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Mistress Melissa

Dominate or submit, there are no other options!

About Me

Who am I? I'm Melissa, Mistress of Ds Haven. Ds Haven is not only my website but it's the name of my house. Phoenix is my collared submissive of four years and Miss Heather is a junior top. There are three other members of my house who are here to learn but they will introduce themselves if they wish too. I've created a world of my own liking which is modeled on a Ds Hierarchy and it's how I wish to live. I've fantasized about bondage and S&M since I was a teen ager. Did my first "scene" before I left high school. Been tyeing people up since 1975 starting with self bondage. Damn, I don't feel that old. Yep I was 13 when I started to explore bondage. Loved Cowboys and Indians.
These days I'm looking for two slaves to add to my house. Then I just want to sit back and watch the show. Have many lifestyle friends and enjoy many hours of good conversation over well laid tables. Have my own dungeon to relax in. My dungeon was a birthday gift from the members of my house. If you want to know more, just ask.
Melissa
Mistress of Ds Haven

Yes, surveys are cheesy but they do amuse me.
You scored as Akasha. You are the ultimate in ambition. You don't just want to own the world you want to make crawl to you on its hands and knees begging for mercy or at the least a taste!

Akasha


100%

Blade


100%

Deacon Frost


67%

Dracula


58%

Marius


58%

Lestat


50%

Armand


50%

Louis


42%

Spike


33%

Angel


25%
Whose your Vampire personality? (images)
created with QuizFarm.comI am a: Glock Model 22 in 40 cal

What kind of handgun are YOU?Been trying to decide between the 9mm and the .45 cal. Maybe I should take a better look at the .40 cal. I really like the model 1911 .45 cal but that's probably a left over from my time in the Navy.

My Interests

psy vampires, COS, Pagans and walking in the shadows

A great bottle of wine and a hand rolled cigar.I'm a firm believer in personal responsibility. This includes personal defense and a growing interest in various types of handguns. I enjoy my time spent on the range with friends.

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet people that thrive on pleasing others. People that desire and seek structure order and discipline to add to my house. People that find the concept of slavery alluring.

Music:

Classic rock, Blues and basically what ever strikes my mood. Rap is not music. So bring on the Aerosmith, Guns and Roses, or bust out the Jimmy Buffet. It all depends upon my mood.

Movies:

Basically anything funny and if it blows up all the better. Sci-fi is a favorite.

Television:

StarGate SG-1, Battlestar Galactica, Law and Order SVU, History Channel, TLC.

Books:

Marketplace series, History, Sci-Fi and the masochist in me has read all 26 books in the Gor series.

Heroes:

Those that chose to walk their own path in life.

My Blog

Dreams

Where do your dreams end and reality begin? Why do some people live their dreams while others just dream? What is it that will cause some to step forward and take a chance, while others sit back in sa...
Posted by Mistress Melissa on Mon, 15 May 2006 07:41:00 PST

Evil

You Are 78% Evilhttp://images.blogthings.com/howevilareyouquiz/evil-4.jp g" height="100" width="100">You are very evil. And you're too evil to care.Those who love you probably also fear you. A lot.How'...
Posted by Mistress Melissa on Wed, 31 May 2006 01:42:00 PST

Power Exchange

A power exchange (PE) comes in several forms, your basic PE, a total power exchange (TPE) and an absolute power exchange (APE). Call it what you want, its a power exchange relationship.  A power ...
Posted by Mistress Melissa on Mon, 15 May 2006 07:43:00 PST

Beauty

Part of being a culture or for that matter a subculture is that its members all share a common set of values. Amount these values is beauty. In China the small foot is prized and for years the feet of...
Posted by Mistress Melissa on Mon, 15 May 2006 07:36:00 PST

Wanted: Two slaves to staff my house.

I have openings for two slaves in my house. My girl Phoenix acts as my majordomo. It is her job to manage my house and supervise the slaves in my house.I own, she manages. My house oper...
Posted by Mistress Melissa on Mon, 15 May 2006 06:20:00 PST

Finding those I seek.

"Obedience"One of the traits that mark a person as submissive is their ability to follow direction. The life of a slave is marked not only by their desire to serve and be of use to others but in thei...
Posted by Mistress Melissa on Sun, 07 May 2006 03:42:00 PST