MANNERS, bdsm, tantra, taoism, breath play, paganism, zen and tibetan buddhism, flesh, other paths, anarchy, philosophy, (particularly eastern, but Foucault, Theresa DeLauretis, Elizabeth Grosz, and Judith Butler intrigue), circus, bondage, blood, clowning, extended orgasms, creativity, flying, lack of pretention, expansion with humility, piercings, frilly knickers, hypnosis, smelly arm pits, rubber, politeness, monkeys, medical play, dogs, piercing, tattoos, vermin, cultural interlopping, genderfucking, language, writing, magic, latex, telepathy, generosity, people who listen, 15 denier french heel rht stockings, memory, reading, leather, perfume, astrology, energy, lots of piercings, people who talk, socks, suitcases, systems, yoga, boots, soft fabric like cotton jersey, body modifications, sincerity, caning, metaphysics, raw meat, kink, corsestry, explorers, bells, red bottoms, oh, and did I mention MANNERS?
I'd like to meet:
Amazing, flexible, humorous, queer, (or queer minded) kinky, bdsm oriented, actively engaged in life persons (over the age of 30 would be nice).
I really hate to add this, but I must. If you wear baseball caps, jogging pants out in public, white sneakers, or the general mainstream uniform of any particular group, (unless with a sense of irony;) then we are probably not well suited, (pun intended). **note: due to many complaints on this matter, I must clarify that the previous statement is hypothetical, if...then. I am open to dissuasion, but only with a legitimate argument.
It's not the clothing as much as the ability to understand that it's very possible that we may not be suitable and be OK with that. Especially if you actually read the profile. I am very specific and do not think looks are enough to discern compatibility. However, it's my long term observation that general mainstream America and I are not busom buddies. Friends, camarades, sometimes lovers, but RARE. I am moreso interested in: Are you queer? Do you have fetishes? Do you understand BDSM? Can you be vulnerable? Are you culturally savvy? Why specifically do you think we should talk/meet? Call me a snob or call me honest, just don't call me dinner. Complementary (as in to accentuate the other through difference) is expected/desired, (I wouldn't want you to enjoy everything I like), etc. But some sense of style or thought outside mainstream Americana is extremely attractive to me - fair enough? thanks for listening....
Oh, and one more thing: if you do not like my profile, keep it to yourself - you do not have to look at it, player hater, hmmph!
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Music:
actor slash model, Condenada, Lemon jelly, Massive Attack, Vincent Gallo, Tsigane/gypsy, weird ambient, crooners, esp. women from 30s, Billy Holliday and Memphis Minnie, nasty music like Ludacris, opera, classical, particularly Stravinsky, Ravel, and Satie, 80s disco, AC/DC, Led Zepplin, Magnetic Fields, Alpha, Queen, and of course the inimitable William Shatner.
Movies:
Death Takes a Holiday, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, Crash, Aunty Mame, Sue: Lost in Manhattan, Le Mepris, (Contempt), Wings of Desire, La Strada and 8 1/2 by Fellini,(almost any Fellini), Life on Pluto, Bad Boy Bubba, Ma Vie en Rose, Harold and Maude, The Empire of the Senses, Bagdad Cafe, The Elephant Man, Dodeskoden, The Pain Game, Little Miss Sunshine...many more....
Television:
Soap, Strangers With Candy, Six Feet Under, In Living Color and Arrested Development
Books:
Stiff by Mary Roach, Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters, Monkey's Mask by Dorothy Porter, Written on the Body by Jeanette Winterson, Gender Outlaw by Kate Bornstein, Wuthering Heights by you know who, Running with Scissors by Augusten Burroughs, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Push by Sapphire, All the Places you'll go and Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Suess, Zami by audre Lorde, RUMI, Come Hither by Gloria Brame, ee cummings, Charlotte's Web, Pablo Neruda, Charlotte Joko Beck, Pema Chodron, Arundhati Roy, Dorothy Allison...anything by any of the above really and there are more...
Heroes:
My Mother and all the other little known transgressors and advocates of the marginalized.
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