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Marty

There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.

About Me

Roamer, nomad, traveler, lost, gypsy even homeless are some of the words used in the last year when people ask me where are you from. I am not from anywhere really. I've lived and travelled all over the world and feel like I could belong anywhere. I am currently working in tx near my family where I grew up. Atlanta was my last home for 12 yrs with my ex wife Regina. Texas started out with a 3 month contract in feb but now my contract has been renewed 3 times and will keep me here up to Jan. I tend to want to run away from the feeling of wanting to set up roots and a good friend could see I was still healing from the loss of my life with my ex. So I was convinced to stay and so here I am enjoying tx, new/old friends and the mexican culture. Being here has helped me grow, heal and move on. I think many of the "experiences" I had here have opened my heart to possible thinking that I do want to find that one (yes I said one) womyn that can keep me. One of my passions is being on the road on my bike. I ride a motorcycle, just purchased my 2nd bike a vulcan 1500. I love the open road, the challenge of long distance rides. Rode my bike to mwmf, 3800 miles and had a great time. Being on those lonely country roads where I can stop by a river and just watch the beautiful sunset and let my mind clear of all things outside of that awe. I don't think I'm complicated but don't we all say that. I love the simple life, I don't own a tv, don't watch it either except on those rare occassions where I'm alone in a hotel room at about 3am and then I turn into a zombie with that clicker. I would be happy on some piece of land with a river next to it and a good womyn by my side. Levis, tshirt and a good pair of boots is all I need and I try not to care too much about what people think. Besides we're all too wrapped up in ourselves to care about what others look like so certainly no one is looking at me. I like old folks and kids. Friends always tell me I'm intimidating, I look mean but really I should post a pic of me as a baby I was born with that hard ass look on my face maybe my mom ate alot of beans. I'm a jokester, kind hearted but can be a curmudgeon at times just to stir the pot. Except when I run into a person who is more of a curmedgeon than me I turn into a flower child. Yeah go figure. I'm blunt and to the point, I'll tell you how it is and have little patients for stupidity especially if I'm forced to spend any time around a person who is fluent in dumb. I may not hold my tongue unless I'm amused by you. I've been living in a big city where people don't really take the time to say hello and thank you, so now being in a slower paced town I forget the formality of slow and small towns especilly the culture. I've also had to get used to long stares due to all my tats. Where in atl. I'm just barely like everyone else here I must be a freak....little do they know.
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My Interests

travel, body art, piercing, bondage, s&m play, motorcycle trips, camping, kayaking, hiking, anything outdoors. Art, music, especially dancing, Michigan Womyns Music Festival. I also like just sitting quietly with a friend or alone just being, reading or napping. I like naps at noon, coffee any time, and a good drink. Motorcycles, motorcycle chics, motorcycle trips...get it

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I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet and make more gay/lesbian friends who don't take life too seriously. I'm open to just about anything: Friendship, companionship, love. I would like to meet friends that are adventurous, that aren't afraid to ride a motorcycles and don't mind people with tattoos. I'm also looking for friends with motocycles to take rides with and go camping. Lately, I've been yearning for "that girl." Someone to give it all to, my time, attention, love and me. I like someone who is real, who likes themselves and truly knows who they are. I know it's hard to get there but hopefully we're all on our way there. In a womyn I enjoy and value someone who cares about herself, her body, and health. I don't smoke and hopefully if she did I may persuade her to stop. I was given credit for helping someone stop smoking and that's cause we weren't even lovers that rocked... I also value someone who is spiritual and cares about mother earth. I value loyalty, pride, honesty, and maturity in my friends. I hope to meet you soon...:)

Music:

In my car I have a variety. james blunt, david gray, anna nalick, joan osbourne, jack johnson. stevie nicks, Bitch and animal, le tigre, the butchies. The cranberries, bjork, depeche mode, natalie merchant, sade. Reggaton is new to me but I love to dance it. The cure, souxie and the banshies, NIN, Netzer ebb, apop, vnv nation, rob zombie, ramnstein. Tori Amos, I wish I was that tree... Music Video: SLEEPS WITH BUTTERFLIES (by Tori Amos)

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Music Video: KIND AND GENEROUS (by Natalie Merchant)

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Movies:

the godfather, alien, finding nemo (love the fish), million dollar baby, urban cowboy, cold mountain.

Television:

sex in the city, law and order. Can't get addicted to tv. I hate sitting around.

Books:

I'm reading The Four Agreements, Love is letting go of fear, The low down on going down (fun, fun, fun)

Heroes:

Anyone who takes the time to think of others first, who takes care of our planet, our children and our parents. Definately my mom, regina, corelia, vic, marlene. I've learned so much from all these womyn and they are who I go to to check myself or get grounded.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: marty
Birthday: december 23rd capricorn
Birthplace: roma, tx
Current Location: rio grande tx
Eye Color: brown
Hair Color: dark brown some say black
Height: 5'4
Right Handed or Left Handed: right
Your Heritage: mexican
The Shoes You Wore Today: dock martin steel toe boots
Your Weakness: womyn
Your Fears: womyn
Your Perfect Pizza: mushrooms, italian sausage
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: I would like to heal completely from by divorce, but it may take more than a year
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: ....
Thoughts First Waking Up: who called?
Your Best Physical Feature: my butt...at least that's what she says
Your Bedtime: workdays 9 am off days 4am im nocturnal
Your Most Missed Memory: Miss RG
Pepsi or Coke: coke
MacDonalds or Burger King: neither....yuk unless it's the only food on earth mcd
Single or Group Dates: either
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: nestea
Chocolate or Vanilla: chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: cafe vanilla frappuccino
Do you Smoke: no, never yuk
Do you Swear: hell yeah
Do you Sing: only when alone or feeling goofy
Do you Shower Daily: twice a day
Have you Been in Love: yes.......yes.... definately
Do you want to go to College: done that finished...won't go back you can't make me
Do you want to get Married: yes, been married want that again
Do you belive in yourself: yes, most of the time
Do you get Motion Sickness: yes. boy do I. I feel it now just thinkin about it
Do you think you are Attractive: yes, to girls who like butches with long hair
Are you a Health Freak: not a freak, but I watch my health
Do you get along with your Parents: absolutely
Do you like Thunderstorms: love the lightning and the sound of rain
Do you play an Instrument: drum (tone, slap slap base)
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: yes...but just a light buzz. I'd have to be in a really safe place to get drunk
In the past month have you Smoked: nope
In the past month have you been on Drugs: nope to dope...he he what a dork
In the past month have you gone on a Date: yes...too bad no one will replace my girl
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: unfortunately around here there is almost no other choice
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: no....probably could eat a few till i remember what they do to your teeth
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: no, I miss Harry and sons in atlanta
In the past month have you been on Stage: No, but hopefully at Michigan I might try some poetry
In the past month have you been Dumped: yes, try like over and over... I just don't know how to behave. it gets me in trouble
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: No. last time was last year
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Maybe a grape at the grocery....I couldn't help it it asked for it
Ever been Drunk: Of course....Don't really like the loss of control unless some girl is taking advantage of me
Ever been called a Tease: I don't tease I please
Ever been Beaten up: by choice...there's a fine line between pleasure and pain..ouch
Ever Shoplifted: No need
How do you want to Die: Happy
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I don't want to grow up
What country would you most like to Visit: Did france, london, Italy, japan, Korea. Greece or spain is next
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: brown eyed girls
Favourite Hair Color: black haired woman
Short or Long Hair: long but short is cute too
Height: doesn't matter I can handle it all
Weight: as long as I can carry you
Best Clothing Style: femme, doesn't have to be dresses but something with a edge
Number of Drugs I have taken: 2
Number of CDs I own: downloads honey (this question is outdated)
Number of Piercings: 4: ears and nipples
Number of Tattoos: 6 and more to come
Number of things in my Past I Regret: too many
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My Blog

karma

It's funny but not really how karma does happen.  Of course I believe in karma but I'm always surprised when it bites me in the ass.  Certainly for all the pain I caused my ex girl I will su...
Posted by marty on Tue, 31 Oct 2006 01:23:00 PST

my dream love

She is a taurus, her favorite color is blue and she won't have to tell me I'll already know.  She loves roses.  Rocky road ice cream....yes the marshmellows are the best.  Do all taurus...
Posted by marty on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 02:01:00 PST

splash should be called storm...

Why can't there be a drama free girl.  I'm really searching for someone that doesn't need to be the center of attention to be happy.  I would of loved to have found a girl to go to splash wi...
Posted by marty on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 01:44:00 PST