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I think she fell for it!

kendallickes

About Me


My Personal Mission Statement:
L ive with Integrity and Compassion
M aintain a Positive Attitude
K eep a sense of humor
B e orderly in person and work
F acilitate to the success of others
S eek first to understand then to be understood
O btain the counsel of others
S hare my knowledge with anyone interested in learning
B e Interdependent
M ake decisions based on my personal mission statement

Strawberry Farm 2007
My Roles In Life
Brother: This is one of the most important roles in my life. Though I don't delegate as much time to being there for my sister and helping her as I could or would like to, I realize that my absence is a product of two busy lives(my sister’s and mine). Still I recognize the need for more investment in this area.
Son: Another very important role in my life is that of a sun. I feel like I make my parents proud by my accomplishments and my desire to further accomplish. I am lacking in the areas of time and involvement in there lives. Again the product of the collective making, however I desire to spend more time with each of them doing the things they like to do. My parents love to fish and camp, cook and watch movies as a group. These areas are not of great interest to me personally, but I realize it is better to care about there interests as much as I care about them.
Family Member: For practical reasons I cannot list my roles as a family member one by one. However I can generalize. It is obvious to me that I do not spend enough time with family. We try... more in the summer to get together and have fun and for the most part it keeps us all in good relations. The real concern that I have in family un involvement is with my family in Ohio; my Gramma's, Aunt, Uncle and all of my wonderful cousins. My family, near and far, likely do not understand how much I care about them, love them and appreciate them. They all do very much for me direct and indirect.
Friend: My friends are dear to me; I care about them deeply and for the most part cannot see myself without them. Some are more like family and would fit in the above category as well. I feel like some of my friends are drifting away and it saddens me. I realize that I can control this and vow to make the changes I can to keep my friends close.
Student: I am a student of J.S.R. community college on a two year degree program, so far maintaining a 4.0 GPA. It becomes increasingly harder to keep up as graduation nears but I feel there is a good chance I can maintain degree of excellence until the end. But this is not only what I mean when I say I am a student. I am a student of experience and continual evolution. Each day, with each opportunity, I seek to learn all that I can. I am also a student of my mission statement; it is a list of things I value and hold true to all situations. With conscious effort I will someday imbed them deep within my character (i.e. not letting my emotions control my decisions).
Employee: I am and employee of Pence Collision Center. My experience’s as an employee and my work in general give me great satisfaction and a strong feeling of accomplishment. Though at times I feel held back; I find it important to realize that the feeling is within me, and therefore of my own making and under my control.
Self Aware Individual: I recognize my own involvement in my life and my personal ability to control my reactions. I strongly believe that individuals are a product of there own making and not of there environment. Our environment causes us to “react,” if we react, then we are allowing our environment to define us. Never the less this is our choice, our own making. We can choose, we choose to choose, or we choose to react.


A Pic of My Place
I Have a Glass Half Full Attitude
Why Do We Judge People?

My Interests


Collision Repair
My biggest project
Most fun I ever had fixing a wrecked vehicle, hopefully the car will be given to a needie family like they said it would befor I fixed it.

Paintball

Learning and Teaching

We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
-Mary Catherine Bateson


The Children in the Family

I'd like to meet:

Who do I want to meet? Well I guess I don't know. The greatest people I have ever met I didn't previously know existed. Margo it's really nice to meet you!

Movies:


Best Spiritual Movie

Television:

I don't watch much television, but if I do it's usually the history chanel or educational programming. I know I'm a loser :P

Books:

How to Make a Jerraffe Smile by Hugh Goldthorp

Good to Great by Jim Collins

"Good is the enemy of great...Few peole attain great lives, in large part because it is just so easy to settle for a good life."

The Seven Habbits of Highly Effective People by Steven R. Covey


"Seek first to understand then to be understood"

Heroes:

My Family and Friends are my heroes, they got me through the hardest times of my life. I love them all.

My Blog

sucker! :P

i tricked Margo Collins into marrying me. can you believe she said yes?  me either.  i must be the luckyest person in the hole damn world.  i love her with all my heart.  im t...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Sun, 17 Feb 2008 01:49:00 PST

Leadership Award

From my school... I really don't know what to say
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Sat, 19 May 2007 04:09:00 PST

How's this for off track

Ok picture this.  I'm finally at a place in my life where everything is under control, manageable and fulfilling.  School is great, work is great, and I'm closer to my family than I have eve...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Sat, 12 May 2007 01:21:00 PST

a little off track

everything is going great and all of the suddend something happens that u didnt expect.  somthing you didnt even think was possible, it happened to me and now im a little off track.  i guess...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Wed, 02 May 2007 10:01:00 PST

Unofficial Transcript (April 20-07)

Unofficial Transcript  Print Date   :  2007-04-20  Name      :  Ickes,Kendall J. Sargeant Reynolds Community College   P...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Sat, 21 Apr 2007 06:45:00 PST

Barriers: Where is the love?

Barriers:  Where is the love? What barriers in my life keep me from loving others fully?  What barriers prevent others from fully loving me?  What can I do about these barriers? ...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 01:48:00 PST

Messages: Anger, Conflict, Confrontation

Messages:  Anger, Conflict, Confrontation What messages have I received from my family while growing up about feeling and expressing anger?  For the most part when someone in my family gets...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 01:45:00 PST

Friendship

Friendship What constitutes a friend?  How important is friendship in my life?  What views do I have on friendship?  I view friendship as a strong interdependent relationship between p...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 01:43:00 PST

My ideal intimate relationship

My Ideal Intimate Relationship What is my ideal intimate relationship?  On the surface, I know I want "forty acres and a mule," a wife that loves me, two or three kids and a nice house.  Bu...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 01:41:00 PST

Spirituality

Spirituality A Look at my Spirituality              What is spirituality?  What is spirituality to me?  For many, spirituality can mean...
Posted by I think she fell for it! on Sat, 10 Mar 2007 04:45:00 PST