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Paindancer

Its not who you are, its how you bleed

About Me

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Bald, buff, in a bite sized package. I am a top in the fetish community, a somewhat novice model, fire breather, single dad, and engineering consultant. I work hard, and try to play hard, and am happiest when I am pushing my own limits.
Regarding the fetish, I have been inspired with the beauty of the scene, the rush of being in control of this sexy, stimulating art form. I am currently expanding my wings in the LA scenes as well as looking around San Diego. I specialize in electrical play: Violet wands, taser, electrodes. The look and feel of this play is relatively unique both for audience and participant, not to mention the precise level of control one can apply. Its a more delicate art, and not always as showy, but when you are manipulating another at the base nervous system, the effects can be pronounced.
I also do a style of hand play, that so far I haven't seen emulated. Heavy is one way to put it. It is a combination of corporal punishment and eastern style martial arts, culminating in a fluid, aggressive form.
Still learning many aspects of the scene, including rope work, flogger, power exchange. As always, I never cease to be amazed with the impressive display of skill found in the beautiful, complex people of our sensual little nightmare.
That said, in the scene and out, I am a bit goofy at times, a nerd at heart, and passionate to the point of self centeredness. I'm driven to explore and learn. I find my own flaws, but try to embrace them. After all, shouldn't we all be testing our limits and finding to room to grow and better ourselves?
Otherplaces I am at:
Paindancer.com
Model Mayhem

My Interests

Martial Arts, Spirituality, Metaphysics, Sex, Fetish, Sci-fi, Fire Dancing, BDSM, Violet Wand, Shibari, TENS

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I'd like to meet:


I am looking to meet models, photographers, and any participant in the BDSM circles. I am very interested in expanding my modeling experience. I also entertain some private sessions from time to time, but very often can be found playing at Bar Sinister (Purgatory) or DV8 (Passive Arts Center). Having the ability to communicate is absolutely required if you are considering working with me in a D/s role. I do not prescribe to mindless domination. I am not a 24/7 lifestyler, and have a relaxed fun rackside manner. I enjoy meeting people who are looking to explore this environment for the first time in a public setting.

Both in and out of the scene, I like people who stimulate me intellectually or spiritually as well as are physically attractive to the eye. Life is a art form. Beauty with no substance is only distraction.

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Music:

Trace, Industrial, Jazz, Electronica, Japanese Pop, Gagaku, Koto, Goa, Blues, Death Metal, Gothic, Dark

Movies:

Serenity, Kill Bill 1 & 2, Akiria, Nightmare Before Christmas

Television:

Who has time for TV? Maybe Battlestar Galactica when I can catch it.

My Blog

Aww.. I have a stalker I think

What a riot!Seems like a old high school mate has been tracking down my movements and has some really interesting things to say.  I wonder what Pixie is going to say now that she will find out th...
Posted by Paindancer on Sun, 28 Jan 2007 05:49:00 PST

Where's Waldo?

So, it has come to my attention that people are wondering where the hell I have been lately.  Some have inferred that gravitational forces have diminished in a micro region localized around my ph...
Posted by Paindancer on Sat, 20 Jan 2007 08:40:00 PST

Crunch

So, on Friday, I was heading back from a client.  Turning left, across traffic to get on the 110.  Not sure how it happened.  I think the car was following a white van, coming at me.&nb...
Posted by Paindancer on Sun, 17 Dec 2006 12:37:00 PST

Fetish and the Porn Industry

Fetish and Porn   Seems like, someone made a lot of money recently mixing fetish into pornography, so now it seems everyone is positioning themselves to follow this trend.  Before I start, l...
Posted by Paindancer on Fri, 29 Sep 2006 09:00:00 PST

Im in Hawaii, Beyotches

So, it was told to me recently "If I were there, I would be blogging my butt off about it".  I guess that was a request... so I will do my first vacation blog ever.  Yeay.  Here we go.....
Posted by Paindancer on Sat, 02 Sep 2006 12:00:00 PST

Silent Hill

Holy Jesus! Im not sure why, but I wanted to rave about this movie.  Its pretty rare I peep up about such things, but considering that most of my friends have a penchant for the twisted, I wanted...
Posted by Paindancer on Thu, 27 Apr 2006 05:45:00 PST

Computer Dependancy

So, 2 days ago, my lap-top starts to purr.  Odd sound, but very quiet. Little did I know this was the death rattle of my hard drive.  So, over the next two days, my computer acts odder and o...
Posted by Paindancer on Wed, 26 Apr 2006 04:23:00 PST