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I'd like to meet:

In general, those who appreciate the things that they have and who don't take advantage of the blessings and opportunities in which they have been given. Those who know how to stop and smell the roses and see the beauty in what lies in front of them. People who have goals and want that last drop of lemon juice in that lemon that they are squeezing to make their lemonade... it's called ambition! Through my journey of life I have come across many people only to find a handful of those that I can call my TrUe* friends, who have turned into family. I look for the good in people... who have pure & unselfish hearts who can live up to their principles & beliefs. I won't make someone a priority in my life, when I am only their option... I have no time for games or peolpe who do not have time for me. PerioD. There's no time for haters or selfish unreliable egotistical people in this girls life! If you think you are anything of the sort... you are on the wrong girls page!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...In a man, someone who can make me smile & make me laugh... laughter is of key* importance boys ;o) Who will tell me stupid jokes, whatever it takes to make me laugh. Oh, & I like a man who knows how to have fun in absolutely any situation (can't forget that!)... & someone who is spontaneous & aggressive too! He's got to have confidence, NoT cocky-ness! Someone who is honest with life, me, & himself... & someone that has the time* to be around... not someone who needs to pencil me in. Someone that I can trust & can lean on when it feels like I am about to fall... & someone who knows exactly how to treat his woman :o) A man with respect & a gentle hand... a man who even knows how to open the door for his lady. Someone who can tell me I am amazing, and why. Who will tickle me even if I say stop... you know I love it ;) Who will hold my hand... tell me I am beautiful... & tell me I am the most amazing girl you know. Someone who will kiss me just to shut me up lol... who will kiss me on my forehead, and even in the rain. Someone who will let me sleep in his t-shirt & fall asleep in his arms. Who will call me & stay up with me all night on the phone... just because. Someone who can appreciate the whole package of who I am & what my life is about... really just someone that can appreciate me. I know what I want... & I will NeVeR* settle for less than what I DESERVE. Boys come a dime a dozen... I just haven't found the right one for me yet......................................................L'a more e DoloreLove is Pain*****************"What is a Jersey girl? She's humble but ambitious. She's independent but family oriented. She likes eating pizza, drinking beer, having great hair, & wearing lots of mascara, but don't think for a moment she's not sophisticated. Jersey girls are about attitude. She's got a mouth on her. She says what she means. A Jersey girl is crunchy on the outside & soft in the center. She has the tenacity & drive of a New Yorker, but with the beauty of warmth & humility that being from Jersey is all about. She's got a nice, cheerful laugh. She's spunky & witty, and she handles competition very well. She's got confidence. Whatever work she does, she gives it her all. Bottom line: she's sexy as hell & if you're lucky, she's yours."*****************"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you'll risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. It doesnt interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you've touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have you become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine and your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it. It doesnt interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments...."***********What's done is done. The time and energy you spend complaining about it will get you nothing but a lot of frustration and negativity. What's happened has happened. Instead of looking back, fretting and arguing about why or how or who is at fault, look forward and consider all the positive possibilities that are available to you.If you've been wronged, don't seek revenge. Seek success, seek achievement, seek fulfillment, seek to take what has happened and turn it into a positive force in your life.Spend your time and energy not in looking back, but in looking ahead. For that is where you can make a difference.Learn from what has happened, allow it to inspire and motivate you in a positive way, and then choose to move forward. See the value in the way things are at this moment, and see how you can make full use of that value.Let go of your attachment to what has already happened. And make room in your life to create the very best that can be.......................................................... .......******True security does not lie in the things that you have... but in the things that you can do without...******