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*Sweetniss*

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About Me

I am a mother, a daughter and a best friend...hopefully I'm good at that because that's all that matters to me. I like to experience new things, but I also like to stay grounded and never forget what's truly important to me. I have learned a lot in my short life, but the most important thing I learned is never be unhappy, life is too short.Basically I am an easy going person who loves life.
Like most people I would like to save the world and wish for world peace:) I refuse to turn a blind eye to everything that is happening in OUR world today. I wish there was more I could do! I have not figured out a way to make a major impact so for me it's the little things that if we all did would add up to something major. So I've decided to dedicate my page to numerous causes. I will post with ways to make your life a little greener, to items you can buy to make an impact on a persons life.
Here are is a list of items you can buy or better yet give as a gift!
Toms Shoes

For every pair of these amazing comfortable and fashionable light-weight traditional Argentinean shoes called alpargatas you buy, a pair will be given to a child in need. These are affordable and can be found in many stores including Nordstroms. Go to http://www.tomsshoes.com/ for more information


FEED bags...FEED project

FEED 1 bag = 1 child fed in school for 1 year was started in 2006 when acclaimed model and activist Lauren Bush designed a bag to benefit the United Nations World Food Program's (WFP) School Feeding operations. I got my $25 FEED bag at Wholefoods, it's this really cute burlap make up looking bag that unzips into a white tote. Not only is it my favorite thing I've gotten all year but in buying it I am giving a child 300 heatly meals buy a $59 FEED bag and feed a child for an ENTIRE YEAR! Now how can you pass up on that? You can get them at Wholefoods or Amazon.com. For more info go to http://www.feedprojects.org/default.asp


Macy’s “Path to Peace” collection of baskets handcrafted in Rwanda

I'm really passionate about the horror that happened in Rwanda here is some information for those unaware. In 1994, the African nation of Rwanda was torn apart by a brutal genocide. In about 100 days, close to one million Rwandan citizens were murdered. Left behind was a population of 70% women, widows who were suddenly faced with the frightening and daunting task of supporting their families, rebuilding their communities, and taking back their lives.

In 2005 the Director of UNIFEM traveled to the country and noticed how beautiful their baskets were so she reached out to a business women in the US who reached out and now their sold at Macys. The women, who had never earned money in their lives, turned back to their heritage of weaving.

Go to Macys to buy one for youself or better yet go to http://www.rwandabaskets.com/ and lean how to host a "Basket Party". Get a group of girls together, have some appys, drinks and a great time together while having an amazing impact on another fellow womens life! We're all sisters and need to stick together. Us with children more so than others


Whatever It Takes Mug Collection

This is another cool one fromUNICEF. It’s a collection of 12 mugs. On each one, a famous celebrity sketched and signed a self-portait of himself, herself, or themselves. The mug comes in a gift box, and includes a photograph of the celebrity and a personal message. The cool thing is that 50% of proceeds to go a charity or charity of the celebrity’s choice so you have a lot to chose from or hey get the entire set for coffee at your next dinner party, what a great conversation piece. You can buy at Macys and Linnens and Things


The Body Shop Daisy Soap

It not only makes your skin feel great with the powerful moisturize shea butter, it helps TWO great causes! Both I'm passionate about domestic violence and fair trade.

First, proceeds from every bar of Daisy Soap will go to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, helping women who are the victims of domestic violence and empowering them to end this terrible scourge.

Second, the soap contains daisy extract and Community Trade shea butter from Ghana. The Body Shop works with the Tungteiya Shea Butter Association in Northern Ghana, which is an association of around 400 women from 10 villages.

Under “fair trade” principles, they ensure a fair price for their product, allowing the women to dramatically change their lives with water pipes and wells saving hours of water collecting, better housing, medical care, food, and self esteem. They are also able to give their children, particularly their daughters and the chance to go to school.


.. For over the past 19 years the people of northern Uganda and southern Sudan have been terrorized by a group calling itself the "Lord’s Resistance Army" or LRA. With no political platform, no constituency, and no beneficial purpose in the eyes of the people it claims to represent, the LRA are led by evil madmen hell-bent on death and destruction. Sadly most of it's "soldiers" are kidnapped children - young children - forced to kill their parents, siblings and friends lest they receive the same death sentance themselves. In the past few years, the Lord’s Resistance Army has abducted over 44,000 children in northern Uganda for use as child soldiers, forced “wives”, and porters. The LRA appears to exist solely for its own benefit with a stated intent of taking over the governement of Uganda.Thus, fear of abduction by the LRA and subsequent forced inscription, beatings, and/or rape have compelled thousands of children in the districts of Gulu and Kitgum to walk several miles every night from their homes in rural village areas to safer locations in the larger nearby cities. They look for sidewalks, bus stations and camps to sleep on the ground or concrete floors - every night - and often with no blankets or bedding. These children are collectively known as the "Night Commuters" or "night walkers".These children choose to make this journey each dusk and dawn because the LRA prefers to attack small isolated villages, instead of mounting complex urban assaults. These “Night Commuters” spend the night huddled together in bus stops, under patios, and in doorways; in any open flat space with the slightest amount of shelter. Without a mattress to sleep on, or a shower to bathe in, the children then rise in the morning and walk back to their villages where they attend school and work on their family farms.
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My Interests

Yeah they're back! I'm still so in love with them, cant wait to see the video...Oh and for my confused friends pause my playlist below so you dont get two songs
My children right now are my main interest. I could watch them all day and think, did I really make these little humans? They are my everything!!! They look to me for nurturing and guidance. Being called mommy is such an honor I'm so proud to be their mom! I enjoy photography (although I still suck)traveling, I want to see as much of the world as I can. Jazz, cooking, entertaining and decorating for the holidays! Also spending time with friends, I don't get to do it as much because we are far apart, but the time I do get to spend I cherish.

Another intrest is becoming eco friendly. Being green use to represent a negative connotation as in envy but now I am proud to be called green;) I really want to devote my page to help people become a little more aware of what is going on. It's easy to do, it doesnt have to cost a lot, in fact it might even save you a little.Buy organic when ever you can. I know our grandfolks say they ate this stuff and are just fine, however these chemicals were not on their food when they grew up. Organic means it's grown with out herbicides or pesticides. Organic farming also protects the planet..bonus! Here is a list of MUST buys when it comes to organic if you cant go all the way.

    Dariy and meat: Some farmers use growth hormones and antibiotics and this can be a cause of cancer Rice: are grown with a huge amount of pesticide Corn and wheat: bread, corn chips, tortillas, crackers etc. PB and J Fruits and Veggies that dont have a thick peal on them. Potatoes need to be organic as well. Dried fruits as well. Baby food: Children are so sensitive to these products.
Here are a few ways you can help

Here are a few simple things you can do around the house

    Replace a regular incandescent light bulb with a compact fluorescent light bulb (cfl)
    CFLs use 60% less energy than a regular bulb. This simple switch will save about 300 pounds of carbon dioxide a year.Cover your pots while cooking
    Doing so can save a lot of the energy needed for preparing the dish. Pressure cookers can save around 70%!Use the washing machine or dishwasher only when they are full
    If you need to use it when it is half full, then use the half-load or economy setting. PTake a shower instead of a bath
    A shower takes up to four times less energy than a bath.Things to do if you own a homeInstall a programmable thermostat
    Programmable thermostats will automatically lower the heat or air conditioning at night and raise them again in the morning. They can save you $100 a year on your energy bill Move your thermostat down 2° in winter and up 2° in summer
    Almost half of the energy we use in our homes goes to heating and cooling. You could save about 2,000 pounds of carbon dioxide a year with this simple adjustment Clean or replace filters on your furnace and air conditioner
    Cleaning a dirty air filter can save 350 pounds of carbon dioxide a year. Do not leave appliances on standby
    Use the "on/off" function on the machine itself. A TV set that's switched on for 3 hours a day and in standby mode during the remaining 21 hours uses about 40% of its energy in standby mode. Wrap your water heater in an insulation blanket
    You’ll save 1,000 pounds of carbon dioxide a year with this simple action. You can save another 550 pounds per year by setting the thermostat no higher than 50°C.

Things for your car

    When it is time for a new car, choose a more fuel efficient vehicle
    You can save 3,000 pounds of carbon dioxide every year if your new car gets only 3 miles per gallon more than your current one. You can get up to 60 miles per gallon with a hybrid! You can find information on fuel efficiency on FuelEconomy and on GreenCars websites. Check your tires weekly to make sure they’re properly inflated
    Proper tire inflation can improve gas mileage by more than 3%. Since every gallon of gasoline saved keeps 20 pounds of carbon dioxide out of the atmosphere, every increase in fuel efficiency makes a difference! Don't leave an empty roof rack on your car
    This can increase fuel consumption and CO2 emissions by up to 10% due to wind resistance and the extra weight - removing it is a better idea.

Things to buy and avoid

    Reuse your shopping bag
    When shopping, it saves energy and waste to use a reusable bag instead of accepting a disposable one in each shop. Waste not only discharges CO2 and methane into the atmosphere, it can also pollute the air, groundwater and soil. Buy fresh foods instead of frozen
    Frozen food uses 10 times more energy to produce.Seek out and support local farmers markets
    They reduce the amount of energy required to grow and transport the food to you by one fifth. Seek farmer’s markets in your area, and go for them.Buy organic foods as much as possible
    Organic soils capture and store carbon dioxide at much higher levels than soils from conventional farms. If we grew all of our corn and soybeans organically, we’d remove 580 billion pounds of carbon dioxide from the atmosphere
Once you've read this you now have the knowlege and it's just not responsible to turn your back to this.Once you've read this you now have the knowlege and it's just not responsible to turn your back to this.

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Music:

My love for music is more than that, it's an appreciation. Some people think because they know the name of a jazz artist they are true lovers of the music, like it makes them more sophisticated or well liked...for me and my family music is a way of life and I hope to share that w/people. My Father is a jazz musican and for those of you that know one from that era knows what I'm talking about. He would keep a pillow and blanket in his drums and I would crawl up there during a set and sleep. To my Dad life is one giant bongo, he insists on playing everything from my head to the table. He'll scat and sing all day long, every minute of the day...that's how I grew up. I don't like to just listen to music I like music I can really feel, I think that's why I like Neo Soul and Jazz...BB KING YA'LL...what a legend I honestly love all music, it just depends on my mood, everything from classical to rap to punk...But Neo Soul and Jazz get into my soul. ... My favorite performers (to name a few)are Musiq, India Arie, Eryka Badu, Floetry, Sade, D'angelo, BB King, Miles Davis, Etta James, Billy Holiday, Duke Ellington, George Benson, Al Jarreau, Rick Braun, Brian Culbertson, Jazzmasters, Chris Botti, most of all Diana Krall and so many more I really can't name them all....but it has all inspired me and really made me who I am today

Movies:

Pretty in Pink, Sixteen Candles, Breakfast Club, Say Anything etc anything and everything 80's.. WHEN HARRY MET SALLY all time favorite!!!I also like horror movies (never the sequel), suspense (like Sixth Sense), movies that make me cry (Terms of Endearment) Classic old movies are great also..Feel good love movies (Brown Sugar), female inspiration movies (Bridget Jones, or Waiting to Exhale), Human inspirations movies (Pay it Forward). A few movies I likes that I watched recently are House of Sand and Fog, Lackwanna Blues, Something the Lord Made and My Life Without Me.

Television:

Heros, Anthony Bourdain No Reservations, Desperate Housewives, Food TV, Cosby Show, Absolutly Fabulous, Dateline, 20/20, 60 minutes, Frontline, The Tonight Show, Grays Anatomy, Discovery Channel, Bravo...

Heroes:

Get Your Own! | View SlideshowKnowingly or not, our actions however small they may be can really leave a mark on society as a whole. Lets take Martain Luther King, he wasn't born a hero, he became one. All of his struggles, his relationships family or other wise all made him who he was. A great voice, a great leader and some one who made a huge conribution and helped forever change the nation. So for me a hero isn't just a person we read about in text books, it's everyone who leaves their little marks in life like a finger print that shape our future.Here are the heros in my life....My Mother for raising me on her own, remaining best friends with my Father after their divorce and never once asking for child support because she didn't want to put him out (I wish more women were like that...but now a days there's so much babys momma drama because most women truly can't put aside their feelings and put their child first). For sturggling and never letting me bare the burden of it. For selflessly giving me everything I could have ever needed or wanted for that matter.

My Blog

Toms Shoes

I've had my banner on my page for a while now but I dont think people have been reading it so I wanted to make sure people know about Toms. Here is a little bit about them "TOMS Shoes i...
Posted by *Sweetniss* on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 11:12:00 PST

Buy Pampers w/the sticker that reads 1 pack= 1 vaccine

I like to stay current on events and not turn a blind eye to the suffering people endure daily in other countries as well as our own. However sadly I must admit I had NO idea about how serious Tetanus...
Posted by *Sweetniss* on Wed, 09 Apr 2008 04:04:00 PST

Baffled

I am baffled by the world we live in today... Do you have any idea how hard it would be to rob a jewelry store?  To get those precious gems one must be very calculated to get past all of the...
Posted by *Sweetniss* on Sun, 08 Oct 2006 08:57:00 PST