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Barbs

it's what you do that defines you

About Me

Life is too short to dwell on the facts of where I have been and what I have done. I enjoy people and the company of those that can stimulate me mind body and soul. Everyone always seems to be in a rush and until recently so was I, but taking the time to see where I'm going and what I'm doing has slowed me down and helped me see what is truly important and that spotaneity is the spice of life. Life is here to enjoy, not regret!!Some HUGE things have been going on with me lately and that's why I haven't been on in such a long time. I thought I would let everyone in on a few things just so you know a little about it. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer in January, she's fine, but JUST finished her treatments. I think it's hard to be strong in those situations even if the person is taking it as well as my mother did. You just take things one day at a time and continue to live each day as if it were going to be your last. We hear that so often, but until something like this happens, you don't truly listen to it.Music has always played a huge part in my life from the time I was in the womb. I always have a song in my head and a smile on my face. If a song isn't playing I'm dancing to the music in my head, and it plays CONSTANTLY!! I was a cheerleader in high school and danced on the hip hop dance team at college. Talk about fun times!! Stressful at times, but fun. Both still play a big part in my life and hopefully I can keep on doing something to keep myself in the loop where both are concerned.

My Interests

The good the bad and the ugly; dancing, interior design, chillin with friends, playing pool, and generally having as much fun as I can! Baking warm cookies from scratch for someone who will appreciate the time spent. Making breakfast in the morning, we're talking eggs, pancakes, toast and the whole smogesborg.I edited my profile at Myspacelayouts . check out these Myspace Layouts!

I'd like to meet:

Hmm... that's a loaded question. People who are spontaneous, open to new things, not afraid of a challenge. That can talk, but not judge. Someone who can dance or at least try to and keep a beat. That is willing to put up with my mistakes, as often as they come. Someone that can look past my actions and see straight to my heart because sometimes your mind, your heart and your gut tell you to do three different things all at once. No games, just you, straight up and as real as they can come.

Music:

Give me a beat anyday, but everything is open to me. I enjoy everything from A to Z. My family's as diverse as the ocean where music is concerned. Rock, country, classic rock, some jazz, hip hop, r&b to rap, it's all game; Slow and sexy to fast and upbeat, something I can use my assets to the best of their ability...

Movies:

There are too many to mention...The Transporter, Boondock Saints, Center Stage, Honey, Scarface (can't leave that one out), The Day After Tomorrow, The Fast and the Furious, Cocktail, Hackers, The Cronicles of Riddick (I wish I had eyes like that!), Dirty Dancing(I had to I'm sorry!),Step Up, The Lethal Weapon Series...and the list goes on...

Television:

Dexter, Entourage, Dirty Jobs, Californication, Weeds, just to name a few.

Books:

I can read if that's what you're asking, as far as what I'm reading that's all over the place.

My Blog

communication

Life is something that everyone is constantly trying to figure out and in the long run, still are trying desperately to catch up with. The moments that you wish would stay seem to wash away with the t...
Posted by Barbs on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 01:43:00 PST

what in de hell

Do you ever get in one of those moods where you wonder how you got so stupid...lol. Maybe not on the common sense side of your brain, but more on the emotional side. I wish sometimes that there was a ...
Posted by Barbs on Sun, 13 Aug 2006 08:01:00 PST