Shan

I'm not average - so leave your pre-conceptions at the end of this sentence. I live my life with a fervour unrivalled by few and reap the benefits of a fantastic outlook and a kick arse attitude! Procrastination is something I like to do little of - and if something challenges me i like to grab that challenge swiftly by the balls and do what has to be done to overcome it. My conquests are my pride - and my pride is a big part of my life, success and future endeavours. I'm selfish in love, i live for me and hold only one other in true high esteem - Sienna-Jayde - the most amazing daughter any father could ever wish for. My close friends and family come in at a close second. My selfishness will perish at a time that I find myself suitably challenged and intrigued by someone of the opposite sex - since I suspect that wont be any time soon, my life will be packed with subtle self indulgences. I believe a person is a product of their own thoughts - in saying that I appreciate nothing more than people who understand what i mean when i say that. I appreciate being appreciated and know my own self worth. I'm comfortable being me and love being the main character in my sensationally awesome life. People who take the time to share decent conversation with me and can extend a thought beyond the mediocrities of everyday life are people that i will inevitably grow to admire in time. My friendship is not exclusive, and it holds no boundaries once you've earnt my trust, but to do that entirely is something few have done. I love to meet new people, and while i'm comfortable that not everybody is compatible, I like to enter with a smile and leave with others smiling. My daughter, having fun, setting goals, avoiding monotony and striving for self improvement are all things I live for. I know I'm not perfect and believe this to be but one of the things that will keep me on track for bigger and better things - besides, perfection is boring and predictable. Aesthetics appeal differently from person to person, but attraction is cerebrally focused as well as physically - so those with the ability to string a sentence of medium cohesion together along with pride enough to take care of their appearance are more than welcome to contact me. Insecurities shit me, and people who fail to realise that they have complete control of their own happiness frustrate me. I don't profess to know everything - but life is what you make of it. Simple.My advice - smile... It's free and makes you look great!!!Peace!