Hi , first off , if your wanting to add me as a friend , you will have to take the time to message me to at least say hi , and then you should pretty much keep in touch and drop me a line once in a while :) , about me : i'm 38 6ft 220 lbs brownish hair and blue eyes , i'm in a relationship with Douglas B and have been with him for 20 years , we are complete opposites , we have nothing in common but Love , Lust , and Incredible Sex! he likes working on anything that has a motor , he loves to ride his Harley when he gets the chance which isn't often , when its nice out i like a lot of outdoor things , like hiking in the woods , fishing when i get to go , bird and animal watching , working in my flower beds which i have 8 large ones, i love to grow things and i'll give any plant a try :), i also like working indoors decorating my home , i'm always changing things and coming up with new ideas , i use to draw and paint when i was younger , but haven't really done it in years , but i'm starting again , i love photography and would like to get into it seriously , we have three cats we treat like they are our kids , they are very spoiled , we have our own home and a rental that we can't seem to find decent people to live in , are there no clean people out there anymore? , also i have met and become friends with some great neighbors , they make me laugh and take my mind off things , and i hope i do the same for them , they should know they can count on me anytime for anything , i have also found some great friends on myspace , if you want me as a friend on here you will have to make some effort to get to know me and vice versa