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Tom

Hi.

About Me

I'm 46 years old. I have been very happily married for 18-1/2 years. My wife Marianne and I have 2 daughters, Jenna (14) and Amy (11). My family is my life.
I grew up in Berwyn, IL, a suburb of Chicago. I was the 5th of 6 children. After marrying in 1988, Marianne and I lived in Northlake, IL for 4 years. Then we moved to McHenry, IL in 1992 and had our 2 children there. We left Illinois in March of 2000 and lived in Lockport, NY, Near Buffalo and Niagara Falls, until December of 2002, when we moved to Tucson, AZ. We have been in Tucson for 4-1/2 years. We moved last year to Marana, just northwest of Tucson. I work as a project manager for a commercial construction company in Tucson.
In what seems like a past life but was only the 1980s, I was a huge fan of the British science fiction show, Doctor Who. (In case anyone cares, it ran from 1963-1989, and then again from 2005-present.) It was pretty much my whole life back then. I collected and traded tapes of rare episodes, and I started my own Doctor Who club in 1983. I used to go to all of the Doctor Who conventions, and I worked at many of them. It was through my club that I met my wife. It was also through a common interest in Doctor Who (either directly or as a friend of one of my Doctor Who friends) that I met all of my Chicago friends. And it was through one of those Doctor Who friends that I got my first construction job. So Doctor Who has had a profound influence on every aspect of my life. I'm still a big fan, and I still have one of the best Doctor Who video collections in existence (about 300 tapes and DVDs).
My daughter Jenna introduced me to MySpace. She's on all the time. I decided to create my own account to see what she was doing on there so much. I had been under the impression that MySpace was just for kids. Then I found there are plenty of grown-ups on here too. So I decied to see if I can make some new friends. (All my old friends are back in Chicago.)
I've been on MySpace since January of '06, and I've met some pretty good friends here. Most of them are here in Tucson, but a few are far away. I've met some of them in person and am looking forward to meeting more. I'm hoping to become "real life" friends with some of them too.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Tom.
Birthday: June 14.
Birthplace: Oak Park, Illinois.
Current Location: Tucson, Arizona.
Eye Color: Brown.
Hair Color: Brown.
Height: 6'-0".
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right.
Your Heritage: Italian and German.
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black/gray Nikes with green swish.
Your Weakness: My kids. They can get me to do almost anything.
Your Fears: Something bad happening to my wife or kids.
Your Perfect Pizza: Home Run Inn Pepperoni.
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Make some new real-life friends.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: I rarely use IM, so none.
Thoughts First Waking Up: How happy I am to wake up next to my wife.
Your Best Physical Feature: People tell me it's my eyes.
Your Bedtime: Usually around 2 am (which sucks because I get up at 6:30).
Your Most Missed Memory: Having friends over monthly to play games, back in McHenry, Illinois.
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi.
MacDonalds or Burger King: Neither. I go to Wendy's.
Single or Group Dates: Single. Never been on a group one.
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Don't like ice tea.
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate, except for ice cream or milk shakes, then vanilla.
Cappuccino or Coffee: I hate coffee of all kinds.
Do you Smoke: No, never have.
Do you Swear: No.
Do you Sing: No.
Do you Shower Daily: Not every single day.
Have you Been in Love: Yes. Still am.
Do you want to go to College: Went for a while. No more.
Do you want to get Married: Have been for 18-1/2 years.
Do you belive in yourself: No. I don't exist.
Do you get Motion Sickness: Never.
Do you think you are Attractive: Not especially.
Are you a Health Freak: Not at all.
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes.
Do you like Thunderstorms: I love them.
Do you play an Instrument: No. Wish I did.
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: No.
In the past month have you Smoked: No.
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No.
In the past month have you gone on a Date: No.
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: No.
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No.
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: No, and I never will.
In the past month have you been on Stage: No.
In the past month have you been Dumped: No.
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Yes, all the time in our hot tub, and sometimes in our pool.
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No.
Ever been Drunk: Yes.
Ever been called a Tease: No.
Ever been Beaten up: No.
Ever Shoplifted: No. I actually stole one 5-cent pack of gum as a kid.
How do you want to Die: In my sleep at reasonably old age.
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Too late for that.
What country would you most like to Visit: No strong desire to go anywhere. Maybe some tropical island.
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Blue.
Favourite Hair Color: Brown.
Short or Long Hair: Long.
Height: Any.
Weight: Almost any.
Best Clothing Style: I have no style. Jeans and t-shirt I guess.
Number of Drugs I have taken: Zero. (except prescibed drugs)
Number of CDs I own: Over 600.
Number of Piercings: Zero.
Number of Tattoos: Zero.
Number of things in my Past I Regret: A few, but not many.
CREATE YOUR OWN! - or - GET PAID TO TAKE SURVEYS! ...
What American accent do you have? Your Result: The Inland North

You may think you speak "Standard English straight out of the dictionary" but when you step away from the Great Lakes you get asked annoying questions like "Are you from Wisconsin?" or "Are you from Chicago?" Chances are you call carbonated drinks "pop."


The Midland
The Northeast
Philadelphia
The South
The West
Boston
North Central
What American accent do you have?
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My Interests

I like movies a lot. My wife and I watch several each week, mostly on DVD. My main hobbies are audio/video and computers. I like nature and hiking. I love roller coasters and amusement parks. I love swimming and water parks too.

I'd like to meet:

First, I want it to be perfectly clear that I am happily married and I am not here for dating. So don't be afraid ladies, I will never try to "hit on you"

I'm just hoping to meet nice, regular, honest people who are interesting and fun to talk with. I get along with all types of people. I post a lot of surveys, and I especially like friends who respond to those. I'm mostly hoping to find local friends here in Tucson, but I'm happy to meet people from anywhere. I am not interested in friend "collecotrs" who never talk to me.
...

Music:

I love music. Mostly rock music from the 70s and 80s. I liked it when it was new, but now that I'm older, it's called "Classic rock". I like a lot of 80s and 90s pop too. I also like some acoustic folk music. I don't like country much and I absolutely hate rap.

Some of my favorites (in alphabetical order):
Asia
Bangles
The Beatles
Brandi Carlile
Belinda Carlisle
Harry Chapin
Phil Collins
Jim Croce
Bob Dylan
Genesis
Debbie Gibson
The Go-Go's
Susanna Hoffs
Billy Joel
Elton John
Steve Key
Avril Lavigne
Gordon Lightfoot
Madonna
Pink Floyd
Queen
REO Speedwagon
Linda Ronstadt
Bruce Springsteen
Styx
KT Tunstall
The Who
Yes

Movies:

Where to begin... There are so many. Here are a few of my favorites:
Drama:
The Shawshank Redemption
JFK
A Simple Plan
Fargo
Interstate 60
Thirteen Days
Sideways
Classics:
Treasure of the Sierra Madre
Casablanca
Gone with the Wind
The Wizard of Oz
Comedy:
South Park: Bigger, Longer, & Uncut
Beavis & Butthead Do America
Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
Dogma
There's Something About Mary
Meet the Parents
Romy & Michelle's High School Reunion
Naked Gun movies (order 1-2-3)
Musicals:
Evita
Chicago
Cabaret
The Wall
Tommy
Sci-Fi & Other:
Harry Potter movies (order 4-2-3-1)
Back to the Future movies (order: 1-3-2)
Indiana Jones movies (order 3-1-2)
Star Wars movies (order 5-6-4-3-2-1)
Star Trek movies (order 4-6-8-2-10-3-5-9-7-1)
Spider Man movies (order 1-2)...

Television:

I don't watch much TV. Mainly just Survivor and Letterman.
All time favorite show: Doctor Who (British Sci-Fi series)
I like a lot of British comedies like Monty Python, Fawlty Towers, Black Adder, and Red Dwarf.
My favorite American shows are Beavis & Butt-Head, South Park, Star Trek Voyager, and Star Trek the Next Generation....

Books:

I'm not much of a reader, but I like to listen to audio books. My favorite is "I Know This Much Is True" by Wally Lamb. I liked "Angels and Demons" by Dan Brown a lot too.

Heroes:

I don't think I really have any.

My Blog

Memories of 9/11/01

I posted this last year, but I decided to bring it back.  I think it's good for me to re-read this at least once a year. On this 5th anniversary of the 9/11/01 attacks, I decided to share my expe...
Posted by Tom on Tue, 12 Sep 2006 04:59:00 PST

New Truck

I bought a new truck yesterday.  It's a 2007 Toyota Tacoma X-Runner.  I think I'm going to love it.  Here are some pictures:   ...
Posted by Tom on Wed, 08 Aug 2007 02:04:00 PST

New Job

I'm starting my new job tomorrow, and I'm very excited about it.  It's a similar position to my last job, but with a larger, better company.  I'm going to be a project manager for one of the...
Posted by Tom on Wed, 08 Aug 2007 01:53:00 PST

Personality Test

This is reasonably accurate I think. ..> Advanced Global Personality Test Results ..> ..> Extraversion |||| 20% Stability |||||||||||||||||||| 83% Orderliness |||||||||| 36% Accommodatio...
Posted by Tom on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 11:58:00 PST

Let's Try This Again...

Attention Tucson friends:Marianne and I would like to host a game night at our house.  I'd like to do it next Saturday (5/26) if people are available that date.  Otherwise, 6/2 and 6/23 are ...
Posted by Tom on Sun, 20 May 2007 11:15:00 PST

Going to Chicago

I'm leaving early Thursday morning to go to Chicago.  I'll be visiting my mom and hopefully all 4 of my sisters.  And a few good friends.  I can't wait to have some real Chcago pizza.&n...
Posted by Tom on Wed, 09 May 2007 02:37:00 PST

Game Night 3/31

  Update: 3/25/07: Saturday, March 31, 6:30pm - whenever.  If you would like to come, please let me know, and I'll give you directions.  Thanks. Update: 3/13/07: It looks like the best...
Posted by Tom on Sat, 24 Feb 2007 10:59:00 PST

1 Year

I've been on MySpace a whole year now.  I decided that the anniversary give me a good reason to write about my MySpace experience.  It's been interesting getting to know a little bit about s...
Posted by Tom on Sat, 03 Feb 2007 11:41:00 PST

Thanksgiving Movies

Marianne and I like to watch a lot of movies.  We have plenty of Christmas movies, but we only have 2 Thanksgiving movies that we watch every year.  They are Planes, Trains, and Automobiles ...
Posted by Tom on Wed, 22 Nov 2006 11:55:00 PST

7 Deadly Sins

I just took a 7 Deadly Sins Quiz. It looks like I'm going to Hell for liking porn. It's not fair!  Why did God make women so beautiful, and then make it a sin to look at them?  What a cruel ...
Posted by Tom on Mon, 30 Oct 2006 09:23:00 PST