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Top Man Jeffrey (NIC)

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

My Name is Jeffrey Dale Enlow I go by Jeff, I just moved from a house the was build in 1883 and is on Historic Walnut Street the house is on the National Historic Registry and was a great place to live and was close to my work and downtown I will miss living there. I moved 06/18/08 closer to work and to the center of Springfield just off of Battlefield and Kimbrough. I have been in Springfield since 2000. I am looking to meet new and interesting people. One can never have too many friends in their life. I would describe myself as being kind, considerate, playful, respectful, and trustworthy. I also seek those same qualities within my friends for some personal I am there for my friend whenever they need something that I can provide them with and am a great listener. I love being around my family and friends. I am currently working for a large hotel and resort time share company and loving every minute of it. The atmosphere is exactly what I have been wanting and I get most weekends to spend with my friends and family. Besides all that I am a very trustworthy person, pretty spontaneous at times, loyal, I love the outdoors I like to meet people and find out if they are person I would hang out with more. I hate drama and will confront you when I think you’re starting it. I want people to be into doing things that are for betterment of one’s life. When I am not working I enjoy such past times as music, listening to music it evokes an emotion within me I like different musical genres. I also enjoy traveling. I have traveled all over the United States, Canada, Mexico, and a few countries including Belgium, and China If want to chat, hit me up. I would like to visit and get to know as many people as possible. Life is about learning, from both successes and failures. The important thing is what we LEARN from each other. God Bless!~~ style="position:absolute;top:0px;left:0px;"
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My Personality
Neuroticism 62
Extraversion 93
Openness To Experience 31
Agreeableness 96
Conscientiousness 89
You do not feel nervous in social situations, and have a good impression of what others think of you, however you tend to lack energy and have difficult initiating activities. You have a generally cheerful disposition. You prefer facts over fantasy and are more interested in what is happening in the real word. You naturally assume that most people are fair, honest, and have good intentions, however you are tenderhearted and compassionate, feeling the pain of others vicariously and are easily moved to pity. You believe that you have the intelligence, common sense, drive, and self-control necessary for achieving success

My Interests

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I'd like to meet:

Not really sure who I would like to meet. I have meet some great people in my life the ones I liked I keep as friends. That is about all I am looking for at this point. So therefore I am looking for Friends to share my life with and to have fun times with. Life is about choices and the choices you make are what affect the outcome of your life and what legacy you will leave behind. In my life I have made some bad choices, and some that I would make over again if given the chance. As I look back on my life, I have realized that everything I have done has made me who I am today, and I don’t regret that at all. My family and friends are very important to me, and my true friends know that there isn’t anything I won’t do for them. I love meeting people and getting to know them. Without friendship and love life becomes nothing, and not worth living. If you feel that we might be compatible, then let’s talk, don’t be shy. Who knows you might get a great friend out of it. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~

Music:

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Movies:

The Smashing Pumpkins - Landslide (Brokeback Mountain)
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Television:

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Heroes:

"We are not perfect, We never will be, and that's ok. Give yourself permission to Screw things up and forgive yourself in the morning."

My Blog

"The Six Star Test To See If Someone Is A True Friend

The following is an excerpt from a book written by David Lieberman:  "The Six Star Test To See If Someone Is A True Friend Does he really care about you?  Is he loyal?  Is he just pret...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Sat, 05 Jul 2008 09:12:00 PST

Friends great people what makes a friend

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do with that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to m...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:18:00 PST

True Friends

FAKE FRIENDS: Never ask for food. REAL FRIENDS: Is the reason you have no food. .... FAKE FRIENDS: Call your parents Mr. / Mrs..... REAL F RIENDS: Call your parents DAD/MOM .... FAKE FRIENDS: Never s...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:27:00 PST

A great piece of writing from a myspace friend, Alen. I had to share it.

Be who you are, and no one can accuse you of being anything else. Don't try to impress others, what impresses them is to know you are tried and true; you are your own person. Accept those for who they...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Fri, 13 Jun 2008 08:05:00 PST

Everything happens for a reason

Sometime people come into your life and you know right away that they meant to be there for you to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to beco...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 02:54:00 PST

Doing some updates I know it is about time

I am looking for the guy who I call beautiful instead of hot, because he is beautiful from the inside out, who I call back when he hangs up on me, who I stay awake just to watch him sleep. I am lookin...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Sat, 19 Apr 2008 09:27:00 PST

Where is the passion in life

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I have always believed that sex is something valuable, something that needs to be cherished, and something that shouldn't be taken for granted. There is a huge dif...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Sat, 19 Apr 2008 09:23:00 PST

Love and Friendships

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~"The signs of Love Should be as clear As when you look Into a mirror. And, as an image, Come to you Because you’re Merely being you" ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 09:09:00 PST

About me change from my myspace

I’m the type of person who is self conscious and never understands what anyone may see in me. To me I believe I am a difficult person because I am strong in how I want people to perceive me and ...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 09:07:00 PST

People who are fake

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Watc h This Video --- ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Reme mber to be you Always -- People will love you for being you or ...
Posted by Top Man Jeffrey (NIC) on Sun, 06 Apr 2008 02:18:00 PST