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John

Spoon-fed eternal fires of hope flicker from a box, are you the one?

About Me

1-1-2008 - Thought I would update my profile, a decent enough way to start the new year. Being in Bozeman for almost 2 years now has been a bit trying at times, but I have made a few good friends and working on more and that has definitely made a difference. I have to say, trying to find decent friends hasn’t been easy…you can definitely find guys to hang around with here and have sex with (usually) but being able to have decent conversations and finding actual connections with people has been a wee bit difficult. ____________________________________________________________ __This past year has been pretty entertaining at times: our family business has grown, I picked up a part-time job of doing free HIV testing in the area, lost almost 30 pounds (and going for another 20 more), met some nice people, had a vacation in Vegas and more. It had its trials and tribulations as well mainly dealing with my parents’ health, but for the most part a good year. This year will be even better and it will have its ups and downs, just all a part of life. ____________________________________________________________ __ Goals for this year include: getting and staying under 185 pounds, work on my writing my novels again, develop some more quality friendships, win the lotto ;-), and begin an extraordinary relationship with an extraordinary guy. One thing that I have learned is that if I don’t have goals to work towards, my life tends to get a tad bit (or extremely) boring. ____________________________________________________________ __ On the relationship aspect, I definitely think I’m ready for one and know how to treat a guy well. I think I’ve finally gotten over my tendency to fall for guys that I feel sorry for (something my sister pointed out, thanks sis!). So now, it is just a matter of putting myself out there more than I have been the past couple of years and being open to new possibilities and not to settle... something I’ve done in the past that doesn’t work out for anyone. ____________________________________________________________ __ If you are intrigued and want know more, send me a message on here, or email me at [email protected]

My Interests

Computers, video/computer games, camping, canoeing, reading (sci-fi, fantasy, horror), DVD (sci-fi, fantasy, horror, and some chick flicks LOL), spending quality time with family and friends, writing (sci-fi, fantasy and some poetry), cuddling while watching movies, making a difference with people, growing as a person, meditation, and open to exploring new things, Centerpointe CDs, Landmark Education.

I'd like to meet:

Friends of all kinds, and also a decent guy to date. The kind of guy that I’m looking for (ideally) is laid-back, has a quirky sense of humor, intelligent, passionate and is able and willing to actually communicate. Would like someone that likes that outdoors as much as staying inside and cuddling watching a movie or playing computer or video games until 5am. Basically, a masculine guy, average to toned build, 30-40 (maybe younger depending on maturity), that has many similar interests as me and has many different ones as well. I don’t want a carbon copy, yet I also don’t want a guy where we have to work hard to find things we like to do together.

Music:


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Your Theme Song is Back in Black by AC/DC
"Back in black, I hit the sack,
I've been too long, I'm glad to be back"

Things sometimes get really crazy for you, and sometimes you have to get away from all the chaos.
But each time you stage your comeback, it's even better than the last! What's Your Theme Song?

Movies:


Your Hidden Talent
You have the power to persuade and influence others.
You're the type of person who can turn a whole room around.
The potential for great leadership is there, as long as you don't abuse it.
Always remember, you have a lot more power over people than you might think! What's Your Hidden Talent?

Television:

Battlestar Galactica, Heroes, Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Babylon 5, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Star Trek: TNG, Voyager, Enterprise, Family Guy, Charmed, Drawn Together Which Queer As Folk Character Are You?
You are Michael.
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Books:

Anne McCaffrey (Dragonriders of Pern series) Wheel of Time series (Robert Jordan), Sword of Truth series (Terry Goodkind), Stephen King, Anne Rice, Jack Chalker, Piers Anthony


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What Color Is Your Aura?
Your aura shines Red!
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Heroes:

Your results:
You are Superman Superman 85% Green Lantern 80% Spider-Man 70% The Flash 60% Robin 57% Iron Man 55% Supergirl 47% Batman 45% Hulk 45% Catwoman 45% Wonder Woman 37% You are mild-mannered, good,
strong and you love to help others.
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My Blog

I’m luvin this boyfriend thing!

I have just been so surprised and thrilled by my guy.  On one of my other posts, i had "The Man For Me" and he fits most all of them.  I don't know how I got so lucky, but he is adorable, sw...
Posted by John on Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:21:00 PST

Maybe this time?????

So, it’s amazing how sometimes you can just click with someone after talking for just a short while....or 3 or 4 hours  or is it 5 or 6???  I just know that I haven’t been this e...
Posted by John on Wed, 09 Apr 2008 02:43:00 PST

Just thinking

It's amazing how difficult it can be to connect to another person.  Between the blocks and walls I put up and the barriers other people put up, it is amazing that I can connect with anyone at tim...
Posted by John on Wed, 27 Feb 2008 12:07:00 PST

So where is Price Charming

Have you ever noticed that we tend to attract certain people in our lives at certain times?  I've had my times where I attracted guys that I felt sorry for, times where I've attracted jerks, and ...
Posted by John on Sun, 10 Feb 2008 02:17:00 PST

THE BOZEMAN GLBTIQ RESOURCE WEBPAGE IS UP

Howdy all! Totally stoked!!! Just wanted everyone to be aware that I just finished the first incarnation of the Bozeman GLBTIQ Resource website.  Check it out! www.bozemanrc.org   Let ...
Posted by John on Thu, 07 Feb 2008 09:13:00 PST

Great meeting new people

I guess I am only now realizing how isolated I've become.  The past couple months, especially since losing 30 pounds, I have definitely become more social and am chatting more and meeting some gr...
Posted by John on Sun, 03 Feb 2008 09:12:00 PST

The man for me

·      He is intelligent ·      He is extremely creative ·      He is very romantic ·      He commu...
Posted by John on Sat, 10 Mar 2007 12:38:00 PST

You don't know

Something I wrote for my ex. You don't know how much your smile    warms up the room and lightens my heart And you don't see the smiles of joy and    friendship left as you walk by...
Posted by John on Mon, 20 Nov 2006 08:49:00 PST

Soul Quest

This was for a guy in the 90's: How do I think of you?   Do I use my heart, my soul, my rationality, my primal fear, or do I slam the gate against all emotions for another few years; close up tig...
Posted by John on Mon, 20 Nov 2006 08:38:00 PST

Decade after Decade after Decade

From a while ago:   Decade after decade after decade Soul-touching forever ephemeral Dreams unspoken, feelings misted, all unrealized The stab of unknown yearnings splinter though my mind Is this...
Posted by John on Mon, 20 Nov 2006 08:36:00 PST