Music (gothic, darkwave) , poetry, bass guitar, mythology, movies, architecture, photography, movies, meeting new people
Men and Women for friends, penpals, etc, just Men for dating/serious relationship.
bauhaus, depeche mode, christian death, siouxsie and the banshees, peter murphy, new order, the cruxshadows, sisters of mercy, clan of xymox, this mortal coil, bella morte, faith and the muse, my life with the thrill kill kult, rasputina, kmfdm, concrete blonde, etc
The Lost Boys, Innocent Blood, The Virgin Suicides, Nightmare on Elm Street, Witchboard, The Labyrinth, the Alien series, The Amityville Horror, Night of the Living Dead, Interview with the Vampire, Hocus Pocus, Pirates of the Carribean, too many to list!
Amy Tan and Anne Rice tend to be my favorite authors, if I am reading something it is most likely by them, if it's not by them it's either relating to mythology, some sort of biography, or it's poetry.