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She who must not be named.

ravenblackhair

About Me

Happiness is treacherous. I want to believe love is not.
There is no Frigate like a Book
To take us Lands away
Nor any Coursers like a Page
Of prancing Poetry—
This Travers may the poorest take
Without oppress of Toll—
How frugal is the Chariot
That bears the Human soul.
~Emily Dickinson
I have almost no skills when it comes to interpersonal communication, but I pretend to. Intimacy and trust are farway lands to me.
I Like to Dance and I like to laugh too, especially when I'm taking myself too seriously, but I have a different kind of humor. You'll see. I'm the laugher amid the silence.
I try to avoid having emotions conjured up by others' influences. But I might get caught up in the music.
I try to avoid romanticism, but, as I am a cynic with half-a-step over the line, I sometimes lose.
I secretly dig dirty jokes. Nothing overly offensive though.
Grand gestures don't affect me like the wee little things I notice do.
I have a fascination with the porcelain-skinned, red-headed women of the world. I not-so-secretly wish I were one too. I do my best with what I have.
"Let your freak-flag fly, and if someone doesn't get you, move on."
~ Drew Barrymore, People Magazine
" For those who understand you, no explanation is necessary, for those who don't, none is possible. "
~ Kurt Cobain
"[Anderson Cooper] learned that 'the person who lived a life of dignity and culture was reduced to panhandling their watch in the marketplace. And the person who knew how to put two wires together and run a gas line becomes president.' In other words, he cant forget whats real: that life is chaotically unfair..."

I certainly have not the talent which some people possess...of conversing easily with those I have never seen before (Darcy, Pride and Prejudice)

"The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind. " ~ William James

"Will you ever really understand the substance of me? Will I ever really understand you?" ~ My French Teacher, Mme Anthony

"Mrs. Barry, you must acquire the trick of ignoring those who do not like you. In my experience, those who do not like you fall into two categories: The stupid and the envious. The stupid will like you in five years time. The envious, never."
~Rochester (Depp), The Libertine

My Interests

Makeup, Art, Costumes, Things of beauty, Fairy tales, History, artifacts, theatrics and beautifully manipulated/ orchestrated moments, I believe in details, Flair and flamboyance, lamentation, imagination, reminiscing, Cynicism, human behavior and its underlying influences, acts of passion (no, not sex) or just the idea of being overwhelmingly consumed by the emotions brought on by the moment, Music, Words (whether in sonnets or song)

exploration, findings things where some say there is naught, discovering,

saying proverbs incorrectly but having the meaning understood anyway,

"out of character" moments on my and others' part really are thrilling.

I'd like to meet:

Karol Wojtyla. :)
Danny Elfman, Bobby Driscoll, Bobby Darin (quite possibly the love of my life, though you probably will never understand why):

(actually for his acting, believe it.),

(the one and only),

Robin Williams, Donald O'Connor, Roald Dahl, Ricky Gervais, Rufus Wainwright, Kate Winslet, Dame Judi Dench, Christina Ricci, Winona Ryder, Dick Van Dyke, Frank McCourt, Jason Isaacs, Liev Schreiber, Anderson Cooper, Kevyn Aucoin. King Arthur. Interesting people or people with fascinating interests.
The wee folk who dance on the purple moors.

"A GREAT MAN, is one that can be a survivor, as opposed to somebody who is born into something and made a few right business decisions and has accomplished, what, money?" -- Angelina Jolie

Someone who'll help me find the light switch.

People who do not need or use a diploma to validate their intellect (although congratulations if you have one), people who are not too worried about having the latest and greatest.

People who question, but not too bitterly. people willing to understand as well as to be understood, who have an appreciation for the humanity in others. People who can see what's real and what's not. People who can be honest with themselves, and don't spew words that sound like that's the correct thing to say; meaning, I don't like overly strict political correctness. People with similar interests, would do too.



Music:

You can't go wrong with music.

The White Stripes - Seven Nation Army
Feckin' beau-ti-ful.

Ella Fitzgerald & Dinah Shore - Blues Medley (SIMPLY STUNNING.)

Obviously, Matchbox 20 - Leave

My Chemical Romance - Helena

Current fascination:
The Beatles, Danny Elfman

But where would I start?
The subtle and the dramatic... Jazz, Blues, Folk/Acoustic/Indie, Motown, Standards of the American Songbook, anything 60s/70s (but disco.), almost all kinds of Rock, Showtunes/Disney, certains kinds of classical--I don't know how they're classified, Ethnic/Celtic, New Age, Bluegrass/Newgrass, I love the human voice, anything that haunts, and all the other good stuff...
I also love the kind of music that transcends the boundaries of these labels or genres, and bathe in the glory of its masterpiece.
Ok, I just LOVE music, that's all. It leaves me, and lets me be, speechless.

Movies:


Walken.
I don't think there is an actual favorite.
3:10 TO YUMA!! The Others, The Up Series, BBC Pride and Prejudice, The Patriot (if only for Col. Tavington alone), American Beauty, The Libertine, Forrest Gump,
Edward Scissorhands, Sleepy Hollow (basically any Tim Burton stuff),
Moulin Rouge, Mermaids, IQ, A Life Less Ordinary, Never Been Kissed, About a Boy, School of Rock, Now and Then, 13 Going on 30 (the music is perfectly queued), The Princess Bride, Nat'l Lampoon's Christmas Vacation, Christopher Guest films,
Mad Hot Ballroom, Mad About Mambo, If a Man Answers, Gone with the Wind, Singin' in the Rain, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, Hook,
The Land Before Time (the FIRST one),Disney's Peter Pan, Disney's Robin Hood, Disney's Dumbo, Disney's The Lion King, Disney's The Hunchback of Notre Dame, Disney's Ichabod Crane (I never knew that was Bing Crosby!)
Basically all Disney material produced pre-lizzie mcguire era. that was the beginning of the end.
Disney's Snow White scares the hellouttame, cannot watch it alone, for real.

Television:


The Office (BBC) The David Brent Dance for Charity

(trying to outshine his "more popular" big boss who just finished a choreographed disco number)

I LOVE Ghost Hunters.

3rd Rock from the Sun, documentaries--especially biographical, (British Humor), The Office (BBC), Cold Case Files.

PBS!, The Learning Channel, The Discovery Channel...

and I will admit...The Maury Show. are you the father?

Books:

Like Water for Chocolate, Kevyn Aucoin makeup books, Crazy Lady!, Le Petit Prince, Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, Biographies (except for those of most politicians, I just can't seem to keep myself interested), A Thousand Paths to _______ books, Shakespeare's A Midsummer Night's Dream, Angela's Ashes, Jemima J, The Moorchild, The Hobbit. Danny the Champion of the World, Children's stories and Roald Dahl in general, Fantasy books, Brian Jacques adventures, my photo album.
children's books because the authors help children to recognize the significance of the little things that 'grown ups' easily overlook and instead magnify them and weave intricacies around them for the hearts of the children, and me. These stories have breathed life into my childhood.

Heroes:

My Dear Mom, the strongest, most understanding, selfless, compassionate, and rationally open-minded woman I know, and my daddy--even though we had our moments. Through these people I was raised an unconventional gal.

My Blog

I don’t like it

I despise it when people say "the heart wants what it wants." that can be nothing more than a weak cover for acting wantonly.  I have known many a heart to change, after being audacious enough in...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Sat, 27 Oct 2007 06:50:00 PST

totally irrevelant, strange nonetheless

i just watched the Libertine with Johnny Depp (not for him, surprisingly), the language is beautiful and it makes very poignant observations on life in the eyes of a witty yet suffering man. I have be...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Mon, 16 Jul 2007 01:32:00 PST

Simple Song of Freedom -- Bobby Darin

Come and sing a simple song of freedomSing it like you've never sung beforeLet it fill the airTell the people everywhereWe, the people here, don't want a warHey there, Mister Black Man can you hear me...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Sat, 07 Jul 2007 10:59:00 PST

The Grass is Blue

Dolly Parton~ I've had to think up a way to survive Since you said it's over Told me good-bye I just can't make it one day without you Unless I pretend that the opposite's true Rivers flow backwards V...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Mon, 11 Jun 2007 10:30:00 PST

dance final!

well i'm off to swing, salsa, and cha-cha my way through class today! i'm totally putting on those shorts under the dress. I have seen far too many wardrobe malfunctions in my time.
Posted by She who must not be named. on Fri, 18 May 2007 04:29:00 PST

Love me though I sin

I like it when people show their flaws. People who don't seem perfect on the outside tend to be less judgmental of others. It's like people who want to show how "on the right path" they are become so ...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Thu, 17 May 2007 01:31:00 PST

Wildwood Flower - Iris Dement

(originally by the Carter Family) I will twine and will mingle my raven black hairWith the roses so red and the lilies so fairAnd the myrtle so bright with an emerald hueThe pale emanita and hyssop so...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Thu, 17 May 2007 01:14:00 PST

70 years!

Happy Birthday to Mr. Bobby Darin, singer, actor, activist, and the sexiest mister to have graced hollywood (besides Marlon Brando). He would have been 70 today if not for his tragic but expected deat...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Mon, 14 May 2007 10:18:00 PST

Hooray for Usefulness!

I spent all of yesterday and today (starting and) finishing multiple projects/reports for my classes. Alas, the end no longer seems so dark! Now I feel I deserve those boots....No comments, please. Ju...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Sun, 06 May 2007 08:17:00 PST

I Will Give My Love an Apple

I will give my love an apple Without e'er a core. I will give my love a house Without e'er a door. I will give my love a palace Wherein she may be, And she may unlock it Without any key. My head is th...
Posted by She who must not be named. on Tue, 10 Apr 2007 07:46:00 PST