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Icandiee

You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly

About Me


Hey yall it's yagurl Icandiee -Yup it's me! I would like to say that God brings people into our lives for a reason, season, or lifetime. I've had the pleasure of meeting some really nice hella cool folks on this thang called MYSPACE, regrettably I have also met some not so nice people. But you know like everything else in life we need balance. Myspace would not be Myspace without those folks. I consider myself to be a good judge of character, but I do make my share of mistakes. I always give one the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes you have keep it moving. I try to stay as positive as a person allows me, but sometimes we have to go left.
FYI: In all situations, I'm always a lady *wink*


Disclaimer
I am not here to find a man or husband... I'm more than capable of finding one outside the realm of cyberspace. -just looking to meet really cool, positive people {in particular graphic & web designers} ,doesn't matter race, age, gender.... This is something I do as a hobby, it is not what I do for a living... It is a passion so I enjoy doing it. Anything that shows my artistic ability I enjoy doing.
I ask that you not bring drama into my space -I have zero tolerance for dumbness. If drama is what makes you tick, keep it moving patna. It's all about R.E.S.P.E.C.T!
Now just a little about me:
I'm a single mother of 2...I live in San Antonio, TX. by way of Abbeville ,Louisiana. I've been here since 1989 so I guess you can call this home for me. I come from a family of 5 kids 4girls & 1 boy, me being a twin. Check out Ms. Grown & Sexy ya'll that's my gurl!!

I'm a simple girl trying to live a simple life. Contrary to what my horoscope says, I don't get off on being the center of attention(I'm pretty shy). I can do without the hoopla, lime light...Imma chill out kinda sista who is trying to enjoy life. I was married for 18yrs and divorced now for almost 2 1/2. F or the 1st time in my life I've finally gotten my wings.
I also love to cook, I can burn...LOL! I also love interior decorating. I'm a modern day domestic engineer -for those who don't know what that is, Holla! I am not trying to toot my own horn, but TOOT, TOOT Ha!
On the real people...Keep it real with me and I'll keep it real with you.
Stay Blessed!
-Smooches


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Relationships

Relationships... When my alarm goes off at 5:45 on Monday morning the last thing I want to do is get out of bed and face another work day. I think about everything that's involved with my job and my h...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Sun, 22 Oct 2006 05:32:00 PST

Don't be afraid that your life will...

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed  to ever let you down probably will.    You will have your heart broken probably more than...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Tue, 17 Oct 2006 08:22:00 PST

Being in control

You can't control your feelings, but you must control what you choose to do with them. There is always going to be someone who makes you mad, hurts your feelings, irritates you, disregards your conce...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Tue, 03 Oct 2006 06:36:00 PST

Just for one night

A man and a woman, who had never met before, but were both married to other people, found themselves assigned to the same sleeping room on aninter-continental train. Though initially embarrassed and u...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Mon, 11 Sep 2006 04:19:00 PST

Applying for Social Security

APPLYING FOR SOCIAL SECURITY After retiring, I went to the social security office to apply forSocial Security. The woman behind the counter asked me for my driver'slicense to verify my age.I looked i...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 12:52:00 PST

5 Finger Prayer

1. Your thumb is nearest you. So begin your prayers by praying for those closest to you. They are the easiest to remember. To pray for our loved ones is, as C. S. Lewis once said, a "sweet duty." 2. T...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 12:47:00 PST

Dear God, I thank you

Dear  GOD: I want to thank You for what you have already done. I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards; I am thanking you right now. I am not going to wait until I feel bett...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 02:59:00 PST

10 Types of Ho's...

Ten Types of Ho's10. The Undercover Ho'-- This type of ho often goes unnoticed in thecommunity, and can only be detected by a trained eye. She holds down adecent job during the day, but is secretly ho...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Sat, 19 Aug 2006 09:31:00 PST

A Good Woman...

A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She ...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Sat, 19 Aug 2006 09:17:00 PST

It Never Mattered What You Did, Only What You Do&

Remember:   It Never Mattered What You Did, Only What You Do   Its never too late to become what you mightve been, and its never too late to right a wrong.  The past does nothing for yo...
Posted by ♥Icandiee♥ on Sat, 19 Aug 2006 09:16:00 PST