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Real Rita

Perfectly inperfect

About Me

This is me to the tee. I'm someone that will go out of the house to run erands without makeup on throwing on whatever clothes are available as you can see with my ragmuffin pic by the car. Just recently I left the house with shoes that had two different heels. I often have my tag sticking out in the back of my shirt. Details are not my forte so I seldom wear jewelry or other accessories.
I can be bold or timid. I can be the one going to person to person at a party, or sitting quietly in the corner. I feel most alive when I dance, do something silly or goofy, or sometimes just watching an inspiring movie. I'm hardly the perfect mother, but I do believe I instilled values in my boys and believed in them and their dreams.So here I am in all my inperfections. I'm a pretty open person, yet, I do have my layers like any woman does, so don't think you know all of me at first glance.
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.
In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.
You'd like to your lover to think you are optimistic and happy.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
In this moment, you think of love as something you can get or discard anytime. You're feeling self centered. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

My Interests


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Your Brain's Pattern
You have a dreamy mind, full of fancy and fantasy.
You have the ability to stay forever entertained with your thoughts.
People may say you're hard to read, but that's because you're so internally focused.
But when you do share what you're thinking, people are impressed with your imagination. What Pattern Is Your Brain?

Your Birthdate: December 18
You are a cohesive force - able to bring many people together for a common cause.
You tend to excel in work situations, but you also facilitate a lot of social gatherings too.
Beyond being a good leader, you are good at inspiring others.
You also keep your powerful emotions in check - you know when to emote and when to repress.

Your strength: Emotional maturity beyond your years

Your weakness: Wearing yourself down with too many responsibilities

Your power color: Crimson red

Your power symbol: Snowflake

Your power month: September What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

You are 80% Sagittarius
How much do you match your zodiac sign?

What Color Is Your Aura?
Your aura shines Red!
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Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:

You have low extroversion.
You are quiet and reserved in most social situations.
A low key, laid back lifestyle is important to you.
You tend to bond slowly, over time, with one or two people.

Conscientiousness:

You have low conscientiousness.
Impulsive and off the wall, you don't take life too seriously.
Unfortunately, you sometimes end up regretting your snap decisions.
Overall, you tend to lack focus, and it's difficult for you to get important things done.

Agreeableness:

You have high agreeableness.
You are easy to get along with, and you value harmony highly.
Helpful and generous, you are willing to compromise with almost anyone.
You give people the benefit of the doubt and don't mind giving someone a second chance.

Neuroticism:

You have medium neuroticism.
You're generally cool and collected, but sometimes you do panic.
Little worries or problems can consume you, draining your energy.
Your life is pretty smooth, but there's a few emotional bumps you'd like to get rid of.

Openness to experience:

Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality TestI edited my profile at Freeweblayouts.net , check out these Myspace Layouts!

I'd like to meet:

Men and women of all ages, interests and backgrounds. I like the slightly odd people, the ones that may not fit in any certain groups, because I know I don't quite fit in most places.

Personally I'm just looking to make friends right now, but if in time something more developes it would be wonderful. I'm looking to fall for my best friend, and that type of friendship takes time to develop.

Music:

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Your Taste in Music:


80's Rock: Highest Influence
Progressive Rock: Highest Influence
80's R&B: High Influence
90's Pop: High Influence
Adult Alternative: High Influence
Classic Rock: High Influence
90's Alternative: Medium Influence
90's Rock: Medium Influence
Country: Medium Influence
80's Pop: Low Influence
90's Hip Hop: Low Influence
Old School Hip Hop: Low Influence
R&B: Low Influence How's Your Taste in Music?

Movies:

.. FLIXSTER MCT RESULTS START -
My Movie Personality
My Top Rated Movies
Category My Ratings
Blockbusters Good
Comedies OK
Action OK
Love OK
More Stuff OK
How do we compare? Take the quiz
Check out my page on Flixster - add me if u r on!
http://realrita.flixster.com
.. FLIXSTER MCT RESULTS END -Singing In the Rain and Kiss me Kate are my favorite musicals.
Never Been Kissed is a movie that I most relate to in that I often feel awkward, dorky and out of place and that I don't think I still exchanged a kiss of true love.
Little Mermaid is my favorite Disney Movie.
Footloose and A Knights Tale are the two movies that make me want to get up and dance and feel I can conquer the world, or at least my little place in it.
I'm not a big horror movie fan but Night Mare on Elm Street is one that scared me most that I would watch again. I'm afraid to watch Exorcist again, had nightmares on that one for years.
I really dislike Quinten Taritino movies. For some reason I have a very bad habit of falling asleep only to wake up at the most disturbing parts in his movies.

Television:

I've turned into a reality Junkie. Starting Over, Survivor and Amazing Race are my don't miss shows. Beauty and the Geek is pretty interesting as well. Other shows I catch sometimes would be Gilmore Girls and How I met your mother are my favorite non reality shows, though I don't watch them every week. I also like 2 1/2 men. Charmed has lost most of it's charm for me but still catch it once in a while. Been a long time since I watch Reba and What I like about you, but I like those two also.

Books:


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Heroes:

My hero's are my parents, brother and sister, my godmother who died recently, and my friends and other family members, all for their own special reasons.

Plus these two women.
Shirley Temple

Rhonda Britten - Life Coach on Starting Over Read Rhonda's blog
to see why she is my hero along with the other Life Coaches and women in the Starting Over House.

My Blog

Breaking through

March 26, 2007 This week has been very challenging and rewarding for me. It's been rewarding because I have made some huge strides in overcoming my biggest challenges, mainly fear, procrastination an...
Posted by Real Rita on Tue, 20 Mar 2007 04:43:00 PST

Goodbye

Finally my first goodbye letter. This is dated on the day I will be leaving for good. You'll see what I mean when you read it. June 1, 2007You have been a wonderful friend and partner for the l...
Posted by Real Rita on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 07:43:00 PST

My appologies

I recently looked at my reader list and realized that my little experiment generated almost double my readership.  (could mean I have two instead of one now but you'll never know).  Then I s...
Posted by Real Rita on Thu, 08 Mar 2007 04:51:00 PST

UP IN SMOKE - maybe

I just read a Goodbye letter from Dan, The Gentleman of Leisure and this inspired me to write my own goodbye letters to the year 2006, my job at the family company, "I can't", and other bad habbits a...
Posted by Real Rita on Wed, 06 Dec 2006 08:42:00 PST

Do it when you least feel like it

Another slow start today.  Getting a flat tire last night threw my schedule off and I very much did not feel like writing this blog today.  This is when I most need to do it though, T...
Posted by Real Rita on Tue, 05 Dec 2006 09:33:00 PST

Brainstorming fun

After running around all morning I was finally able to get back home and get some things done today.  And it was very productive.  I was brainstorming to create a vision statement for a busi...
Posted by Real Rita on Mon, 04 Dec 2006 11:56:00 PST

It works

 I have been doing this for two days now where I set my intentions in the morning by writing a blog about it post dating it to the end of the day. Saturday was just what I said it would be, e...
Posted by Real Rita on Sun, 03 Dec 2006 09:31:00 PST

Socially active day

(Note the time.  I'm writing this as it already happened.  This is going to be a recurring thing so stay tuned.) I had a socially busy day today.  My nieces daughter had her birthday p...
Posted by Real Rita on Sat, 02 Dec 2006 11:35:00 PST

Weird Tag

Okay okay okay.  You got me Roxi.  I tried to get out of this with Amber but Roxi is now making me do this.  SHe threatened to post a blog on all my weird sleeping and driving habits if...
Posted by Real Rita on Wed, 22 Nov 2006 11:44:00 PST

I know nothing

I have noticed lately that in order to feel stronger about myself that I try to have all the answers.  Recently, because of the event that happened last week, I wrote a letter to someone, a very ...
Posted by Real Rita on Sat, 11 Nov 2006 09:35:00 PST