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Cyndi

Lead me not into temptation, I can find the way MYSELF!

About Me

Who am I? Well, this is a tough question. Let's start with what I do for a living? I am a college professor, strategic planner, and dance instructor. I love taking on new ventures. I like spending time with friends. Oh, and did I mention that I love to dance!I am also a mom to two fun-loving great children: Angela and Marcus. They are my greatest joys on earth.I love to shop. I have a good sense of humor. I am a very enthusiastic, expressive person. One who has tons of energy. I "live in the present" and because of that, I don't like to hold grudges, and live very spontaneously. For some people, I am a bit "too happy and cheerful." Despite my weaknesses, I do tend to make friends easily. I love people.I am at my best when I am able to encourage and inspire others. That is why teaching is such a good profession for me. I also love my job as the event planner for Wilson's Fitness. I enjoy that job because it provides me with opportunities to organize event that I am able to insure that a group of people are having fun and enjoying a few laughs.I think that, in order to be fully honest about who I am, I must talk about areas of weakness. It is hard to do, but I do recognize my weaknesses. What are they? Well, I am loud and have a big mouth--that's why I made a great cheerleader in high school. I tend to make a lot of decisions based upon my emotions. I am easily distracted, hate being alone, tend to dominate conversations, and am very impatient.Despite those limitations, I do have many, many friends whom I treasure, adore, love, admire and respect. It is because of them that I am happy and enjoy life.My life's motto: Life is short, so I believe that each day must be enjoyed to the fullest. We weren't promised tomorrow, that's for sure.Remember: "To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo MayGet MySpace Layouts from nUCLEArcENTURy .COM OR create your own using MySpace profile editor !!!

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My Interests

Jogging (I run anywhere from 6 - 12 miles 6 days a week), weightlifting, dancing, going to comedy shows, shopping, dancing, playing golf, any activity that involves laughing and having fun. I really enjoy watching football and basketball (I am a season ticket holder), wrestling (I used to be a mat maid at my high school, Lincoln East High), teaching, dancing, salsa dancing, window shopping, ballroom dancing, shopping on credit, and did I mention, shopping and dancing?

I'd like to meet:

Simon Cowell. I'd give anything to meet Simon. Hey, Simon, "will you marry me, please? He can "talk mean to me all night long...smile). Ok, back to reality. I'd also like to meet the guy who played the Phantom of the Opera, Gerard Butler. I'd also like to meet Vince Vaughn (will he please marry me?). Who else? Oh yeah, there's my newest my space friend, Brenda Eyler :-)!Adam Levine of Maroon5. Then, there's Tom Joyner--"the hardest working man in radio, Maxwell, Beyonce, Ellen DeGeneres, David Letterman, Denzel Washington, Teena Marie (love her...always have/always will), and Taylor Hicks (uh,will you marry me too? I'll be your "Soul Patrol"). Then there's Angela Bassett, whom I adore. I'd give anything to meet Stevie Wonder,Jamie Foxx, Robert Deniro, Al Pacino, Smokey Robinson, Gladys Knight, Cuba Gooding, Hallie Berry, Sinbad, Damon Wayans, Rob Thomas, "Captain Jack Sparrow" bka Johnny Depp,& my other future husband, Larry the Cable Guy.

Music:

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Add to My Profile | More Videos I like quite the assortment: Maroon5, Beyonce, Stevie Wonder, Maxwell, Babyface, Billy Joel, The Isley Brothers, Luther Vandross, Chicago, Michael McDonald, The Doobie Brothers, Queen, Boz Scaggs, Whitney Houston (before Bobby Brown), Queen Latifah, Michael Jackson (yeah I like him, so what?) and Elton John,just to name a few. I used to be an on-air radio personality in the early 80s (WONE 91.7 FM), I do hold a major bias for a lot of the Old School R & B (i.e., Dazz Band, Teena Marie, Rick James, George Clinton, etc). I also like all of the 50s and 60s music, Motown hits in particular--the Jackson 5, Marvin Gaye and Tammy Terrell, Smokey, and the Tempting Temptations. I adore and absolutely LOVE Elvis (he gave blacks a lot of credit for his musical and fashion styles). Other musical artists I enjoy are: Nat King Cole, Johnny Mathis, Lou Rawls, Joe Simon, Sam Cooke, and Teddy Pendergrass. And, yes, I am a litle bit country and rock and roll (i.e. artists like Faith Hill, Rascal Flatts, and Kenny Chesny).

Movies:

"Phantom of the Opera," "My Big Fat Greek Wedding," "Center Stage," "A Patch of Blue," "Scarface," "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner," "West Side Story," "Demolitian Man," "Jungle Fever," "That Thing You Do!," "Imitation of Life," "How Stella Got Her Groove Back," "To Sir with Love," "Crash," "Ray," "Glory," "Undercover Brother," "White Chicks," "The Fighting Temptations," "Pirates of the Caribbean," ""What's Love Got to Do With It," "A Bronx Tale," "Cellular," "West Side Story," "Waiting to Exhale," "Something New," "Akeelah and the Bee," "Rent," and the list could go on. I LOVE GOING TO THE MOVIES and EATING POPCORN!

Television:

"American Idol," "Desperate Housewives," "Boston Legal," "Everybody Hates Chris," "So You Think You Can Dance," "In Living Color," "Blue Collar Comedy," "Cheaters," "Ellen DeGeneres," "Living Single," and LOT more!!

Books:

"Memoirs of a Geisha," "He's Just Not That Into You" (everyone woman needs this book), "Living the Satisfied Life," "How to Keep your joy," "The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People," and a ton of other self-help books.

Heroes:

A hero is someone who faces his/her fears instead of running from them. A hero stands firm to his/her convictions, and fights for what he/she believes is right. Facing fears and standing firm are two traits that make heroes different from cowards. You see, both may hold strong convictions. Both may hold the same values. And, both may have the same fears. But it is how you respond to your fears and convictions that differentiates the hero from the coward. The coward simply runs from his/her fear(s). A hero faces his/her fears, standing firm, and fighting for what he/she believes in. With this in mind, here are my heros or the people who throughout their life on earth have faced fears and triumphed: Jesus Christ, Martin Luther King, Jr., Malcolm X, my Mom, my Sister, Sidney Poitier, Stevie Wonder (for getting the MLK Holiday to be nationally recongized), "Flight 93" and all the heroes (i.e., police officers, workers in the Pentagon, the towers, and firemen/women) involved in 9/11/2001, survivors of breast cancer, anyone who tries-out for and stands in front of the judges for "American Idol," Laurence Fishburne, "angus", "rudy," Nia Vardalos for writing her own story and refusing to let the word "no" stand in her way, and my all-time hero, Angela Bassett, for standing firm and refusing to do a "sex scene" in "How Stella Got Her Groove Back."

My Blog

How women get what we want

I am on a roll this week! Found this really funny story about how to ask a man to do something...and man, is it enlightening! I got this at http://www.unwind.com/jokes-funnies/menmarriage/womenget.s.. .
Posted by Cyndi on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 04:19:00 PST

Prescriptions for women

Prescriptions for Womenhttp://www.jokesaboutwomen.net/DAMMITOLTake 2 and the rest of the world can go to hell for up to 8 full hours.EMPTYNESTROGENSuppository that eliminates melancholy and loneliness...
Posted by Cyndi on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:44:00 PST

What I want in a man

What I Want in a ManYour Ad HereOriginal List:1. Handsome2. Charming3. Financially successful4. A caring listener5. Witty6. In good shape7. Dresses with style8. Appreciates finer things9. Full of thou...
Posted by Cyndi on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:39:00 PST

Dictionary for women

Argument (ar*gyou*ment) n. A discussion that occurs when you’re right, but he just hasn’t realized it yet.Airhead (er*hed) n. What a woman intentionally becomes when pulled over by a polic...
Posted by Cyndi on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:42:00 PST

A men’s guide to understanding women

At long last... The Men’s Guide to what a woman really means when she says something.Pay close attention (there might be a quiz later). You want = You wantWe need = I wantIt’s your decisio...
Posted by Cyndi on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:35:00 PST

A great form letter

i found this "form letter" and had to share the laugh. ENJOY!*****************************************************M r. Right Rejection Form LetterDear (____rejectee’s name here____ ),I regret to...
Posted by Cyndi on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:25:00 PST

The gift of forgiveness

WOW, has it really been a month since my last blog? My how time flies when trying to live from day-to-day!! (smile)So, what’s been on my mind lately? For some reason I have been "fortunate" to ...
Posted by Cyndi on Mon, 17 Mar 2008 10:33:00 PST

When One Door Closes....

In life, we all experience events that do not go the way we hope they will. The perfect man/woman morphs into our worst nightmare. We lose or never get that great job. We await answers for that perfe...
Posted by Cyndi on Mon, 04 Feb 2008 06:22:00 PST

Watch out Men! 9 Words that women use...

WOW! It has been over a month since my last blog. Those of you who know me, know I've been very very busy. Am sitting at home watching the "Big Game" (GO GIANTS!) while at the same time trying to g...
Posted by Cyndi on Mon, 04 Feb 2008 05:57:00 PST

Top 10 Things that Sound DIrty at Christmas, But Aren’t

You're gonna love this one... (I'm on a roll, aren't i?)Top 10 Things that Sound Dirty at Christmas, But Aren't10. Did you get any under the tree? 9. I think your balls are hanging too low. 8. Check o...
Posted by Cyndi on Fri, 21 Dec 2007 06:46:00 PST