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Buffie

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none ~ William Shakespeare

About Me

"There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity."
Washington Irving


To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel there is something in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.
To think only the best, to work only for the best and expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

My Interests

"Dance is the hidden language of the soul."
Martha Graham (1894 - 1991)


I'd like to meet:



Did you know?~

- 192 million Valentine’s Day cards are exchanged annually, making Valentine’s Day the second-most popular greeting-card-giving occasion. (This total excludes packaged kids valentines for classroom exchanges.) (Source: Hallmark research)

- Nearly 60 percent of all Valentine’s Day cards are purchased in the six days prior to the observance, making Valentine’s Day a procrastinator’s delight. (Source: Hallmark research)

- There are 120 single men (i.e., never married, widowed or divorced) who are in their 20s for every 100 single women of the same ages. Corresponding numbers for the following race and ethnic groups are:
Hispanics: 153 men per 100 women
Asians (single race): 132 men per 100 women (This ratio is not significantly different from that for Hispanics or non-Hispanic whites.)
Non-Hispanic whites (single race): 120 men per 100 women
Blacks (single race): 92 men per 100 women (The numbers of black men and women in this age group are not significantly different from one another.)

- There are 33 single men (i.e., never married, widowed or divorced) age 65 or older for every 100 single women of the same ages. Corresponding numbers for the following race and ethnic groups are:
Hispanics: 38 men per 100 women
Non-Hispanic whites (single race): 33 men per 100 women
Blacks (single race): 33 men per 100 women
Asians (single race): 28 men per 100 women
(Note: None of the ratios for the individual groups differ significantly from one another nor from the ratio for all people age 65 or older.)

- 2.2 million marriages take place in the United States annually. That breaks down to more than 6,000 a day.

- 145,800 marriages are performed in Nevada during 2004. So many couples “tie the knot” in the Silver State that it ranked fourth nationally in marriages, even though it’s total population that year among states was 35th.

- The estimated U.S. median ages at first marriage for women and men are 25.8 and 27.4 respectively, in 2004. The age for women rose 4.7 years in the last three decades. The age for men at first marriage is up 4.3 years.

- Men and women in northeastern states generally have a higher median age at first marriage than the national average. In Massachusetts, for example, women were a median of 27.4 years old and men 29.1 years of age at first marriage. States where people typically marry young include Utah, where women were a median of 21.9 years and men, 23.9 years.

- 54% and 57% of American women and men, respectively, are 15 or older and currently married (includes those who are separated).

- 4.7 million opposite-sex cohabitating couples maintained households in 2004. These couples comprised 4.2 percent of all households.

- 1,271 locations produced chocolate and cocoa products in 2003. These establishments employed 43,379 people. California led the nation in the number of such establishments (with 146) followed by Pennsylvania (with 120).

- 519 locations produced nonchocolate confectionary products in 2003. These establishments employed 23,343 people.

- The total value of shipments in 2003 for firms producing chocolate and cocoa products was $13.5 billion. Nonchocolate confectionery product manufacturing, meanwhile, was a $5.5 billion industry.

- 3,523 Number of confectionery and nut stores in the United States in 2003. Often referred to as candy stores, they are among the best sources of sweets for Valentine’s Day.

- The per capita consumption of candy by Americans in 2004 was 4.7 pounds. Candy consumption has actually declined over the last few years; in 1997, each American gobbled or savored more than 27 pounds of candy a year.

- The combined wholesale value of domestically produced cut flowers in 2004 for all flower-producing businesses in 36 states with $100,000 or more in sales was $422 million was. Among states, California was the leading producer, alone accounting for nearly three-quarters of this amount ($304 million).

- The combined wholesale value of domestically produced cut roses in 2004 for all businesses in 36 states with $100,000 or more in sales was $43 million. Among all types of cut flowers, roses were second in receipts to lilies ($78 million).

- There were 22,022 florists nationwide in 2003. These businesses employed 113,270 people.

- There were 28,527 jewelry stores in the United States in 2003. Jewelry stores offer engagement, wedding and other rings to lovers of all ages. In February 2005, these stores sold $2.4 billion worth of merchandise. (This figure has not been adjusted for seasonal variation, holiday or trading day differences or price changes.) .The merchandise at these locations could well have been produced at one of the nation’s 1,892 jewelry manufacturing establishments. The manufacture of jewelry was an $8.6 billion industry in 2003.

Data courtesy of the U.S. Census Bureau



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"Don't be afraid of showing affection. Be warm and tender, thoughtful and affectionate. Men are more helped by sympathy than by service. Love is more than money, and a kind word will give more pleasure than a present."
~ Sir John Lubbock
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Get your own valentinr

Music:

My favorite music...hmm...that's a tough question for me. I'm all over the map on that one. I LOVE Jack Johnson, Sting, Stevie Ray Vaughn, 311, K.D. Lang, B.N.L., Coldplay, Bonnie Raitt, Bob Marley, Aerosmith, Chris Isaak, Weird Al Yankovic, Dave Matthews Band, Bela Fleck and the Flecktones, Clannad, Enya, old eighties stuff, some classic rock, big band music, swing, some dance, celtic, jazz, blues...too many to mention!

"True music must repeat the thought and inspirations of the people and the time. My people are Americans and my time is today."
George Gershwin


Movies:

I really prefer comedies...there's already enough drama and horror in the world without creating anything new!! I will occasionally take in a documentary or a light drama though if I really like the subject matter or actors involved. I love pretty much most things done by the following people...Steve Martin, Robin Williams, Bill Murray, Jim Carrey, Adam Sandler, Chris Farley, David Spade, Will Farrell, Ben Stiller, Jackie Chan, Drew Barrymore, John Cleese, Mike Myers...the list rolls on, and on.

Television:

I actually don't watch all that much T.V. but I enjoy the brit-coms. Ab-Fab is a total crack up, Fawlty Towers, and Are you being served? I try and catch Scrubs whenever I can, and I also enjoy watching The Office when I get a chance.

Heroes:

"Great deeds are usually wrought at great risks." ~ Herodotus







"It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows achievement and who at the worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."

Theodore Roosevelt ~ From a speech given in Paris at the Sorbonne in 1910.






My Blog

He was only 3 years old.

Alright, I know I posted this as a bulletin and it's on my page too but I was so deeply moved when I viewed this video this evening that I just want to make sure that as many people get this message a...
Posted by Buffie on Thu, 30 Nov 2006 10:05:00 PST

Pancakes

Six year-old Brandon decided one Saturday morning to fix his parents pancakes. He found a big bowl and spoon, pulled a chair to the counter, opened the cupboard and pulled out the heavy flour canister...
Posted by Buffie on Mon, 13 Nov 2006 10:20:00 PST

My favorite commercial.

Alright, I know this is totally silly but I really love this commercial. I admittedly don't watch alot of television but it seems that this commercial always pops on whenever I seem to be wa...
Posted by Buffie on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 11:53:00 PST

"She went to a party too."

When I was 18 I lost a friend to drunk driving. She was sober, the man that caused the accident had several drunk driving convictions and was driving without a license. He ran a red light at an inters...
Posted by Buffie on Thu, 14 Sep 2006 11:06:00 PST

Worth quoting

"I know. It's all wrong. By rights we shouldn't even be here. But we are. It's like in the great stories, Mr. Frodo. The ones that really mattered. Full of darkness and danger they were. And sometim...
Posted by Buffie on Tue, 12 Sep 2006 10:33:00 PST

September 11th 2001

Thank you to my good friend Curt for allowing me to use this poem. Two thousand one, nine elevenThree thousand plus arrive in heavenAs they pass through the gate,Thousands more appear in waitA bear...
Posted by Buffie on Mon, 11 Sep 2006 10:16:00 PST

Sand and Stone.

The following verse was posted as a bulletin from Love It Or Leave It (R-CA) on Sep 8, 2006 at 7:26 AM. I thought my little gaggle of readers may like to read this too. So, with pe...
Posted by Buffie on Fri, 08 Sep 2006 10:56:00 PST

Fly the Flag!!

Lets do it!!! Please join us in this FLY THE FLAG campaign and PLEASE copy and paste this blog and forward immediately to everyone in your address book asking them to also forward it. We have le...
Posted by Buffie on Thu, 07 Sep 2006 10:53:00 PST

Advice for children, teens and young adults.

This list is the work of Charles J. Sykes, author of the book Dumbing Down Our Kids: Why American Children Feel Good About Themselves But Can't Read, Write, Or Add. Rule 1: Life is not fair. Get used ...
Posted by Buffie on Tue, 11 Jul 2006 11:57:00 PST

God bless our President.

A moment with the President___________________________ For those of us who sometimes find ourselves having doubts about our President, here is an excellent piece worth every minute it takes to rea...
Posted by Buffie on Thu, 06 Jul 2006 12:31:00 PST