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Darling Deviance

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About Me

Alas, everyday is surprise and each mornning and evening I find a different person beneath my skin. "Life is sort of painful progress" as a fucked up character in a twisted play once said. Bonus if you know who. To learn about me, first there must be interaction and discourse. I believe we are all alchemical beings who cannot be pinned down to one description and can only be discovered upon experimentation and combination.

My Interests

Self defense, self exploration, martial arts, anarchy, community building, queer stuff, power dynamics, sexuality in all its glorious variations (as in wayyyy past queer theory 101), jewelry design, gardening, interesting inquisitive folks, anatomy and physiology, arts + crafts, pit-bulls, tattoos, models of communication

I'd like to meet:

freaks, geeks, lovers, friends new and old, the genderqueer person who plays Arclight in X-Men 3 would be nice ;)

Music:

Gotan Project, Guts Pie Earshot, Songs from Hootenany!, Calexico, Brian Eno, Miles Davis, Gypsy Kings, Ani DiFranco, Toshi Reagon, Bela Fleck and the Flecktones, Jolie Holland..the more recent years, The Chemical Brothers, Dresden Dolls, Jethro Tull, Gillian Welch, in general...bluegrass, folk, complex and interesting stuff, so much comes up as ALTERNATIVE when I download to iTunes, getting into psy-trance, funk, blues, hip-hop, classical,

Movies:

Horrible violent action flick starring Bruce Willis, The Last Unicorn, El Crimen Perfecto, Hotel Rowanda, 12 Monkeys, Coyote Ugly(it's so bad, it's good), Saved!,District B-13

Television:

Six Feet Under, on DVD cuz no TV resides in my house

Books:

Ah, there are so many! Possessing The Secret of Joy, The Poisonwood Bible, my dictionary...though i still misspell many words, Blindness, just got into Italo Calvino, Vernon God Little, Share the Care, Just learning Kathy Acker...whoo-boy, more to come! Please make suggestions for a reading list!!!

Heroes:

My kickass friends, my moms, my dad (yeah, figure that one out ;) , Alice Walker, my upstairs neighbor cuz she can make anything grow, my friends down in TN living lives closer to their values on amazing communal lands,my friends who write their truths with seering honesty and tell stories that grow like seeds in your brain to make you think more, my friends who move through various transitions with bravery- fierceness and all out will-power, my friend who is the most amazing radical and mother I have ever had the pleasure of interacting with, my little friend...her son..who shows the way to all of us thick-headed folk over 5 years of age
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My Blog

Queer weekend

or how to fall over in sheer sleep depravation in 3 easy steps:I'm sure all of you know how to do that anyway and I don't have to tell you a thing ;)Just got back from Tranny March! It was sooooo spec...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Sat, 24 Jun 2006 01:41:00 PST

Thwarted

The best laid plans. Or the best  plans to get laid. Or...whatever...either way, thwarted. Sigh. I was all dressed up with nowhere to go. My poor date had an allergy attack! But, my friend saved ...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Sun, 04 Jun 2006 01:41:00 PST

It's a Water Day

well, I need to go for a drink. I'm finding it hard to find a booze buddy at the moment, though. It's all in good fun, but sometimes, to make appropriate fun of yourself, one needs beer...or wine...an...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Thu, 01 Jun 2006 09:16:00 PST

Monday Night Dinners

Yay! Just had the first Monday Night Dinner. 4 other folks came and I suspect that there will be a revoling cast of characters as it goes on. I am quite excited about it. Eventually, there will be Hib...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Tue, 23 May 2006 12:19:00 PST

No free radicals in me, no sir

except for the fact i AM one...hahahahahaha.No, really. No cancer. Yeehaw! Don't know what's up, but I ain't dyin. Or as I was telling the girl that said "Jenn, we are all always dying" I like my deat...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Sat, 20 May 2006 02:44:00 PST

My call for support project

Ok. After the freak-out I was able to spend time with a dear friend who has the ability to ground me like few people can. We talked about community and Mutual Aid and support networks and nifty radica...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Wed, 26 Apr 2006 11:38:00 PST

connection

Again. Stuck on the computer when I should be doing other things. Today was GORGEOUS! yay sunshine. It'll cure what ails ya. Had a neat experience today. I met up with this guy from my onld university...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Wed, 19 Apr 2006 11:22:00 PST

Trying this thing out

So, new to this blogging thing. Hmmm, what to say while i am up wayyy too late playing minesweeper? The themes for this week?Synchronicity, Music, (Un)Conciousness, Intuition, Flavor, Manifestation, M...
Posted by Darling Deviance on Sun, 16 Apr 2006 01:38:00 PST