refrigerator magnets...also...Get Your Own! | View Slideshowalso... my porch garden, jigsaw puzzles, vagina lovers, sorting spilled beads, meaty thighs, roller derby, roller girls, bruises and scars, burlesque, midriff crisis, folks who're down to talk about sex/sexiness unabashedly, people with patience, skeletons, flowers, new speed skates w/pink flames, yellowrage, stencilin, painted toenails, my zoo: [turtles (Honey and JimDickSam), puppies (buddha + trouble), fish (charlie, andthe + chocolate factory), Louie (the tree frog), Magneto (the armadillo lizard), and Chester + Matilda (the newts)] romance, serial romance, homemade gifts, the patron saint of treizm, critical thinking, giant jewelry, white pear sangria, tattoos, radical porn, hott femme foxes, writing on restraunt sugar packets to be left for others to find, strong folks who are surviving the viciousness, asymmetrical hair do-s, hilarity, laughing til ya cry, collecting memories, http://www.exploding dog.com , pirates, scarves with t-shirts, spoonfests, vaginas, body prints, found art, surviving, queers, acts of defiance, fisting demos, x-mas lights, candles, femme solidarity, fannypacks (seriously- i wear one), rain...rain in tucson...monsoons, mixed tapes, porn magz as stationary, smart people, people who know that smartness isn't about books or elitist shit, gender theory, race theory, body politicss, burt's bees lip balm, lovespell, folks who'll dance me dizzy and achin, femmes on the prowl, repetition, run-on sentences, excessive heaps of adjectives, long letters + care packages, note passing, people who tell me the truth, heartbreak, staring contests, debauchery, people who show up in my dreams, gigglefests, carnivals, warm sunny spots to curl up in...also...
I'd like to meet:
fierce queers and queer-lovin 'others' who speak their truth, enjoy laughter, homemade crafts, photobooths, and word-association... critical thinkers, folks lookin forALSO... I believe that myspace and other online arenas can be full of hella scary predators and disrespectful folk, so ALL of the folks that are on my friendlist are folks who I know personally or are performers/organizations that I handsdown respect...I AM NOT interested in collecting friends just for the sake of collectin' 'em, NOR am i interested in meeting folks who're gonna disrespect me or want me as just another face on their ever-growing list of friends....
...and i'm seriously not interested in long chain-mail style comments/bulletins... (especially the ones that say that violence is gonna happen to you if you don't send out your '____ to 10 people in seconds or...' - come on, that's bunk... real violence is happening to folks...)... so if you have something real to say about me/to me... say it... cuz i am into making real connections, having real dialogue...
ALSO.... if i don't already know you and you want to be my friend- SEND ME A MESSAGE -so we both know what we're getting into...deal?
Music:
umm... yes, please...nicky click, desiree, dj titosuavecito, natro, leila lopez, courtney robbins, celia cruz, johnny cash, immortal technique, fannypack, mirah, ani, nina simone, india arie, bjork, tool, ulali, mefirstandthegimmegimmes, doria roberts, alix olson, ozomatli, pink, patty griffin, bessie smith, the gossip, sam cooke, joni mitchell,rigamortixx, patsy cline, joan baez, the village fugs, spontaneous singin in the streets, the smiths, le tigre, peaches, and especially folks who'll serenade me...
Movies:
hmmm... john waters? yes, xxxtra please. also...amelie, kamikaze girls, the business of fancydancing, eternal sunshine of a spotless mind, foxfire, love me if you dare, Tremors, Flashdance, Dirtydancing, Footloose, when night is falling, big fish, tank girl, hackers, empire records, all xmen movies, Elektra, Spiderman (there's a theme here), ordinary magic, rize, almodovar, the secretary, any sister wendy tape, radical porn (esp. woman/queer-made porn), better than chocolate, beautiful thing, the dangerous lives of altar boys, subtitles, documentaries...
Television:
i have a love:hate relationship with television.... but ultimately when i'm not seething i love: recess, sunday morning, medium, Access Tucson, andy milonakis (seriously), the Book Channel, my so called life... CSI (esp. when Lady Heather guest stars), law & order (and all it's cousins), OZ (i'm quite addicted)....
dog tv:
Get Your Own! | View Slideshow
Books:
rudolfo anaya, crimethInc books, existencilism, almanac of the dead, sandra cisneros, sherman alexie, bell hooks, brazen femme, gabriel garcia marquez, luke's way of looking, revolutionary voices, joy harjo, the kabuki books by DAVID MACK, 'a ufo swallowed my baby's head'-style tabloids...
Heroes:
'heroes'? you mean folks i adore and am awed by?... Burlesque babes, belly dancers, roller-vixens, smut peddlers, genderqueer anarchists that get nominated for homecoming king (el sin), folks who appreciate when i rub their feet, people who're workin on owning their sh*t, folks who choose kindness over poison, folks who choose not to use words that degrade women in effed up ways, fierce women, dj curiosito, feminist "men", boys that make me collage picture frame presents, ladies who weld pelvis bones and stand naked in glass boxes for hours 'for art'!!!, folks who teach/learn w/heart, the folks i work w/@Eon, scarf-knitting ladies that weld and punch out boys in clubs for disrespecting their grrrls, single moms, survivors, single dads, "vagina warriors", people who challenge the effed up system of power in the world, people who scrawl intelligent sh*t on the sidewalks/ traincars and buildings, my father ( esta muerto- a widower who taught me about intricate phrasing and the power of silence), mis madrinas (who abandoned struttin'-it to garden on blueberry hill and raise/school children w/love + deep play + movement), people who make homemade gifts and go bike riding, grrrls that can say "totally" in every sentence and still be effin brilliant& ALL the amazing young folks that i see makin' it through everyday... proving resiliency exists...
