Stuff. Surfing, cycling, snowboarding, Hip Hop, company of friends, sneakers, used records, t-shirts.
Mellow drinking partners. If you're irresponsible that's a plus.
The Mass, Aesop Rock, El-p, Mr. Lif, DJ Big Track, Madlib, Entombed, Lemon Jelly, RJD2, DJ Shadow, Dan the Automator, Prince Paul, etc. etc. etc.
LotR, 24 Hour Party People, Hi Fidelity, Jerry McGuire, Apocalypse Now
I don't watch television.
Where the Wild Things Are, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Forever War.