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Look at your life, it all comes back to you.

About Me

If you want to be added, please SEND ME A MESSAGE FIRST telling me how you came across me and why you would like me to add you. What do we have in common? Only ask to be added if you sincerely want to get to know me. I am NOT a "friend collector". I am looking for quality friendships, not quantity. Thanx.I'm finicky, cuz I know what I want and what I like. But at the same time am open to new experiences. I'm genuine. What you see, is what you get. I don't play mind games and don't associate with anyone who does. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs of any sort, but I DO dye my hair like every 2 months. ;) I believe that monogamy is the most beautiful committment and that I do have a soulmate. I'm generally pretty easy-going. Although, I'm usually kinda shy when I meet new people, which is often misread as being snobby. I'm not at all. I usually don't initiate conversation unless I already know you or I'm feeling brave and really want to get to know ya. I'm very honest, trustworthy, open-minded, modest, and ready to go out and have fun, be it dancing the night away or chilling with a movie.I love to dj. See my dj MySpace page at: http://www.myspace.com/djminxatelixirYou may have seen/heard me spin at Elixir or at Vertex(on special occasions). My favorite music to spin is Goth/Synth pop/Darkwave/Electro-clash/New Wave and 80's. Hopefully, I will get a chance to dj again sometime soon.My other passion is dancing. Can't get enough.

My Interests

THE CRUXSHADOWS!!!..Spending quality time with my man, meditating (when I get the chance), long soaks in a bubblebath (aaaahhhhh, sweet relief), hanging with my peeps, going to see flicks with our E-group, hanging at my second home (VERTEX), dancing the weekend away and going to breakfast afterward, talking and giggling, until the wee hours of the AM, Spike (of BtVS),angels, fairies, paranormal, drawing, Foamy the Squirrel, X-Men (especially Rogue & Gambit), Kai - the last of the Brunnen G (Michael McManus on Lexx),knowledge, secrets, sensuality, Teen Girl Squad,wings (no, not the tv show, the feather kind), Egyptology, mythology, psychology, Goth sub-culture, vampires,thunderstorms, the night air, lucid dreaming, the relaxing sound of ocean waves and MUSIC!

I'd like to meet:

New Friends with POSITIVE attitudes (hopefully, it'll rub off on me), The Creator of this insane world. Always searching for enlightenment. I've been pretty lucky as far as meeting celebrities and such, so I don't have much of a list."Know who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind, don't matter and those who matter, don't mind." - Dr. SeussVANESSA (also Greek for butterfly) A creation of poet Johnathan Swift:Sensitive and emotional you are highly intuitive and have a wonderful imagination. The instinctive impressions which you receive about people and situations are usually accurate and mean that you can rarely be misled. You have healing and counseling abilities which can help to alleviate the suffering of others. Your loyalty, integrity and belief in life means that you are much admired and assured of many friends.View Blog | View Pics | Add Comment

Music:


IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CRUXSHADOWS, BABY!!! ********************************************************* I can appreciate all music from both ends of the spectrum and everything in between. But I tend to revert to gothic/synth/ebm. The Cruxshadows are my all-time favorite band.I do love my hair and metal bands, too. I've been known to be able to dance to anything, be it goth, metal, country line dancing and yes, even breakdancing. Bring it on! I can go from Mozart to Manilow to Metallica in a heartbeat. (Thanks to my A.D.D.) ;) I like so much, it's so hard to narrow it down. Here's a taste: Adam Ant, And One, Apoptygma Berzerk, Arcadia, The Art of Noise, Daniel Ash, Assemblage 23, Ayria, Bach, Bauhaus, The Beatles, Beborn Beton, Beethoven, Bel Canto, Bella Morte, The Black Eyed Peas, David Bowie, Brahms, Kate Bush, Chapter 2, The Chemical Brothers, The Church, Clan of Xymox, Concrete Blonde, Harry Connick, Jr., Corvus Corax, Cosmicity, Covenant, The Cranes, The Cruxshadows, The Crystal Method, The Cult, The Cure, Danzig, Dead Can Dance, Dead or Alive, Depeche Mode, Devo, DeVision, Diary of Dreams, Neil Diamond, Dio, Disturbed, Thomas Dolby, The Doors, The Dreamside, Duran Duran, Echo & the Bunnymen, Ego Likeness, Elf, The Eurythmics, Faith & the Muse, Felix Da Housecat, Lita Ford, Funker Vogt, Garbage, Ghost of the Robot, Goldfrapp, Hanoi Rocks, Heart, Icon of Coil, Billy Idol, Jane's Addiction, Joan Jett, Judas Priest, K7, KMFDM, Chaka Kahn, Korn, The Last Dance, The Lemonheads, Linkin Park, Lizzy Borden, Lords of Acid, Love & Rockets, Jace Luce, Madonna, Yngwie Malmsteen, Barry Manilow, Marilyn Manson, Loreena McKennitt, Metallica, The Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Mindless Self Indulgence, Mindstrap, Ministry, Miss Kitten & the Hacker, The Missing Persons, Motley Crue, Mozart, Murderdolls, Peter Murphy, My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult, New Model Army, Neuropa, New Order, Nine Inch Nails, Gary Numan, Ohgr, Oingo Boingo, Poison, Powerman 5000, Prince, Project Pitchfork, Psychadelic Furs, Qntal, Queensryche, Rage Against the Machine, Rammstein, The Ramones, Ravel, Razed In Black, Stan Ridgway, Salt N Pepa, The Sex Pistols, Silent Auction, Siouxsie & the Banshees, Sisters of Mercy, Skinny Puppy, Schubert, Soundgarden, Strauss, The Stray Cats, Swamp Terrorists, Switchblade Symphony, Syrian, T-Rex, Talking Heads, Tchaichovsky, The The, Thompson Twins, George Thorogood, Thou Shalt Not, Justin Timberlake, Shania Twain, VNV Nation, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Velvet Acid Christ, Vicious Pink, Vivaldi, Voltaire, Wolfsheim, Wumpscut, Frank Zappa, Dweezil Zappa, Zeromancer, Rob Zombie ...and many, many, many more ******************************************
| View Show | Create Your OwnThe Cruxshadows at The Haunt, in Ithaca 2/15/07

Movies:

anything that is weird, quirky and offbeat or sexy(basically anything with Antonio Banderas, Tim Curry, Gene Wilder, Vin Diesel or Johnny Depp, oh, and Marilyn Monroe)
Are we movie
compatible? My Flixster
profile..

    Vin DieselJames Marst...Antonio Ban...Johnny DeppBrad PittGene WilderGary OldmanJoaquin Pho...River Phoen...Natasha Lyo...Danny Maste...Wilmer Vald...Russell Cro...Marilyn Mon...Giovanni Ri...Tim CurryRose McGowa...Seth GreenBrittany Mu...Dane CookAlyson Hann...Jason MewesKevin SmithOrlando Blo...John Leguiz...Brandon LeeDonnie YenRyan Philli...Brendan Fra...Tim RothJeremy Pive...French Stew...Joseph Gord...Adam BeachAnthony Hop...Christian B...Juliette Le...Christian S...Rudy Youngb...Noah Hathaw...James DuvalEddie Izzar...David BowieChristina R...Jon CryerKeanu Reeve...Steve Busce... .
Make Your Actor Wall Flixster .

Television:

Criss Angel's MindfreakInuyasha!AdultSwim: Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Family Guy, Home Movies, Dr Katz (Why oh, why was it cancelled?) Angel (only when Spike was on it!), Buffy the Vampire Slayer, GhostHunters,Hell's Kitchen, Lexx, MadTV, Northern Exposure, SNL,That 70's Show, Trading Spouses, Whose Line Is It Anyway, Wife Swap, Will & Grace, alot of Comedy Central. I need to laugh after a hard day's work: Lewis Black, Dane Cook, Mitch Hedberg (R.I.P.), Gabriel Iglesias, Ron White.

Books:

mostly Anne Rice. The Long Hard Road Out Of Hell by Marilyn Manson/ Neil Strauss. With my attention span, it takes alot for me to settle down with a book, unless it's really good from the start, then it takes alot for me to put it down. Lenore comics. "POOK, POOK, POOK"

Heroes:

my family, especially my mom and grandfather, (May they both rest in peace. They didn't take crap from anybody!), my friends, my sweetie Shane, Rogue of The Cruxshadows (brilliant mind, passionate artist/vocalist/musician),Marilyn Manson (another brilliant mind, once you get past the shock-value, very under-estimated),Marilyn Monroe (she sacrificed everything in her life to get what she wanted and to be taken seriously), and anyone who tries to help out mankind without any ulterior motives, be it saving a life or just making someone smile/laugh when they had a bad day.
Your Famous Last Words Will Be:
"Goodbye. I am leaving because I am bored." What Will Your Famous Last Words Be?

My Blog

obituary and funeral info.

..tr>..table> ..tr>Kathleen Ruth Jenkins .. --> Jenkins, Kathleen Ruth--> Jenkins, Kathleen Ruth Rochester: May 12, 2008. Predeceased by husband, Vivian Jenk...
Posted by ~V~ on Wed, 14 May 2008 04:20:00 PST

NEW Cruxshadows single, members and tour info

In this sometimes dark and dreary world of mine, there are a few bright and shining lights that make me smile.And THE CRUXSHADOWS is definitely one of them.After much anticipation and careful consider...
Posted by ~V~ on Wed, 14 May 2008 03:21:00 PST

R.I.P. Kathleen Jenkins

This is the email that was sent out this morning from my Aunt (who lived with my grandmother until she had to go to the nursing home). :***********************************************ELOISE WROTE:On M...
Posted by ~V~ on Mon, 12 May 2008 05:45:00 PST

And her journey slowly ends, until she reaches Heaven

I just got a call from Beth (cousin Michael Smith's wife) telling me that grandma went into a coma and isn't expected to come out of it. She has been at Kirkhaven Nursing Home on Alexander St. and st...
Posted by ~V~ on Fri, 09 May 2008 08:25:00 PST

Birthday fun 2008

Went to AngstLab at Vertex tonite.Haven't been in quite a while.It was also Amber's birthday.DJ Mike Dailor catered to the "birthday girls" all night.It was Sa-weet!That meant Cruxshadows and other c...
Posted by ~V~ on Fri, 02 May 2008 12:12:00 PST

My birthday (May 1st) is BELTAINE

http://www.magicwicca.com/wicca/beltaine.htmhttp://www.tylwy thteg.com/Beltaine.htmlhttp://celticmysteryschool.com/celtic holidays.htmlhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beltanehttp://www. witchvox.com/va/dt_v...
Posted by ~V~ on Thu, 01 May 2008 08:13:00 PST

Immortal

I just ordered myself a birthday present (May 1), which will arrive about 2 months after my birthday.It's the new Cruxshadows cd single, "Immortal". And it's only $5.99!!! It's due for release July 8t...
Posted by ~V~ on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 11:28:00 PST

I think my laptop is dead. :(

I think my laptop shit the bed. I got a virus and wiped the hard drive and was re-installing everything. I had problems with the cd rom drive for awhile and kept it open a bit cuz it made noise if I c...
Posted by ~V~ on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 05:19:00 PST

STUCK WITH YOU

Yeah, I just may play this at my wedding if I ever marry the boy. teehee Lighten up people, it's supposed to be funny.     Stuck With You - by VOLTAIRE (duet with Amanda Palmer)   *You...
Posted by ~V~ on Fri, 11 Apr 2008 07:15:00 PST

DEAD

***Not for the easily offended.*** Sometimes ya feel certain ways and have to express them the best you know how.   "Dead" by VOLTAIRE There's a pilot impaled to the wingand he's Dead!And all th...
Posted by ~V~ on Fri, 11 Apr 2008 07:06:00 PST