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lady basco

they don't make halos for the weak

About Me

you already know. right?

blur me out
shut me down

alright. here's something a little more tangible.
i used to think i held a secret
and i did
secret of my ear
secret of my profession
i used to believe in myself
seeking no validation from others
then i thought, who am i kidding, i ain't shit
i used to think i couldn't make it
i used to think i could make it
i used to know what "it" was
i used to know who i was
i used to know who i wasn't
i used to be nice
i used to be mean
i used to mean something more than just a nice person
i used to be a person
before i got damaged
or does damage define a person
and a damaged person holds all of the secrets that keeps a mouth shut tight
tight and stapled
i used to hear the noise of my stapled mouth
and wondered if the noise was the secret
or if it was just the pain of the staples
holding my lips shut
or was it just me trying to spit out the blood
from the staples holding my mouth shut so no one
could hear the staples of a stapled mouth
and mouths are what i read when i can't hear but i want to
and eyes are what i read when i can hear but i'm not listening
and listening is what i do when you're not watching
and watching is what i do while you're doing
and doing is what i did for you and not for myself
no-- and doing is what i did for you but not for myself
and not for myself occurs too frequently
and frequently i am down in a hole
or maybe drowning in an ocean gasping for air
but gasping becomes the story of my life
and life is a game and this game has me in check
and in checking myself i haven't been very nice to me
me-- there goes that word again
enough about me
what about you
no-- enough about you
what about change

courage


it all happens so quickly
but not quick enough
i find myself editting before i even finish a line
but that's not me
i've opted to look down at these keys
while i imprint my ache on this page
what is here
so much
there is so much
trembling now because sometimes the words don't tell enough
the song can't bring it enough
the heart is incapable of enough beats to beat into my head
that it is okay to let go
enough with enough
the inadequacies of life can have you spinning till you are drowning gasping for air
but its there, just breathe
there is fucking air for the whole lot of us but we deny ourselves
we consistantly choose suffocation
how comfortable like a cozy lazboy you can't quite figure out how to sit up in again
so there you lay
always looking up
can't see a damn thing in front of you, losing track of the time of day
just get the fuck up
breathe
breathe in all the pain and anxiety
the nervous giddies and the eruptions
laugh your brains out
and when you give someone a hug
do it with the photos of that person's soul wrapped around both arms
when you meet someone give them a hand shake of a thousand more hellos to come
because who the fuck knows?
all these people are witnesses to your life
you are a witness to theirs
how can that be invalidated, dismissed?
we are made to fuck and feel and fight get bloody ugly
and forgive be humbled
then feel again
breaking down these words in my head, my shoulders go limp and my eyelids drop deeper into my gut of anticipation for sleep, for road trips, for travel
for being here
right here, taking it all in and feeling it all come so quickly
and letting it all go

My Interests



heather martin

where are you going
i'm looking at you now
staring at your face
searching for a trace
wrapping my tears in your palm
bow to your feet for some calm
you're giving me your oxygen
i don't want it, rather smoke again
i'm touching your body
studying your mouth
crawling inside you
with your friends from down south
three days to say good bye
am i in your eyes?
come on and pinch
the skin
on my elbow
come on and steal
a thrill
in a cab
we'll bring it right back sir
just wanted to know what it was like to be her
how does your cat out live you
purring bitter peaceful at your feet
we already miss you
breathless cradled in a sheet
three days to say good bye
am i in your eyes?
come on and pinch
the skin
on my elbow
come on and steal
a thrill
in a cab
we'll bring it right back sir
just wanted to know what it was like to be her
the meaning in this, i guess i'm supposed to find
grateful heather, for this borrowed time
three days to say good bye
you never told me why
where are you by and by
can i come too if i try
do you count my cries
will it save you die
i didn't mean to pry
but i need to know
am i in your eyes
too sudden i do not comply
i don't want to watch you die
am i in your eyes
where did you go
i'm looking at you now
pounding my head
on the body you just left
are you all ready
are you sure
cause i'm fucked up and unsteady
my heart's feeling sore
three days to say good bye
am i in your eyes?
come on and pinch
the skin
on my elbow
come on and steal
a thrill
in a cab
i'll bring it right back sir
just wanted to know what it was like to be her
seems like there's nothing to find
heather heather on the mind


the undeniable you.

it's bold! it's italicized!

cause i think there is something i want to say here.
about this interest of mine. this general interest: the undeniable you.

i think i want to drive home a point. i want to drive something home.
that is, i think, you.
yes. sometimes in that oh i'm so drunk please drive kind of way
or you're so drunk i'll drive way.
or you're so hot and i'm bothered by the space between us come home with me kind of way.
or maybe you just need a ride home and i got a vacant seat or two for you so hop on in.

but that's the physical, the verb, the act of driving something home.

but i say i want to drive you home.

the undeniable you.

i am very interested in that.
being witness to that arena in you that is capable of flying, capable of dreaming without getting your hand slapped.
where you still believe that santa comes down that chimney and ma's kisses really do heal those boo-boos.
when it was okay to cry.
that place where all your doubt and fear exists but you keep bringing out those boxing gloves and letting them know who's boss around these parts.
where you aren't worried about rent and car payments, prison bars and what he's thinking about.
or when that phone is going to ring.
when is that career gonna come sailing on in.
i want to experience you walking on those sidewalks of permission.
not chasing a party, searching for the next best thing, next hot spot,
always tripping over hundred dollar bills to pick up pennies.
no i like that one room where you got heads turning, all eyes are on you, and you're no longer apologizing for being here.
you're no longer looking around and through people to see who's going to show up.
because the point is you showed up.
and that is enough.
do you believe that?
that place in you that can stand there and look me in the eye and affect me.
where you stopped hiding behind that drink.
you stopped smoking up your feelings.
and allowed yourself to comeout from under that clenched jaw
those stiff shoulders and said bring it. i can take it.

damn it! that place where i am elated just from being around you. that place where i'm proud to know you.

and you humbly look over with no record of baggage just owning who you are not needing to speak.

just radiating.

i believe this is home. yes. it feels like home.

the company we keep

I'd like to meet:

you and my auntie nita are enough. ..

sap

*kinda like a journal *kinda like a zine *kinda like you

report to baggage claim

it's what i wear today

solace

a heart

dionysio

dant

four blessings

you me

Music:

close your eyes. you and me driving somewhere, transcending this space and time... like yesterday, you can taste it in the air... that's what music does.

Movies:

give me a reason to give a fuck- now that was a bad ass movie.

Television:

is after your soul- run for your life! or just turn it off. you can do it. i believe in you.

..

Books:

reading you is pretty damn interesting. indeed it is.

Heroes:

my mom when she's broken
my father when he's vulnerable
you on your worst day
and then the day after that day
while all the world go about their everyday, ma and i look up
finding all the clouds and birds
rainbows and dreams
and all the stars we couldn't see while the sun was sharing the sky
and counted every one of them
and named them blessings
yet another revolutiongot an emotion for every picture on this page* a poem for each face* got this song swimming in my head* searching, scratching, looking for a space* and i'm afraid i won't have enough to give* like when i really need them, the words won't come* or when i'm really needed, i'll be numb* from feeling something* anything* so sad these days, masking yourself behind forced pleasantries* i greive these days, waiting for a little honesty* i watch these days pass* bills get paid* people get laid* testing hellos* hating goodbyes* another revolution around the sun, so fast these days pass*but i still wait for you* come around and share your undeniables* it's why we know eachother* it is why we recognize one another* in a world of unfamiliar, in the days of ultimate cool* we stand naked*
..

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