Name Four Things That You Wish You Had:
Money
Sake
My Own Place
Sex...
Name Four Scents You Love:
Vanilla
Sweet Pea
Strawberry
Fresh Laundry.
Name Four Things You Did Today:
Practiced My Part in the Fan Dance
Learned Everyone Elses Part
Designed Costumes
Modeled
What is your current relationship status?
Currently with a boyfriend. It's long distance for now.
What is your sexual orientation?
Straight but I'd fuck a girl if she was hot and single.
What sort of people do you like, as far as what their interests are in life?
Someone worldly. I hate it when someone pretends to know a ton about nothing.
What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?
The person can't be obesse and can't be grotesquely deformed. I'm otherwise not very concerned with the rest. I'm open minded but I do have standards.
What kind of fashion-sense attracts you?
Metro, Casual Formal, Formal, and Gothic Lolita
What kind of hair style do you find attractive on a potential mate?
Spiked hair. It shows off an edgy personality and that the person is willing to put effort into thier look. If they're meticulous about thier hair, they're meticulous in general.
What is the usual age range you look at?
Around -1 to +5 years of my age.
What traits turn you off?
Ignorance... (-.-) (&^#*@)
Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?
I'm flirty while I'm single and highly faithful when I find someone worthy of a monogamous relationship.
Are you afraid to ask people out on dates?
When I don't care, no. When I like you, yeah.
If you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?
Nah, I just go do my own thing. If I meet someone, great. If not, great.
What are the positive points about being single?
Freedom to do as you wish, in general.
Freedom to do as you wish, with whomever and whatever.
What are the negative points about being single?
You have to comfort yourself when your friends can't help.
When single, do you often find yourself longing for companionship?
No.
How well do you handle rejection?
In front of thier faces, with dignity. Behind the scenes, dejected.
Do you miss your last sweetie?
Kinda... he was sweet but I couldn't live with him.
Do you think it's better to look for love or let it find you?
Let it find you and then go after it once it's there.
What's the longest relationship you've ever been in?
1 Year, 4 Months, and 28 Days as of today.
The shortest?
5 Days. Don't be shocked. I know what I want.
Do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together or space things out a tad?
Space things out a tad. Too much of a good thing is also bad.
Have you ever found yourself worrying about commitment?
No. I only make commitments when they are worth commiting to, which are few but precious. There is no reason to worry if you don't commit in the first place.
When involved with a person, do you try to think about the here and now or do you often think of the future?
Both, it's not good to keep a narrow mind set. Living in the now is just as important as watchng out for your future.
How do you prefer to handle disagreements?
I let the air settle and clear my mind before addressing the issue.
How do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?
The nice thing about intuition is that I'm able to figure it out on my own, which helps a lot. I still feel twinges of sadness, but I try not to let it overpower me.
Do you have a crush right now? Do they know?
Does a boyfriend count as a crush?
What's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?
3 Years. Pathetic, yeah?
Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?
I've done so to many people but that also doesn't mean I wanted anything more than friendship.
Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?
Hell no. No one can keep thier mouth quiet forever but the person him/her self.
Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?
Plenty. I've even been called a fantasy. That was strange but I liked the compliment... is it a compliment?
How do you feel about long-distance relationships?
They fucking suck... I want hugs and kisses... (TT)
Have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them?
...when I haven't seen or heard from my lover for a month...... maybe......... I hate the army............
Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?
Yes, as long as the kids weren't from hell... but I could tolerate 1st and 2nd Circle. (I'm referencing Dante's Inferno.)
What would you do if you got pregnant while in a relationship?
I'd abort it regarless of my current circumstances unless I was married.
Would you get involved with someone if they were previously married?
I don't see why not, as long as he didn't get divorced because he was an asshole.
How big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?
As long as he doesn't try to convert me, I have no problems with religious orientation. If anything I prefer Agnostic or Atheist.
How big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?
The ethnicity isn't an issue, just the language barrier.
In a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you?
Very... good grief, I'd die of bordom if I don't dump him faster than 5 Days.
In a potential mate, how important is a sense of humor to you?
That is also important. You're supposed to be HAPPY with the person you're with.
What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face?
Goofy behavior and when people snuggle up next to me. I used to do that to people when they were sad... I somehow ended up being everyone's human pet...
What was your first kiss like?
Not amazing but I liked it.
What part of a person's body do you find most attractive?
The small of the person's back and clavicles.
What's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to?
Body figure.
How important are the looks of a mate's face to you?
On a scale of 1-10... 8.
How important are the looks of a mate's body to you?
On a scale of 1-10... 9.
When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other?
The other, mew. (^^)
Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with?
Nope.
Were you single at the time?
Nope
What are your ticklish areas?
The acupressure points near my spine.
What do you most like about making out?
The passion.
Are you a virgin?
No. (^^)
If yes, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?
(^^) .::big grin::. All night long... mew...
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
18
Have you ever had sex with someone you loved?
He's the only one I did have sex with.
Have you ever turned down an offer for sex?
Yep. You can't be in the mood all the time.
How much do you think sex changes a relationship?
Depends if you suck at it.
On a scale from 1 to 10 [10 being the highest], how would you rate your sexual attractiveness?
3 on irritable days, 6 on normal days, 8.5 on good days, and 10 on inflated ego days.
On a scale from 1 to 10 [10 being highest], how do you feel about casual sex?
Don't know. I haven't had one yet.
Would you stay with a lover if the love stopped but the sex was still enjoyable?
LMAO, yeah. I have limits though. If I hate his guts, fuck it.
Would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped/got boring but there was still love?
For a good while, then I'd leave if it persists too long.
Do you believe in love?
Yes
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No
Has someone ever told you they loved you?
Verbally? Yes, from 3 men. I pretended not to hear it from all three of them. The first was unsure. The second spoke so softly, wanting to tell me but knew it would end in pain. The third also spoke softly, not yet truly wanting me to know. Good grief, be a man.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it?
I've never told anyone that, period.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it?
Refer to the last answer.
Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships?
Monogamous relationships.
Have you ever been married?
No.
How do you feel about marriage?
It has little to do with love now a days.
If you're currently not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?
A part of me doesn't want to but I'd marry someone depending on the amount of love.
Do you plan on having children someday?
Maybe. I don't intend to actively try to have children. If I somehow, beyond all the help of birth control, get pregnant, I'd keep the child only if I was married.
Have you ever had your heart broken?
I had, in an atypical fashion.
Have you ever been dumped?
Nope
Have you ever dumped someone?
Plenty.
Have you ever mutually broken up with someone?
Nope, poor heart broken bastards.
Has a romantic companion ever made you cry?
Yeah... don't laugh...
Have you ever made a romantic companion cry?
As far as I know, no. I do know they sulk for long periods of time, even the 5 day one.
Have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?
Yes...
Have you ever been unfaithful?
No.
Have you ever been cheated on?
As far as my knowlege goes, no.
Have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?
Yes but I'm not telling you.
Have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?
No, it didn't work the first time. I doubt it will work the next.
Did it work?
Refer to last answer.
Do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break up will resurface?
Refer to the answer before the last answer.
Have you ever broken up with someone and remained friends afterward?
Yup. Only Vu.
Have you ever broken up with someone and become bitter enemies?
Yup. Only Cesar. He is one bitter son-of-a-bitch. I used to laugh at his attempts to piss me off and sneer down at him so he'd leave me alone. It worked like a charm and sometimes he'd get scared.
If so, did you ever made amends?
Yeah, surprise surprise. (^^)
Have you ever broken up with someone and lost touch?
Yup, it's common for me.
Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?
Vu, on AIM.
Were you afraid to do so?
Nah, it's just Vu
Do you ever check up on old flames without actually contacting them?
Why?
If you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone you loved, how did it make you feel?
I was sad. Duh...
Have you ever longed to get back together with someone
Nope. (^^)
El Fin
