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Nightshade

Turn off the lights and turn off the shyness. All of our moves, make up for the scilence...

About Me


Hello!!
I've been described by many as a free-spirit. I try to be sweet, kind, thougtful, and loving towards others. I guess I like to live life to the fullest, meet new and interesting people, explore my dreams and fantasies, and have as much fun doing it as possible! I like to chat so if you are interested, you can message me first, so I can screen you and make sure you aren't some sicko. (Sorry- That's just the way I roll!) I also DON'T APPROVE FRIEND REQUESTS, unless you send me a message, first. And even then, that doesn't guarantee I'll approve you, as a friend. Doing it this way also kinda makes sure that people actually READ these profiles, and aren't out to just collect friends as numbers on their page, because that's just lame...
I DO want to meet friendly GENTLEMEN (eventually) who are interested in treating a lady like a lady. Is there anybody out there?!?
You Are a Prophet Soul
You are a gentle soul, with good intentions toward everyone.
Selfless and kind, you have great faith in people.
Sometimes this faith can lead to disappoinment in the long run.
No matter what, you deal with everything in a calm and balanced way.
You are a good interpreter, very sensitive, intuitive, caring, and gentle.
Concerned about the world, you are good at predicting people's feelings.
A seeker of wisdom, you are a life long learner looking for purpose and meaning.
You are a great thinker and communicator, but not necessarily a doer.
Souls you are most compatible with: Bright Star Soul and Dreaming Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?
You Are 100% Open Minded
You are so open minded that your brain may have fallen out!
Well, not really. But you may be confused on where you stand.
You don't have a judgemental bone in your body, and you're very accepting.
You enjoy the best of every life philosophy, even if you sometimes contradict yourself. How Open Minded Are You?
I may be open-minded, but that doesn't mean I try to be socially unacceptable. I try to find something in common with everyone, and build a friendship from there. And it doesn't mean that if someone is living a certain way, that I will live that way, either. I believe we should all try to get along, but at the same time, maintaining individuality and uniqueness.
You Are 40% Weird
Normal enough to know that you're weird...
But too damn weird to do anything about it! How Weird Are You?
How You Are In Love
You take a while to fall in love with someone. Trust takes time.
You give and take equally in relationships.
You tend to get very attached when you're with someone. You want to see your love all the time.
You love your partner unconditionally and don't try to make them change.
You are fickle and tend to fall out of love easily. You bounce from romance to romance. How Are You In Love?
What Type of Flirt are You?

Shy Flirt
Caution is your middle name. In fact, we think it's safe to say that you're a Shy Flirt. It's a rare evening that you bat your eyes or approach attractive strangers. It's cool if someone comes to you, but you hardly ever muster up the courage to make the first move. Maybe it's because you're afraid of embarrassing yourself. Of course it's totally understandable to be scared of putting yourself on the line. But trust us, flirting is fun! Don't let fear get in the way of getting what you want. It might be healthy for you to stretch your comfort limits a little and try something new. Be playful reach out and touch someone. A lingering hand on the arm... ;)
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My Interests



For more about me, a more intimate look, please feel free to read my blogs. Some of the entries are private, and some are open to friends. I also enjoy sexy blogs from other people, too- and if you or someone you know writes adult erotica that is at the same time, tastefully done, please message me to refer somebody. I love to read!

My interests when relaxing are tokin', chatting .., wild fantasies, role-playing, the outdoors, driving around, watching movies, and mainly hanging out with friends (when I get the chance), fairs, festivals, sewing (especially Ren-Faire garb), photography, all kinds of art, and music, music, music!

..tr You Are 80% Sociopath

The good news is that you're devastatingly charming.
The bad news? You mostly use those charms for evil!
Are You A Sociopath? ..table

I like to go camping, fishing, rides on bikes (both motorcycles and bicycles). Singing, dancing in my room by myself, I'm camera-shy, but a total goof-ball. I love having fun and throwing parties when I can. I go to the clubs sometimes, but find it easier to go to gay clubs with my friends because of the open-minds there. I just enjoy hanging with all kinds of people. I love to dress up, and I love to TAKE picutes, NOT be in them! In college I actually studied costume and makeup and wanted to be a theater major, but alas... due to financial woes, I had to give up my dream. I collect wall-hanging mirrors, clocks, and vintage lunch boxes (or anything fun on a lunchbox!- doesn't HAVE to be vintage) I have 3 dogs and I have never been married and I don't have kids, either. I was a DJ once upon a time and I love music and am always looking to expand my music collection. I like to wear black, but I'm not depressing or anything (its just its slimming!).

I like learning about the paranormal and mysterious. I like being crafty and create pieces of functional art or I like to sew lots of different things. I also have so many different interests, I should have been a Capricorn, but I'm not. I'm a Libra... but that's ok, too, because we are really creative and VERY nice people. Tell me... what do YOU like to do??

I'd like to meet:



I'd like to meet other free-spirits, free-thinkers, those who are into nature and all the joys of the Earth, people with a sense of humor is a must!!! And my sense of humor runs from PG-rated, to the obscure, to silly, and everywhere in between. You must love to laugh if you are around me!

I'm not a lesbian, I'm not bi-sexual. I'm straight. I have friends that are gay and bi, but I happen to be a straight, girl. To each, their own. But please don't ask me to have a threesome with you and your girlfriend- I'm not bi, nor gay.

I would love to meet people, locally, but just know it takes a lot for me to even TALK to someone on the phone, let alone even meet up, so you can only imagine it takes a lot to get me comfortable around anyone before I'll let down my guard. I'm not a bitch, and I don't want to be called, or thought of, as one. I also typically, like to surround myself with happy people, and fun situations, not drama. I hate drama. I would rather be around people who love life, and like to have fun, than someone who is dull, or always in a bad mood, or can never seem to find it within themselves, to be happy. Those type of people are easily found in this world, and a dime a dozen, and I would rather be around those who have a joy of living, and want to have fun, than someone who is always depressed, or moody. So if you are ill-tempered or moody like that, don't even waste my time! I have no time or sympathy for foul-tempered people, they drain my energy, and I'd rather not be around them, THANKS! :D

I also would like to meet those who are into role-playing, or Society for Creative Anacronysims (Renaissance Faire People), stuff like that.

Subjects I like to talk about (and you can easily approach me on these) are: movies (of all kinds), SCA (ref: previous sentence), fantasy, art, music (pretty much all kinds), collecting, fairs & festivals, theatre (tho I hardly get to go anymore), food and drink, fashion, the outoors, parties, and pets/animals.

Ok, let me get down to brass tacks. You know how the lyrics to the song go :"I want a lady on the streets, but a freak in the bed?" I want a guy like that. A guy that will be a PERFECT GENTLEMAN to me, who can make me laugh and we go places and have fun, and party, but can also show me a good time when its the two of us, intimate and who will also love me tenderly and hold me close. I hate it when guys are forward and ask, "How do I look?" or want to show me nude photos of themselves. I'm not impressed by what you have, its WHO YOU ARE, that I care about!!! How do you treat your friends/family? Wanting someone who is nice to me...I know that may be a pipe-dream, but that's just how I am and what I'm looking for. If you want the same thing, I'm pretty much that way, too. I'll be honest with you, if you be honest with me, and treat me right.

Your Love Element Is Earth
In love, you have consistency and integrity.
For you, love is all about staying grounded and centered.

You attract others with your zest for life and experiences.
Your flirting style is defined by setting the scene, creating a unique moment in time.

Steady progress and stability are the cornerstones of your love life.
You may take things too slowly, but you never put your heart at risk.

You connect best with: Fire

Avoid: Wood

You and another Earth element: need each other too much to build a good foundation What Element Is Your Love?

Music:

New-Age, Jazz (classical & contemporary), Easy-Listening, Classic Country, "New" Country, Pop, Rock, Hard-Rock, Classic Rock, New Wave, Hair Bands, some Heavy Metal,Bluegrass, Industrial, Emo, Ska, Tribal Music, Middle-Eastern Style music, Chants, Classical Oriental-Style Music, Polynesian, Carribean, Regge, Surfer, Punk, Folk, Classical, Accoustic, Rythm & Blues,some Rap & Hip-Hop, Cartoon and Commercial "Jingles," Musicals, Inde, Latin, Techno, Opera, Alternative, Chiors, Dixieland Jazz, and Barber Shop Quartets. My tastes in music are very eclectic. As I mentioned above, I'm always looking to expand my library.

Some of my favorites are: The Beatles, Coldplay, Ella Fitzgerald, Erasure, Evanesence, Fall Out Boy, Goo Goo Dolls, The Killers, Muse, and tons of others.

Movies:

I pretty much like any movie, as long as it entertains. I mostly dig on horror, sci-fi, or comedy. Some of my favorites are Little Miss Sunshine, Underworld & Underworld Evolution, Resident Evil & Resident Evil 2, The Ring 1 & 2, The Shining, Misery, X-Men series, UltraViolet, The Alien Series, Wolf Creek, The Hills Have Eyes, Dark Water, Dark City, The Lost Boys, Mean Girls, Napoleon Dynamite, The Sweetest Thing, The Princess Bride, The Harry Potter Series, The Matrix Trillogy, Tomb Raider 1 & 2 ... My favorite actors/actresses are Christopher Walken, Kathy Bates, Keanu Reeves, Matthew McConaughey, Rachel McAdams, Vince Vaughn, Wil Farrel, Owen Wilson, Ben Stiller, Jim Carrey, Charlize Theron, Sandra Bullock, Adam Sandler, Mike Myers, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Jim Cavezel, and Jack Nicholas

Television:

I have three, but no- I don't watch normal tv, I watch DVD's or television series DVD boxed sets. I love News Radio, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Spongebob Squarepants, and South Park (to name just a few)

Books:

Authors: Anne Rice, Stephen King, Oscar Wilde, Sylvia Plath, Jack Kerouac, Roald Dahl, all of Shakespeare's "good stuff," ee cummings, Mya Angelou, Lewis Carrol, Robert Frost, & Shel Silverstein. My favorite things to read are short stories, poems, and science/forensics types of books.
A good one is "Stiff." Its written about what happens to human bodies after they are donated to science. (non-fiction, by Mary Roach)

Heroes:

My heroes include Jesus, Mother Theresa, Elvis, Leonardo da Vinci, the inventor of the internet, Albert Einstein, Rainbow Brite, Aesop, Miss Pac Man, anyone who can wear a corset for 18 hours straight, The Green Giant, The Beatles, Mermaids, Charlie the Tuna, The Creature lurking in my closet, Faeries, Spongebob Squarepants, Jem and The Hollograms, Eskimos, Marilyn Monroe, Leprechauns, She-ra Princess of Power, Bettie Paige, the freaky-deaky Dutch, Wonder Woman, Taco Bell employees, and Unicorns... (in that order) I have a lot of heroes, but I like real, down-to-Earth people, best.

My Blog

Polyamory

Topic/Article o'the day: Polyamory Kinda the situation I'm in... not exactly a "swinger" but more like this.  I guess I would have to say I'm in a "structured polyamory" situation.  Anyway, ...
Posted by Nightshade on Tue, 30 Jan 2007 04:26:00 PST

Deleted Friends

Today I went through my friends list, and deleted anybody I couldn't remember ever talking to, and the list of deleted profiles was staggering! First of all, I wondered who was missing, but didn't re...
Posted by Nightshade on Fri, 26 Jan 2007 07:20:00 PST

Leapin' Lizzards!! You wanna cut off my WHAT!?!

Erect Iguana Faces Penis Trauma: Read All About It!! Well, I guess its good to always carry a spare, isn't it?!    ...
Posted by Nightshade on Thu, 25 Jan 2007 09:28:00 PST

Make Best By: mattmicro

I subscribe to a different variety of blogs.  On of my Myspace friends in particular, Mattmicro, is a very good writer, and I enjoy his blogs a lot.  With his permission, I put a link to his...
Posted by Nightshade on Thu, 11 Jan 2007 06:13:00 PST

Christmas With Louise

This is an article submitted to a 1999 Louisville Sentinel Newspaper contest to find out who had the wildest Christmas dinner. This won first prize.Christmas with Louise As a joke, my brothe...
Posted by Nightshade on Fri, 29 Dec 2006 05:07:00 PST

Christmas Lights

Christmas lights taken at Longview, Texas' City Hall... Taken with the flash, off (using a digital camera) - moving the camera in all directions, as the picture was being exposed... Toy ...
Posted by Nightshade on Tue, 19 Dec 2006 06:44:00 PST

The Christmas Tradition of Kissing Under the Mistletoe

Ok, we've all heard of the plant, mistletoe... What is the history of mistletoe pertaining to kissing under it? As Candlegrove.com points out, tracing the history of mistletoe-induced kissing, means ...
Posted by Nightshade on Wed, 13 Dec 2006 06:01:00 PST

I'm Cold

Frigid air, it bites my teeth, my fingers numb, but moving The ice forms near on the windowsil, and the shreaking wind is soothing. I touch my nose, its frozen- yet my fingers bring it ...
Posted by Nightshade on Fri, 01 Dec 2006 07:16:00 PST

Handbag Weapon

Ok, I love purses as much as the next gal, but this has got me to thinking... Handbag Weapon Wouldn't this be so vogue for when you go "slummin' it?"  ...
Posted by Nightshade on Sat, 18 Nov 2006 06:13:00 PST

Things that you can say ONLY at Thanksgiving

Things that you can say ONLY at Thanksgiving:Talk about a huge breast!Tying the legs together keeps the inside moist.It's Cool Whip time!If I don't undo my pants, I'll burst!Whew, that's one terrific ...
Posted by Nightshade on Fri, 17 Nov 2006 04:27:00 PST