1. - the guy must be honest and sincere...opps, i've pretty much ruled out all men...do i still need to continue?...very well... 2. - have a great sense of humor...not only be able to dish a joke, but be able to take one too... 3. - smart...i love nerds...mental challenges (aka-mind fuckings) are the best 4. - must love kids and puppies...my 10.5 illegitament children are looking for a new fajah...and the doggies need a new chew toy 5. - confident...with a lil bit of cockiness...hahah, i dunno why, but i love confidence and cockiness in men...it's so sexy...but go too far and i'll put u back in ur spot... 6. - a guy who loves food as much as i do...a plus if he enjoys cooking as well... 7. - a guy who cleans...it's DAMN sexy to watch a guy do the dishes, do the laundry, vacuum, mop, cook....DAMN sexy i say!... 8. - a guy who knows where he's going...literally...in life and directionwise...cause we all know, NEVER ask me for directions if you ever need to go somewhere...even if it's around my own block... 9. - a guy who has a genuine nice guy smile...that lights up the room...and makes me smile... 10. - a guy that makes me feel safe...like i'm the only one...and that if the world was to burn down at any moment, i'd be safe in his arms...sleeping...*argh, just threw up a lil in my mouth...but it's true about the last statement...