Forward, outspoken, horrible speller, I love all music and love to write. I can take a joke, and hang with anyone. I hate stupidity, and people who don't appreciate what they have in thier lives. Communication is important to me.
Cheap whiskey at midnight. Another round with my friends. I was born with a suitcase in my hand. Living a life, few could understand. Sometimes it gets so confusing, I don't know where I am, but I always know who I'm with. I'm with the band ~~ Little Big Town ~~
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If Kim were a drink they would be:
1 parts modest 4 parts candor 4 parts gorgeous
Get Your RECIPE Here! ~~THE RELATIONSHIP~~
For those of you who have asked about how to have a great relationship read on.... for the rest of you who don't give a shit, just hit delete now..... with this in mind....Don't come cryin' to me when your new boyfriend picks video games over a night spent with you, and I'm not taking you to the strip club to meet my friends when she needs to hang out with an exboyfriend because he's having some issues with his new girlfriend. **********
The Relationship....
I never really thought much about relationships until I decided to leave my marriage about 8 years ago. I had gotten married at age 28 because I thought it was 'time' and 8 years after that I found myself in an emotionless, one-sided, anticlimactic marriage. Time to go. But then what? I was 36 and alone. So I thought about it, for months.....before and after we split. What was needed to make a relationship work. What I wanted and most of all what I was willing to give. Remember ladies... a little jealous of your friend’s big weddings.... Then become a wedding planner... don't get married to plan a wedding.
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What are you willing to give? What do you expect in return. That pretty much sums it up. Know it! Act on it! Use it!
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So kids.... know what you want ... Do you want someone around all the time, then you better find someone who feels the same. Someone with common interests and goals. Does he play baseball 3x's a week? Then you better enjoy watching practice and games! Does she go to her sister and brother-in-laws every Thursday? Clear your schedule and find a common interest with your extended new family. You can't just like these things for the first few months, you'll have to like them forever. So be honest with yourself and them from the begining. If you don't like what they do, then you don't really like that person now do you?
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Act on it..... Don't just talk the talk. First date behavior wears off fast, and then the little annoyances multiply by 20! Hate the way he chews with his mouth open? Don't like the fact that she has 4 sisters that depend on her daily? Guess what....they're not going change, and you shouldn't want them too. If the person isn't good enough 'as is' forget it. The old, "I'll get them to change" well, it doesn't work, and if you force it, they will resent you, silently, and complain to all who will listen (behind your back of course) Go ahead, listen to your co-workers and friends talk about their spouses, are they happy? Or have then been changed by someone? Maybe they're complaining about how their spouse needs to change? Do you want to be that person?
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Use it..... Remember any good relationship works out to be 50/50. Do they take care of your needs and you theirs? Do you need someone to do all the grocery shopping and rub your neck after work? (of course compromise works well here-- like are they willing to pay for a massage once a week instead of the neck rub)
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So all in all.... You gotta want it. Both of you, not just one (there's a reason they call it a couple) I hope that answers most of your questions on how it works.
Remember.... It shouldn't be hard...You Shouldn't have to work at it....It's not a contest... It just is~~~
~~KIM HENDERLY~~
