Movies, Clubbing, Conversation, Dancing, Karaoke, Live Music, Bar hopping, Live performances & Productions, just hanging out.
IN A BOYFRIEND: a guy who is and acts like a guy. he should be artistic in some fashion whether it be designing, painting, culinary arts or whatever. talent is a huge turn on. he should enjoy spending much time together but understand and respect personal time, personal space and friendships. not be judgemental of my tastes but enhance them with personal knowledge. remember things i say like "I'M A VEGETARIAN!" don't be smothering, jealous or paranoid. don't try to change me. be completely open and honest, trustworthy, ambitious, independent with some hints of dependency, spontaneous and compromising. i can't read minds so don't be afraid to speak up. i don't like making all the decisions. accept and reciprocate signs of affections whether they be in public, at a stoplight in my car, at a restaurant, at a bar or at home. i am proud of who i am, where i came from and don't feel i should hide my feelings behind closed doors because of fear. don't overdo it though. have respect for yourself and others. make an effort to take care of yourself mentally, spiritually and physically. love who you are, where you are and where you're going. huge turn offs: flambouyancy, selfishness, insecurity, drama, acting snobby or spoiled, ignorance, tardiness~~~~~IN A FRIEND: people who enjoy life and appreciate what they have instead of dwelling on what they don't. life is too short to sweat the small stuff. there are no guarantees for the future. tomorrow is promised to no one. let's enjoy the here and now. life is what you make of it so, why not make it as good as you can? don't pass judgement on people just to be vicious. i know i talk shit but it's all in jest as my closest friends can attest. don't feel the need to constantly fill quiet time. don't call just to talk, i hate spending time talking on the phone about bullshit. we should just hang out and make the best of our lives. life is much better shared with people that we love and care about. let's make some great memories together.
Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:
Your propensity for monogamy is high.
You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person.
And in return, you expect the same from who you love.
Any sign of straying, and you'll end things.
Experience Level:
Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!
Dominance:
Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!
Cynicism:
Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.
Independence:
Your independence is medium.
In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time."
You usually find it easy to be part of a couple.
But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered.
The Five Variable Love Test
My score on The LONG Scientific Personality Test :
ENFJ- The Teacher
(You scored 54% I to E, 47% N to S, 47% F to T, and 21% J to P!)
Your type is known as the teacher, or the educating mentor. You also belong to the larger group, called idealists. You tend to bring out the best in other people. You lead without seeming to do so. People are naturally drawn to you. You expect the very best from people which takes the form of enthusiastic encouragement which is so charming that people try their best not to disappoint you. You share your personality type with 3% of the population.
You need to feel a deep and meaningful connection to your romantic partners, and go to great lengths to understand and please your mate. Harmony is vitally important to you, and you often put others' needs before your own. You have a pretty thin skin and are easily hurt. Although you strive for harmony, when your values or ethics are violated, you can be very emotional, confrontational, and even punishing. However, you are very insightful about the underlying cause of conflicts, and an excellent communicator, so you have the tools to bring about a quick and peaceful resolution as long as you can keep control of your facilities. You want to be appreciated for your thoughtfulness and compassion. You need your partner to make a real effort to get to know you. Above all, you need to be able to express your feelings and have them taken seriously.
Your group summary: idealists (NF)
Your type summary: ENFJ
Link: The LONG Scientific Personality Test
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I appreciate all types of music for what they are. I have much admiration and adoration for my local musical geniuses like Ashlee Rose, Gabe Pablo, The Reen, Spettro, Josh Stone, Paz, Sullen Serenade, Marco Cruz, DJ Mel, J.A.M.O.N., Vesper, Analog Love, and, last but not least, Just in Time & Mochko. I listen to everything but tend to steer clear of country, tejano or conjunto. I tend to lean towards 80's and dance types of music but enjoy a good rock out from time to time, especially classic rock. I'm rockin' whatever has my ass shakin'. I recently have gotten into different ethnic dance music styles even dabbling in hard rock, rap, hip hop and reggaeton.
I can watch most types of movies but I really have to be in the mood for classics. I am more drawn towards the modern day special effects and technology. I am a huge fan of comedies and horror though. I do not know if I could name one movie as my all time favorite. I have faves for different reasons. I appreciate john waters flix and john hughes as well. Huge fan of Jet Li films also.
Footballers' Wives, SYTYCD, Smallville, Project Runway, Make Me a Supermodel, Kyle XY, Dirt, Heroes, Ugly Betty, AI, Family Guy, The Simpsons, Medium, The Soup, Criminal Minds, Best Week Ever. I do enjoy watching award shows and some sporting events like football and basketball. Because of my field of work, I keep an eye out for style and fashion oriented material as well. I do enjoy National Geographic, Animal Planet, History and Discovery channels especially that dealing with the fantastical, alien, supernatural or prehistoric.
the space love demands, shock treatment, earth shattering poems, why do i dance alone, the artists' way, for colored girls who ever considered suicide, there never was a rose without a thorn, the essential whitman
my parents & grandparents!