"Big Sexy" Steve

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us. E.M. Forster
It is better to be hated for who you are then loved for who you aren't!!
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between 2 "wolves" inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather:
"Which wolf wins?!"
The old Cherokee simply replied:
"The one you feed."
WAZZUP ALL! I've pondered what to put here but I've decided I'm too interesting to be narrowed down to a few sentences. Those that know me would probably describe me as hilarious, caring, and one helluva person that will always come to the rescue whenever needed. I've been living in this vivacous town for quite a while and every day something else comes along to amaze me. Mostly the drivers, but still..........
Anyway, I'm a native Pennsylvanian and a DIE HARD STEELERS FAN!! I'm looking to meet some great people here in town and around the world. One can never have too many friends. My life is an open book so feel free to drop me a line and ask me whatever you want. Talk to you all later!!
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My Interests

STEELERS FOOTBALL(SUPERBOWL XL CHAMPS!!), TOLEDO ROCKET FOOTBALL, PENN STATE FOOTBALL, PITTSBURGH PENGUINS, PITTSBURGH PIRATES, ATLANTA FALCONS, ATLANTA THRASHERS, Texas Hold 'Em Poker, Blackjack, Travel, Movies, Theatre, Music, Partying, Alcohol, Sitting on my butt!!

I'd like to meet:

My one, true, special lady and lots of other people but I really want to meet the ones who inspire me to do great things.

Music:

Everything from Garth Brooks to 2 Pac, from Outkast to Beethovan

Movies:

I'll watch all movies. Just not big on Horror flicks.

Television:

SIMPSONS AND FAMILY GUY!!!!!!!!

Books:

When I do read, I enjoy fiction. Westerns, war stories, spy stories. Tom Clancy and John Grisham.

Heroes:

Jesus, Mom and Dad, Sisters (even though they don't claim me!! HAHAHA!!), a couple of friends of mine that fought cancer and didn't win the battle, my friends who fought overseas for our freedom in Iraq and Afgahanstan.

My Blog

A Loss

I usually try to be pretty upbeat in my blogs but tonight I have to open my heart just a little.  I'm usually the strong one and not much gets to me............or so I'd like everyone to think.&n...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:20:00 PST

I like selling drugs!!

Hey all.  I just wanted to let you know that at the end of March I decided to leave Brinks.  It didn't have anything to do with management or me being unhappy.  I always knew that Brin...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Thu, 17 Apr 2008 07:21:00 PST

All shook up

Well I'm two months into being 30 and I haven't exploded yet so maybe I might actually make it through.  I know that I've been doing a lot of whining and complaining about being 30 to some of you...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:22:00 PST

Drop it like it's hot for 2008!!

My sister reposted this from last year and I've decided to repost it again as well.  We all need to realize that the baggage we carry with us does nothing but destroy us and our relationships.&nb...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Thu, 04 Jan 2007 02:39:00 PST

Reflections upon turning 30

Ah yes.  Good ol' MYSPACE blog.  Ya know, I haven't written here in a while even though I've been thinking about alot of things lately.  My birthday is Saturday and I'll be the big 3-0....
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Wed, 26 Dec 2007 11:47:00 PST

Good Directions and Turnip Greens

This may go along with my last blog but it's definately a different spin.  We know that directions will lead us to our ultimate destinations.  And we know that the eyes are the "windows to t...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Wed, 18 Jul 2007 08:11:00 PST

Will I-85 North Take Me To Florida???

There are days I sit back and look around at everything in my life.  Sometimes I realize that all the decisions I made have led me to this point in my life.  And sometimes.................I ...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Wed, 13 Jun 2007 09:34:00 PST

Confessions of a Flordia Virgin

So I haven't written in a while and I know my last few blogs have been "copy/paste".  Sue me.  The "Original Thought" Police haven't been around to arrest me yet so I guess I'm ok and off th...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 09:14:00 PST

The Concert

..>  My father send the following to me today in an email.  It spoke to me and I wanted to share it with you.  I hope you find it as an encouragement no matter what you may be going ...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Sun, 04 Mar 2007 03:15:00 PST

A jarring experience reminds me how blessed I am

Well, in this season of giving and reflection, I had an eye-opening experience today.  I was on I-285 in Atlanta today and as I was passing a semi, a new Lincoln Navigator decided he wanted to be...
Posted by "Big Sexy" Steve on Sun, 17 Dec 2006 07:44:00 PST