life.

Movies:


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Television:

I like Southpark, Seinfeld and the discovery channel. It's funny, when i was a kid my mom would watch documentaries and I hated it, now I watch the same damn shows it's funny how everything comes around like that.

Books:

I read books by people who are successful in business, trying to get ahead a little.

My Blog

What if Jesus were an alien?

For those of you who know me well, you know I can be phylisophical in a messed up kinda way. I'd like to say first of all I'm not trying to offend anyone with this, and I hope you all take this as my ...
Posted by Ben on Mon, 14 May 2007 07:45:00 PST

Fuck me

Sometimes it all feels like too much. Like I'm trying to climb a ladder made of sand that just seems to collapse in on me everytime I think I'm making progress. Maybe I take on too much or expect too ...
Posted by Ben on Sat, 08 Sep 2007 05:39:00 PST

confused

Why does everything have to be so complicated?! It seems like nothing is ever simple even when it should be cut and dry. When everything seems like it lines up is when it usually doesn't. Sometimes I ...
Posted by Ben on Sun, 26 Nov 2006 11:20:00 PST