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Stefani

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About Me

At times I confuse people... i am somewhat androgynous... I've been mistaken for a showgirl and a drug dealer, an indian and a rock star, an Olympic swimmer and a street walker... My last boyfriend said they need a new category to put me in, and called me a "gender bender." I've lived half my life as a male, and half as a female, and have enjoyed the fruits of what each gender brings...I am also bisexual and have lived with both men and women. You fall in love with a person, not with what's between their legs.I am extremely affectionate ... live to love... but only with a committed partner... no more 1-night stands for this grrl.I am honest to a fault, even keeled, do not have a temper, have a good listening ear, and a body that looks good in a bikini or a baseball uniform.Like everyone, i feel i've seen a lot... I was thrown out of the house by my father at 20... spent a summer living in a log cabin on the beach... posed naked to make ends meet... buried my best friend that died of AIDS... paid my own way thru college and grad school... worked as a newspaper reporter... quit a job in 1995 that paid me $200,000... taught high school English for a year... it's a wonderful life.

My Interests

Music, movies, literature, the beach, writing, poetry, the arts, true love.Music Video: CHERRY LIPS (by Garbage)

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I'd like to meet:

Someone with an open mind. Someone secure in their own identity. Someone that is not homophobic. Someone that is not a mindless, religious fundamentalist. Someone that is not afraid to think for themself. Someone willing to go against the grain. Someone willing to say "fuck you" to society, and follow the beat of their own inner drummer. Someone with talent and creativity, and that is passionate about their art, whatever it might be. Someone not afraid to love, to give of their heart & soul entirely, without reservation. Someone that does not need a marriage certificate to get married. Someone that does not need to get drunk to have a good time. Someone that treats their own body like a temple. Someone that turns on my frontal lobes, as well as the lights below. Someone with their shit together. I'm not looking for freaks, perv's, couples, or one-night stands. I'm looking for a true friend first. Honesty. A soul mate would be great.

Music:

Lifehouse, Nickleback, Sarah McLachlan, Joan Jett, David Grey, Amy Mann, Motown, Melanie C., Iio, Audio Adrenalin, Linkin Park, Indigenous, Jett, Lenny Kravitz, Filter, Michelle Branch, Dido, Natalie Imbruglia, Tracy Chapman, Paula Cole, No Doubt, Sophie B Hawkins, R.E.M., S.T.P., U2, CSNY, ATC, Puddle of Mudd, Incubus, Third Eye Blind, Matchbox 20, Carlos Santana, Garbage, Coldplay, Cranberries, Berlin, Beatles, StonesMusic Video: SOMEWHERE I BELONG (by Linkin Park)

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Movies:

Arsenic and Old Lace, Crash, Moulin Rouge, The English Patient, Heaven Can Wait, Monty Python & the Holy Grail, A Walk in the Clouds, The Crow, Cold Mountain, It's A Wonderful Life, On the Waterfront, Young Frankenstein, 9 1/2 Weeks, Harold & Maude, The King of Hearts, Doctor Strangelove, Family Man, His Girl Friday, Ordinary People, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, A Man for all Seasons, The Lion in Winter, The Philadelphia Story, Gone With the Wind, Life of Brian

Television:

Lost

Books:

Homer's Iliad, Whom the Gods Would Destroy by Richard Powell, The Arrangement by Elia Kazan, Catcher in the Rye, Romeo & Juliet, The Taming of the Shrew, Henry V, The Trojan Women by Euripides, Who Am I This Time? by Kurt Vonnegut Jr, Something Happened by Joseph Heller, A&P by John Updike, The Last Kingdom by Bernard Cornwell, Speak by Laure Halse Anderson, Alexander of Macedon by Peter Green, Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurty

Heroes:

J.C., Odysseus, J.F.K., Homer (not Bart's dad), Richard Powell, Helios, Shakespeare, Hector, Joan Jett, Katherine Hepburn, Troy Aikman, Brett Farve, Socrates, Keanu Reeves, Grace Kelly, Jim Morrison, Johnny Callison, Achilles, Maureen O'Hara, Fantastic Four, Tarzan, Chip Hilton, Cassandra, S. Leonard Rubenstein and my parents

My Blog

Red Neck Heaven

Went out to a redneck bar tonight.  My friend Antonio is the bar manager at an English pub in Washington's Crossing (he's first on my top friends top 10).  He's been a friend for years. ...
Posted by Stefani on Sun, 29 Oct 2006 01:13:00 PST

Hell hath no fury, Part 2

In an August 21 blog, i wrote about a guy i met here named Chris that came out to New Hope one Saturday night... we met for a drink... he asked me out on a date... and then stood me up the next weeken...
Posted by Stefani on Sat, 21 Oct 2006 09:10:00 PST

The Darkside

Yet another man from MySpace stood me up. Funny thing is, the guy wrote to me after reading my last blog saying how horrible that other guy Chris was, and he couldn't imagine standing me up.  Yea...
Posted by Stefani on Mon, 28 Aug 2006 06:32:00 PST

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

I don't understand men. A guy from MySpace named Chris (you can send him hate mail at http://www.myspace.com/72306518) emailed me here, and said he wanted to meet me.  I told him where I hang out...
Posted by Stefani on Mon, 21 Aug 2006 02:38:00 PST

Melissa... a sweet TS

A MySpace friend named Mari introduced me to a young TS named Melissa that just moved into the New Hope area, and wet met out for the first time at the Raven last night. So many people write, and...
Posted by Stefani on Sun, 16 Jul 2006 01:13:00 PST

Into the Woods

This has been the best weekend.  Jen and I got to see the play "Into the Woods" on Saturday night at the Bucks County Playhouse. With the summer here, and the weather gorgeous, New Hope was hoppi...
Posted by Stefani on Mon, 29 May 2006 08:42:00 PST

Harvey Keitel in drag

Saw a crazy movie tonight.  "Holy Smoke."  I love Kate Winslet, but couldn't help but wonder what she was doing in this wacky flick.  I must be missing something. A friend recommen...
Posted by Stefani on Sat, 27 May 2006 09:43:00 PST

Chameleon

Over the last year I feel like I've been bouncing back and forth between the genders like a ping pong ball getting whacked back and forth across a little net by two mad Chinamen. People tell me they t...
Posted by Stefani on Tue, 23 May 2006 08:20:00 PST

Hormones 12 step

Hello my name is Stefani Moore and I am a hormone addict. It has been six months since I last gouged myself on the transsexual cocktail of premarin and androcur.  It has been over two years ...
Posted by Stefani on Tue, 23 May 2006 09:09:00 PST

Dancing to one melody...

Your lips melt into mine Heartbeats keeping time Dancing to one melody Hips that sway with song While the world goes on and on We're dancing to one melody I am more me And you more you W...
Posted by Stefani on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST